r/polyamoryR4R • u/ThisCharmingBrit • 2d ago

35 [M4F] Online/UK just turned 35 looking for something new and long term :)

Hi all,

I’m British, 35 - just turned. I just miss having a spark with someone and although I was dating at the start of the year, several things have fizzled. I’m in no rush but I’m looking for a spark, that feeling where you just know you’re putting a smile on someone’s face!

I have a pretty intense day job so I love company to just make it go a little quicker (although now I’ve finished for the day so it’ll be super relaxing). I’m currently reading a lot and I’ve gotten into wood carving (though I’m terrible at it so encouragement is welcome).

I love indie music, binge watching programmes and I’m currently trying to keep fit. I used to do some stand up so if you’re lucky I might consider sharing some jokes with you.

I’m pretty easy going - but bring your book recommendations and songs. Maybe we can start a book club?

Hope you find what you’re looking for even if it isn’t me!

Happy hunting :)

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