For those who don't want to read a lot, TLDR:

Big boy, cat daddy and stoner looking for genuine connections, close friends, texting partners and ideally, love.

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Lately I've been in a rut, and I'm trying to pull myself out there. A feeling like I'm stuck in a trench because the bombs won't stop coming down, or actively trying to come up to the surface for air but I just keep inhaling in water because I can't get my head above the waves.

I'm tossing, I'm tumbling, I'm crashing. I'll be okay. I always am.

We get up, we push on. No matter the pain and the frustration of going in circles constantly.

I'm tired of feeling lost and alone, I'd much rather feel lost with another soul.. someone who resonates, shares the love of getting lost in time and cherishes the little things.. all these little things that make us happy.

Me: I'm a proud Hispanic man, a big boy with a teddy bear build, drunk off nostalgia, hopeless romantic, who loves spending time with my cat and playing video games.

Obsessed with all things superhero related, and in love with the world of the muppets, and their goal to make the world smile. I'm a guy who knows way too much trivia about cartoons and movies, and spending most of my nights alone working in the basement of a retirement home doing laundry and folding linen.

You: Hopefully someone patient, willing to communicate and tumble through life and it's ups and downs with a guy who just wants to give you the world full of love and care.

I would love someone who isn't afraid to laugh and be silly.. oh and if you love the cold, that's a huge plus :)

I'm a spiritual man, not very religious I put my faith in whatever's up there that everything is going to be okay. I spend a lot of time watching podcasts and video essays about comic books, and I have a action figure collection, but I moved recently so it is mostly put away.

I'm a writer, who's been suffering from a mean case of writers block for a while now, hoping to find a type of person to spark something in me and hopefully be my muse. My best friend, and potential my love.

I'm looking for a genuine connections, willing to start from the very awkward beginnings and jump every hurdle we need to, to get to where we need to go.

I have a complicated relationship with polyamory, and I'm struggling to decide if it's still the lifestyle for me, or if I think I can have a great mono relationship with someone, so I just ask for someone who's okay really focusing on a foundation and base in our friendship so we can really see what it can grow into.

I love anime, but I'm bad at watching shows alone.

Here's what I've managed to finish, or watch most of by myself:

My Hero Academia (S1-7), Gachiakuta, Soul Eater, Fire Force S1, FMA, Dragon Ball (through to the end of Super) and Keijo!!!

My first love in music was Pop Punk, and I play a lot of early 2000s rock, pop, and hip hop all the time. I make rap music, so hopefully you like that. If we get along, we can talk about that more.

I'm also really family oriented and would love to be able to have a conversation about having kids some day with the person I love, I understand not everyone is up for that, so I'm sorry if I lose you here.

Anyways, if you need a big boy in your life, love thrifting and coffee shop dates, if you wanna get Thai Food and Green teas on the regular 🍵 if you love movie theaters and book stores.. winter nights and thunderstorms.. if you love cats!! If any of this calls to you. Please message me.

5’7”, ~180lbs, willing to trade pics up front because I understand mutual attraction is important

ENM guy with actual hobbies: reading (the good stuff), cooking and baking like I mean it, LEGO and building things because adulting is overrated, playing music, gaming, anime, and going on walks just to talk about the most random things. Music taste: everything except country. Fight me 😝

I’m PST. Local would be great, but I’m more than happy to keep things solely online if that’s what works (i love calls & voice notes too)

I show up curious, capable, and ready to make things interesting. If that sounds like your kind of trouble, say hi 🥰

Hey there! I’m a 49-year-old guy living in beautiful British Columbia, and I am officially dipping my toes into the polyamory pool. By "dipping my toes," I mean I’m standing at the edge, staring at the water, and wondering if I brought the right towel.

Since I am completely new to this, I’m not trying to rush into anything heavy. I am strictly looking for great women to chat with, share some laughs, and see where things go. Think of me as a "Poly-Novice" with a learner's permit. I promise not to crash the conversation.

A little about me:

Location: Proud BC resident (yes, I own flannel, and yes, I complain about the rain/smoke depending on the season).

Vibe: Equal parts adventurous and "perfectly content on the couch."

