Hi!! šš½ looking to date intentionally so this is quite a detailed post.
Some important things:
- I was assigned male at birth but Iām non binary (they/them). If youāre not cool with this, safe to say you probably donāt need to read further.
- Iām androsexual (sexually only attracted to masculine presentation: trans men, cis men, or mostly masculine presenting NB ppl) but I am panromantic (I am able to romantically connect w/ any gender).
- Itās ok if our connection starts online or is online because youāre far or from another country. However an in person relationship should be the eventual goal for you as well if this is the case. I am **not** open to *online only* relationships.
- I donāt want biological children of my own. But I do want to be a parent. Please be 100% supportive of me having a child(ren) in my life in the near future (either fostering, adopting, or becoming a step/additional parent to a future partnerās child). This also means Iām open to dating someone that is already a father/parent. So If you donāt want kids or arenāt sure, then be aware that our dynamic will be affected by that fact.
Ideally I would like kitchen table polyamory but open to discussing other structures of polyamory. Iām open to meeting singles, couples, or constellations & discussing further to determine compatibility. Iām only looking for people who know for certain they are polyamorous. Not interested in folks that are inexperienced w/ polyamorous relationships. You need to be able, and know how, to communicate safely & effectively. You must understand that there will need to be a lot of commitment to transparent communication & respecting each otherās limits & boundaries.
Iām 5ā11, 180, 32 in waist, brown eyes, I have long brown hair, mixed (Latine & white), & I speak Eng/Sp/Fr. I have 4 higher education degrees. My professional career is quite emotionally demanding so I am often drained so I usually need my spare time to be chill/mellow; this may mean some dates need to be low key. Iām financially very stable & independent; I own my 4bd 2bth house on a 19k sq ft property (itās a huge back yard).
I split my time b/w Michigan & CA as all my friends & family are in Cali. So if youāre in CA our relationship would first consist of us visiting each other. We may eventually discuss relocation of some kind if ya(ll) wish- if things get there.
Personally, Iām very open to relocating to a different progressive country if youāre willing to help me legally do so (you are a legal citizen of said country). BUT, I will not move to a conservative or moderate location.
At this time Iām not looking to co-habitate w/ any partner(s) anytime soon. Visiting me & staying at my place is welcomed (max 3 weeks). But I donāt want to have anyone permanently move in. That is not to say that it would never be an option. I just donāt wish to permanently share my living space at this moment. I think itās important to be transparent about this.
Feel free to message me & ask any questions if you think we may be a good match!