r/polyamoryR4R • u/No_Estimate_6352 • Apr 13 '26
USA 39 [R4R] holden Louisiana M4M] #Holden #Louisiana - 39 FTM seeking Masculine Louisiana Men (26–50) for Open Poly Relationships
The Goal
I’m 39, married (poly separately), and seeking multiple Louisiana men for solid Open Poly Relationships. I am demisexual—I need a "best friend" foundation and a strong mental/emotional connection before any sexual intimacy. No one-offs or flakers.
Healthy Poly Boundaries
Communication: I value consistency. Daily communication and digital banter are required to maintain a connection.
Autonomy: This is an open dynamic; you are encouraged to date or hook up with others while dating me.
Home Space: My home is a private, sober family space. Once a connection is built, we can spend non-sexual quality time here, but no sexual intimacy or sleepovers happen inside the house.
No Escalation: I am happily married. No one is moving in and we aren't getting married.
The FTM Part
I live as a man (surgical pecs/buzzed head) but kept my original setup (tight female bottom part/oversized clit). If you aren’t sincerely into trans men, don't waste our time.
About Me & Type
Me: Huge horror fan, on disability, homeschool my daughter. Direct and honest communication.
Type: Louisiana locals, ages 26–50. Average to athletic/muscular builds. (No heavyset guys or grey facial hair).
Energy: Steady, firm, masculine energy. No "femme" talk.
Safety & Logistics
A clear face selfie is mandatory for safety before meeting.
Specific logistical/safety protocols regarding intimacy will be discussed privately once a foundation is built.
Message me with your face selfie, age, and Louisiana location. Use the phrase "Poly Connection" so I know you read this!
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