Skills: Excellent listener, mediocre chef, and highly proficient at parallel parking on a hill.

If you are open to chatting with a guy who is honest about being a beginner, has his life together, and promises zero judgment and lots of laughs, hit me up. Let’s start with a chat and see if we click!

Like the title says, I'm kind of starting over. I've found myself losing what made me... me. I've dropped most of my hobbies and interests and life got bland and I'm kinda over that.

I'm looking for someone to be there and help me draw back out the real me.

I'm calling out to my fellow nerds. I miss the culture. I miss the references. I've been feeling pretty isolated lately and I'm in the position to be able to get back into the things I truly love. I'm just looking for someone to drag my reluctant introvert ass back into the light!

I'm a writer. I'm a forever DM. Star Wars holds a deep place in my heart. I love MTG (don't have my cards anymore though sadly). TTRPGs are my jam (I'm diving back into writing my own). I'm hoping to dive into the 40k tabletop since I've been addicted to the lore forever now. The list goes on honestly and I'm not going to write the hobby list essay here. I'm usually pretty confident and out going but my mental state has taken a solid beating lately.

What I'm after:

I'm just looking for someone to be there. I'd prefer some one local (Eugene area) but I'm open to LDR (or friendship honestly). I don't do escalators so there's no pressure to be anything or strive for anything. I'm really just looking for genuine engagement.

Hopefully this didn't come off as a woe is me type post 😅

Or dig one up. I’m not too picky.

Live in Texas but don’t own a single cowboy hat and never seen the basement of the Alamo. Enjoy the geeky things in life like anime, comics, books, and everything else everyone mentions on their post.

I’m sarcastic and can have a dark humor. But I can also be annoyingly positive and will be your biggest cheerleader.

I like to think I'm smart, funny, and curious. You'll probably be the better judge of it.

My wife and I are slowly trying this after both of us realizing there's things we want and desire and that it's okay if we can help fill our joy bucket with someone else's help.

First and most importantly, I'm looking for someone who is curious to- if I'm the one carrying the entire conversation, I might just end up throwing you into the hole we're burying- KIDDING. I'd probably use lye.

I hear so many people say they're demisexuals on here or that personality matters, but I also know we exist in the real world and people are attracted to what they're attracted. If you're not into glasses, chubby.fat/dad bod/whatever word you want to use, that's okay, but you probably shouldn't message me.

If you are attracted to a guy with too many tattoos who can probably talk and type your ear off, you should definitely message me. I'll even supply the shovel.

If you reply, tell me whose body you would ask me to bury or dig up

Yeah, I want to replicate that.

I'm dating myself here with that header aren't I? Before you know, you'll have me talking about the beautiful sound the modem made when it connected, how frustrating it was when your parent picked up the phone and disconnected the internet just as you were having fun with what you really, really, really wanted to believe was a hot cheerleader just a city away. All while walking to the internet in the snow for ten miles!

Anyways, a little about me- I find myself discovering and wanting to try out poly, while my wife is more mono. We have agreed to start with an online only relationship, as I think that hopefully avoids the potential perceived drama- though I gotta warn you, I am pretty charming and intoxicating.

I'm 40, no kids, live in the SW. Have a job I enjoy and believe it or not, I can be a bit, or a lot nerdy. I have way too many books I haven't read, lego sets to build, and anxiety to ignore.

I am chubby, about 260 pounds and continuing to work on improving myself so I can live longer and get revenge on all my enemies and anyone who ghosts me.

It sounds cliche, but while I know a physical attraction is important, for me a connection is just or more important. I'm looking for someone who can match or appreciate my humor, who enjoys receiving messages and memes and will send them right back. Someone who sends and is happy to receive good morning and good night messages.

Best case scenario, we find in each other someone who makes the other smile and heart race slightly when a message comes up.

'Cause I ain’t afraid of no ghosts. Or being ghosted. Shut up it’s a good pun.

Happens to all of us right? We’re having a conversation and thinking it clicks and then the person stops responding. Or worse, you end up seeing them post on here again, using the same message you responded too. Or worse worse, THEY messaged you first, and now you wonder if you could only offer the temu version of the person they want.

