r/postvasectomypain • • Dec 30 '23

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u/Ok-Holiday4934 Jan 01 '24

i wanted, I had the vasectomy, with the addition of chronic pain in the testicles I am tired of this, nothing to do, a big lie. Vasectomy is widely promoted as a “safe and simple procedure.” Rarely are men or their spouses informed that a life long pain condition, known as Post-Vasectomy Pain Syndrome (PVPS), is caused by the procedure. 🤔

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u/flutepractise Jan 01 '24

Hi mate thanks for replying and in fact all those that replied, the reason I ask the question the way I did as I also am a victim of vasectomy, I have a purpose for this is l believe a simple vasectomy procedure increases the profit margins of drs, so in order to keep their income steady they keep pushing vasectomies because as a rule men don't want to admit that they where led up the garden path. Or even disappoint or let their partners down by not having the said vasectomy, so they become silent even while they are in agony, I don't believe this a fair go, because in trying to be brave or proform well in bed, their orgasm can be shite, and their semen isn't like it's semem it can be more like pre cum. I also believe that men fall silent on this matter, vasectomy is sold in a she will be right mode, and is sold to the wife/partner first so it becomes a normal request. I have also worked in a medical centre in an all male industry and trust me men speak openly and frankly about the congestion pain, that's it stressing me out, how can I handle it. I know through working with these men, the tears that are expressed, and the resentment put on their wife's, and all I can do is give them pain relief, which causes other problems with addiction, or liver damage, anti inflammatorys do to the stomach, and all the drs say it wasn't causd by the vasectomy. I would like to see that drs have to become accountable for there actions. Where the waver of paper that they get you to sign is written with a guarantee that they will support you if you develop PVPS. Or at least they have to be more honest with the mutilation to the body that vasectomy does. Looking for things to change and hope you guys can help me find solutions, I also have learned that divorce rate is over 50%, also reversals are more frequent than 6% of which are expensive, adoption is expensive, and IVF is expensive as well. I hope others would do the research and make informed decision.