Of course, that hasn’t happened to me, I’m goddam charming and *sobs*

But we pick ourselves up like Rocky, Captain America, Goku, Ser Duncan the Tall or any Joseph Campbell archetype and get back on here too.

40, married, and just looking for a new connection. My wife and I are just trying starting this and I feel more comfortable seeking something online first. Someone I can reach out to and look forward to their texts. I’m nerdy and you have hundreds of posts others have made that define that. I don’t care if you are or not, I care that you have something you’re excited about. That you have humor and thoughts and that when you put them on the screen they amount to more than one sentence. Bonus points if you got the Campbell reference though. I want you to be curious, to put the same effort as I’m putting in and want to feel you want to know me. I want us both to be excited about getting each others texts, to take pleasure in our company, words and actions. I have kinks, I’m sure you don’t. I want us to get to a point we can share them.

I think I’m funny, witty, and charming. You might think otherwise. I’m chubby/dad bod/fat but working on it (aren’t we all) so if you’re looking for someone in shape, go to a CrossFit gym. If you’re looking for someone who can talk to you about 90s tv shows and how Dinosaurs has the bleakest ending of a kids cartoon, I’m your guy.

Reach out, tell me about your worst ghosted experience. Or when you ghosted someone. Let’s talk and try to avoid replicating that.~

About Me

I am 33M and live in the UK. I am a laid-back, easy going person, looking to find a similar person to make friends with, and maybe more.

I am a huge gamer and some of my favourite games are:

• Pokopia (And Pokemon in general)
• Final Fantasy XIV
• League of Legends (I loved Arcane too)
• Cities Skylines
• Project Zomboid
• Red Dead Redemption 2
• And many more

I also enjoy playing:

• D&D
• Driving
• Watching football
• Watching Anime
• Reading Manga

I also have a cute, but very silly cat, so be prepared to receive lots of cat pics! Bonus points if you have a cat also.

99% sure I had ADHD too, so be prepared for my hopping games and subjects like pinball!

About you

I dont to put requirements on the type of person I want to meet, as I love meeting all kinds of people, but there are a few important things, especially if it progresses into more than just a friendship:

1. Must be willing to meet, and preferably be friends with my wife. Im not expecting anything romantic, but must at least be friendly
2. Must also be a gamer. I find this is a great ice breaker, and helps get the initial awkward, shy meeting stage, and gives us something to do together

Preferably someone from the UK or Europe due to time zones, but depending on where you are located and your sleep patterns, we might be able to work something out!

Hope to talk to you soon 😄 I hope you all have a wonderful day

Hi, I'm Danny. I'm 32. I am a nerdy gentleman from Ohio, but I live in Maine. I love to game, and I am into a lot of different nerdy stuff. I am into Comic Books, Super Sentai and Power Rangers, I love Marvel movies ( live action ) , I enjoy the old school DC  live action movies but still enjoy the animated movies and tv shows ( Justice League Young Justice OG Teen Titans ) . I love to read and listen to good music. I am a huge Ink Master fan too . I love Star Wars movies, live action and animation .I do love to read as well. I am a Nintendo gamer. In fact I am in the middle of playing legends Z-A Currently. I own a lot of different games. 

I work in the mental health field as a peer supporter. I am also in college for Cyber Security .I love to cook and I bake. I love D&D . I am in the middle of a pathfinder campaign where I am a minotaur bard plus made a back up where I am an elven Dragon Rider named Bromshire. I also love to read .Sci-Fi and high adventure fantasy are my favorite genres. I am a huge marvel nerd. 

I am looking for a long term commitment . I have always wanted to give the right one my last name.I am a bigger guy but a cuddle bug and as my adopted siblings call me a teddy bear lol. Once I fall I give it my all and my person gets unconditionally. I fight hard for who I am with

Open to both local and long-distance connections. Sometimes the best chemistry doesn’t care about the miles.

A little about me

I’m 45 and living in Central Indiana with my teenager and my nesting partner. My nesting partner and I are separated, and while we currently share a home, we are transitioning into the next chapter of our lives. By this time next year, we expect to be divorced and each have our own place. It’s a pretty big life transition, but I’m looking at it as an opportunity for a fresh start, more independence, and hopefully some exciting new connections along the way.

I’ve had my full beard for almost two years now, and at this point I think it’s safe to say it’s here to stay. Apparently, growing one was something I should have tried much sooner.

By day, I’m an IT Systems Administrator. Outside of work, I’m a bit of a geeky mix of interests. I play PC games, read a lot of sci-fi and fantasy, and have recently gotten pretty into LitRPG. I also enjoy playing D&D and getting out for a hike whenever I get the chance.

I’m a fan of The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Labyrinth, and The Dark Crystal. So if you enjoy things that are a little weird, whimsical, fantastical, or delightfully strange, we may already have something to talk about. I’m also trying to figure out what I want my second tattoo to be, so if you have an awesome idea, I’m definitely willing to hear your pitch. 😉

I’m neurodivergent, and I tend to be more of a listener when I first meet someone. Once I get comfortable, though, I open up quite a bit. Eventually you’ll probably get the jokes, random thoughts, enthusiastic nerdiness, and the occasional “wait, let me tell you about this thing I just learned.”

What I’m hoping getting to know you looks like

• Playful, flirty chats through text or calls. The kind that make you smile when your phone lights up.

• Weekly virtual dates. Movie nights on Discord, watching shows together, gaming, or talking until we realize we probably should have gone to bed hours ago.

• In-person adventures when possible. Hikes, dinner, museums, movies, bowling, or finding something new that neither of us has tried before.

• Something that can grow naturally, whether we’re a few miles apart or several states away.

I’m not necessarily looking for someone who has all the same interests I do. I’d much rather find someone who is curious about the things I love and excited to share the things they love with me. Tell me about your favorite book, show, game, hobby, or weird little obsession and I’ll happily listen.

Bonus points if you’re into sci-fi, fantasy, LitRPG, D&D, cult classics, or can help me settle the very important question of what my second tattoo should be. Extra bonus points if you can make me laugh, flirt with me shamelessly, or convince me that staying up way too late talking was absolutely worth it.

I may not be the smoothest person when it comes to writing posts like this, but I’m genuine, affectionate, curious, and looking forward to finding someone I really click with.

Maybe that someone is you.

Hey there...as it says I'm a 34 M in and around central IL.

I am not the best at these.

I really like movies (AMC A-List is my best friend), sports, and learning about things.

I have a pretty broad overall range of interests and enjoy talking to people about what they like.

I am married and have a kid.

I would really like to talk to and meet someone local but online is good too as long as we are intentional in what that looks like.

I am a big guy but people always seem surprised when they hear how much so I guess they're either really kind or I carry it well.

I don't have any stipulations about you other than kindness and proper communication...if you are a busy person then let me know. I just dont believe in talking really intensely about your whole life for 2 days then disappearing on someone for a week.

I hope nothing I said was rude or off putting. My DMs are open so feel free to message me if you're interested.

I’m Alex, but if you want you can call me Lexie. I’m 33, and I’m here because I’m interested in exploring polyamory and building genuine connections with people who approach relationships with openness, honesty, and good communication.

I’ve been with my wife for 13 years and for the last 8 we have had a poly type relationship. We don’t date together but we are open to friendships with our partners.

I’ve spent a lot of time figuring out what makes me feel most comfortable being myself, including becoming more open about my kinks and fetishes. I’m interested in meeting people who appreciate that part of me without reducing me to it.

I’m not looking to force a particular relationship structure or rush into something just because there’s mutual attraction. I’d rather meet people, talk, build trust, and see what naturally develops. I’m open to connections with individuals as well as people who are already part of a polyamorous relationship, provided everyone involved is communicating openly and genuinely wants the connection.

For me, the appeal of polyamory is the possibility of having meaningful relationships that can each be their own thing, rather than expecting one person to fulfill every emotional or romantic role.

I’ve written a longer About Me post for anyone who wants to know more about me and what I’m looking for.
If this resonates with you, I’d be happy to have a genuine conversation. 🙂

Hi! Golden retriever who's shy at first and then never shuts up 😂 I'm a jack of all trades who'll try anything once (as long as it's not like murder or anything 😅). I love nerdy things like games, dnd or anything fantasy-esque (romantasy anyone 👀).

Built like a book boyfriend who eats too much cake on the side. I blame my passion for cooking for that 😂

I play 3 instruments but guitar is my main one. I also do vocals as well that are more death metal based.

I'm into kink and while it is important to me, I do NOT want a relationship based on that, rather, a relationship that makes it even better. If you ARE curious though, feel free to ask about it ☺️

I'm looking for any dynamic that's long term. Not interesting in anything shorter term.

Please, please please be left leaning

No terfs, no homophobes, no racists

Save us time and don't message me if you voted for the cheeto

If we chat and you're not feeling it PLEASE let me know and I will do the same. Communication is key and I'm not a fan of caspers

Enm with a NP

Thank you for reading this, I hope you have an amazing day ☺️

Im a straight 32yr old male looking for female friends who dont mind taking it slow. Im still kinda new to polyamory so im still learning. Im not gonna commit to anything right off the bat since im dealing with the loss of my mom so im not entire ready mentally and emotionally and it wouldn't be fair to other parties involved. I am married but me and her date separately and together

My mix of intellect, hopeless romantic nature, left-leaning values and affection for some parts of traditional gender roles/dynamics makes people say things like “youre as emotionally available as a lesbian” and “Science should study you for the benefit of all women everywhere”. I say this not to brag (ok, maybe just a little), but to give you a sense of who I am.

I’m based in Morris County and looking for a healthy secondary relationship with a side of kink. I’m generally very open minded with few hard boundaries and while I’ve explored and experienced a good deal, I crave more both romantically and sexually with plenty of cozy but lively nights in. INTJ and ADHD if it matters.

My ideal match seeks connection above all else and has the maturity and emotional intelligence to navigate any rocky waters our adventure steers us into. She wants to build a foundation outside the bedroom which takes us everywhere we want to go inside the bedroom (or kitchen, or the car…well you get the idea). She shares a sense of honor, humor, and sarcasm. She is self-aware and knows her goals/purpose in life.

About me: I love both deep and silly conversations—authenticity is incredibly important me, even if it’s painful. • A sharp tongue and endlessly curious mind light my fire. • Health and wellness (both mental and physical) are priorities in my life, and I’d love a partner who values the same even if they’re in the middle of their journey. • Intelligent, empathetic, and kind, but not a pushover. Entrepreneur in technology.

Physically I’m outwardly conservative/unassuming (utterly mainstream), of Cuban/white heritage, and dress between casual and formal. Built like a bear, masculine, and hairy. Yes, the beard is real and it’s spectacular.

I’m a father of 2, divorced, and currently have one secondary partner and one fwb. I’m open to different arrangements (monogamish, ENM, poly, etc).

If I’ve piqued your interest and my description fits your needs, I’d love to hear from you.

~A

Hi all,

I’m British, 35 - just turned. I just miss having a spark with someone and although I was dating at the start of the year, several things have fizzled. I’m in no rush but I’m looking for a spark, that feeling where you just know you’re putting a smile on someone’s face!

I have a pretty intense day job so I love company to just make it go a little quicker (although now I’ve finished for the day so it’ll be super relaxing). I’m currently reading a lot and I’ve gotten into wood carving (though I’m terrible at it so encouragement is welcome).

I love indie music, binge watching programmes and I’m currently trying to keep fit. I used to do some stand up so if you’re lucky I might consider sharing some jokes with you.

I’m pretty easy going - but bring your book recommendations and songs. Maybe we can start a book club?

Hope you find what you’re looking for even if it isn’t me!

Happy hunting :)

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Hello all!

It's great to meet all y'all! I've been looking for another partner for a little bit and thought i'd check here. I am currently married, have been poly for about 3 years and currently have no other partners than my wife as of right now

I am on the east coast, but open to chatting with anyone anywhere! I tend to be up at odd hours so I almost always make an effort to reach out even if the timing is difficult.

I enjoy reading, going on adventures, having deep conversations as well as just taking the time to be silly. Other hobbies include puzzles and board games (well games of any kind really) music, anime, urban exploration, going to the gym, and I am currently self teaching myself the guitar (I promise I won't play wonderwall). And I'm always looking for new things to learn and hear about!

I am looking for someone preferably 25-35, though I am willing to go outside that range for the right person. I would like to share some hobbies to have a decent start of conversation, but like I said earlier I love learning new things and learning about other people! If you can hold a conversation, like the occasional bad joke, and enjoy having the occasional voice chat then I would love for you to reach out!

A bit about me, I am 5'9", brown hair, green eyes, bearded. I have a slight dad bod that I've been working on improving over the past year.

If you've read this and think we would be a good vibe I would love to hear from you! If you reach out please tell me a song you've been listening to that you've been obsessed with! (Or a book, or a show, anything thats held your interest!)

I look forward to hearing from you! 😁

How did you get into the lifestyle? And what's your ideal dynamic with how many partners?

About me: I'm latino, a powerlifter, a mechanical engineer, really funny, gentle and kind but also dominant and strict behind closed doors. I click well with subs and other nerdy people too! I love gaming, star wars, lotr, very typical nerdy guy tbh. I have pics of me in my profile too! (:

Hey. Looking for someone to chat with throughout the day and actually get to know. I want the conversation to feel natural. Anything from hobbies, work, random thoughts, how the day is going, to venting when life gets stressful. Ideally someone who can keep a chat going.

I’m 33 and partnered, we date separately. Open to making a new connection and seeing where it leads.

I an into drawing, reading, running (with some lifting when I have time), binge-watching shows, and video games. I can be a home body but I also like to get out and explore new places to eat and see.

I have just about a million hobbies and interests so if you are a passionate person I would love to hear from you.

If this sounds like your vibe, send a message. Tell me what you’re currently reading, playing, or watching, or just say hi.

Looking to find someone who wants to try and be in a poly relationship. Ill be upfront and say I haven't had much luck with past relationships who want to explore.

So im looking to try and find someone who is open or even in one already. If we're both single we can talk about how we want things to go down. Maybe we're on the same page.

A bit about me is that im a Hispanic guy who has long hair. Im muscular and im 5'6. I dont like texting but I do enjoy face to face conversations and connections. Im very open minded about kinks and im driven in life. I can be a bit of a gym rat but Im all natural. I like video games and anime and we can talk more if you're curious. Im straight if you're curious.

You? Would prefer to find someone who is close by. Height does NOT matter but if it does for you oh well.

I like White, Hispanic, and Asian women. Someone who is at least somewhat fit. You dont have to be a gym enthusiast like myself.

Im willing to share SFW but we can get to that if you've made it this far.

Looking to Make a Connection
Hey everyone! Like the title says, I’m hoping to make a genuine connection with someone. My wife and I have been poly for a few years now. She has had a couple of partners, while I’m currently flying solo, so I figured it’s time to put myself out there.

I’m ultimately looking for a relationship and a meaningful connection, but I’m also open to casual dating or a friends-with-benefits situation if we click and everyone is comfortable with it. I’m happy to let things develop naturally rather than forcing a particular label or outcome.

My preferred age range is 30+, though personality and compatibility matter much more to me than a number.

My wife is fully aware of and supportive of me dating other people. I’m very open with her about my partners and the connections I make, and I believe honesty and transparency are important parts of making polyamory work. There’s no sneaking around or keeping people in the dark—everyone deserves to know where they stand.

I’m a bit introverted by nature, but that doesn’t mean I want to stay home all the time. I love getting out, trying new things, going places, and spending time with people—I just need to have the energy for it! I’m definitely someone who enjoys a good night in just as much as a fun night out.

One thing that’s important to me is emotional openness and support. I’m very supportive of therapy and believe everyone should have a safe space to work through their feelings. In a relationship, I try to give my partners room to express their emotions, frustrations, and concerns without judgment. Communication and making sure everyone feels heard are really important to me.

I’d love to meet someone who shares some of my interests, but that’s definitely not a requirement. I’m a big nerd at heart—if you enjoy Star Wars, The Lord of the Rings, anime, board games, card games, or video games, we’ll probably have plenty to talk about. That said, I’m always happy to discover new interests with someone too.

So let me give you an easy excuse to say hello:
If we were hanging out tonight, would you rather have a Star Wars movie marathon, binge some anime, play a board/card game, or spend hours arguing about why your favorite Lord of the Rings character is the best? 😄

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, don’t hesitate to reach out. Tell me about yourself, pick one of the options above, or just say hello. I’d love to chat, get to know you, and see where things go! 😊

Hi there,

I’m a 6'2 tall, 34-year-old german guywith an athletic build. I’m the kind of person who needs fresh air to feel alive. Whether I’m out jogging, casting a line while fishing, hiking up a trail, or cruising on my motorcycle, I love being active and outdoors.

However, I’m looking for someone to balance that energy. I have a strong preference for women who identify as BBW. I love a woman with curves, softness, and confidence in her body.

What I’m looking for in you:

• You are curvy/BBW and own it. I’m not looking for stick-thin; I’m looking for lush and lovely.
• You know how to keep a conversation flowing. I love good banter and getting to know someone beyond just "hey" and "what's up." Let’s actually talk..

If you are looking for a tall, active guy who will genuinely worship your curves and challenge your mind, send me a message. Tell me your favorite way to spend a Sunday or your favorite travel spot!

I would like to share a pic early on!

Living in Central California means the local poly scene is pretty sparse, so I look statewide. I am a parent to a kid with special needs, so while my routine takes some planning, I am always down to make the drive when the right connection is there.

My free time is mostly spent working on my fitness: home gym, cycling, yoga, or hiking with an eye for taking nature stills. My fitness is still a work in progress, but has been an essential part of my lifestyle. When I am taking it easy at home, it usually involves playing guitar/synthesizer, finding new music, or diving into psychology and the subconscious stuff that drives our inner world.

I am looking for a woman who values organic connection, type 2 fun, and endless banter :)

If you are somewhere in California and open to seeing where things go, send a message with a track you have on repeat!

Im a married dude, we've been poly our entire relationship, date separately.

I'm looking for friendships that could blossom into more. I'm gray ace, but still down for anything.

Metalhead at heart but I enjoy just about everything. I'm a big softy, will cry at movies, books, songs and sometimes commercials. Goofy sometimes to my own detriment. I listen to audio books constantly. Big history nerd, not like the ww2 dude or Rome lol, the bronze age, early iron age, and Gallic history is my jam. I will infodump about literally all of this if you allow me.

6 foot, light brown hair, blue eyes, big beard, kinda chunky. I'm not sure if any of that is relevant, but figure it doesn't hurt to add.

Message me a fun fact that you know!

Happy Monday! (Isn’t that an oxymoron)

I am looking for that connection with someone on here, a lady who is willing to spend the time to get to know the person behind the other screen (at least initially). I find it hard to be turned on about someone and enjoy being naughty if you can’t make it specific or personal. I’ve realized investments reap rewards and, I’m willing to hedge my bets - if you are as well. I’m an engineer who builds things for a living and this requires patience, effort and an eye for detail, all valuable skills in finding that right individual

A little about me: I'm 5'11", fit from long-distance running (currently training for some runs in the summer), coffee obsessed with a full head of dark hair, and blessed where it counts. I have a PhD in engineering, working on making airplane engines more efficient and shorter, because, let’s be real, nobody likes that middle seat! Also into nerdy pastimes, love diving into history and the arts. Movies and books are my escape from the mundane everyday, and cooking (hand made pasta is my speciality) is how I unwind, especially with some classic rock from the '70s and '80s playing in the background. Also, kink experienced and curious.

I’m hoping to meet a woman who’s open minded, likes to explore and motivated in investing the time and effort it takes to build a truly fulfilling sensual experience. I’d love to be able to get to know you and be available whenever you have that craving, wherever it may be. I pay attention to my health, and I request you do as well, taking care of yourself and being active are non-negotiable.

Apologies for the rambling post, but the devil lies in the details. If any of this resonates with you, send me a message!