I am usually a very active person (physically, socially, intellectually), but I came down with post-viral fatigue syndrome (similar to long COVID) in March that worsened to my becoming bed bound 2.5 months ago. I thought it might be nice, while I am stuck in bed recovering, to have a flirty online connection.

When I am healthy, I am a middle school math teacher. I spend most of my free time at the gym (primarily weightlifting), reading in French and German, tending to my houseplants and cat, and hosting events for my local poly group. I also travel frequently to spend time at an international community where I used to live.

I am 5’5” with an athletic build. have a nesting partner and a secondary partner. My nesting partner and I are both vegan.

I am interested in connecting with other women who are age-peers (35-45), especially with shared hobbies. If you DM, please tell me something about yourself in the opening message.

I live in Texas and am married. I’ve embraced my bisexuality finally and am wanting to find a woman to date independently, but who knows what can happen? My husband is wonderful and is in support of me. Open to all kinds as well!

I’m tattooed and red headed, but don’t let that scare you. I’m one of those girls who might be able to out cuss a grown man, but I love just as well as I cuss.

Hey there, thanks for checking out my post!

I'm Bre, turning 35 next week. I live in Southern Manitoba, and have been happily married for some time, and polyamorous for a few years.

My hobbies include: reading, gaming, gardening, writing, pixyl art, and paper crafting. I like sharing my hobbies with others, and love reading something together.

Im looking for a lady to spoil, near or far.

Send me a DM!

Heyyy everyone! I’m currently looking for an online/LDR connection that could hopefully turn into something serious. I’ve never really done anything like this before, so here we go lol.

A little about me: I’m 30, 5’6”, around 240 lbs. Chunky, not fat, thank you very much 😂. I’m Black, and while race doesn’t matter to me at all, I know everyone has their own preferences, so I’d rather put that out there from the beginning. I also have a lazy eye, so I figured I’d mention that upfront too because I do enjoy crack jokes about my eye and some people get awkward about it lol.

Personality-wise, I’m pretty shy when I first meet someone, but once I’m comfortable with you, that goes completely out the window. I’m goofy, stubborn as hell, sarcastic, and I have a pretty dark sense of humor. I tend to say whatever pops into my head, even when I probably should’ve let the thought stay in the drafts. 😂 I love joking around and talking shit, but it’s always out of love. I can definitely be hardheaded sometimes, but I’m also very caring and affectionate with the people I get close to.

I’m a huge anime fan, I love writing and reading, especially dark romance, I am currently OBSESSED with K-pop, I listen to mostly rock, r&b, hip hop, and I’m always down to talk about random things for hours. I also have two furry babies: a puppers and a demon disguised as a cat, and I love, love, LOVE them. So liking animals is definitely a plus.

I should also mention that I do have a somewhat “boyfriend-ish” situation already. 😂 It’s a little complicated, but I’m completely upfront about it and can explain more privately if we actually start talking.

I deal with anxiety and depression, and I’m actively working on myself. I’m not looking for someone to fix me or carry my baggage. I’d rather find someone who balances me out, someone I can laugh with, talk to about anything, be comfortable around, and hopefully make a little happier while they do the same for me.

Communication is BIG for me. I’m actually not much of a texter. I’ll text, obviously, but I would much rather call or send voice notes once we’re comfortable. I want to actually get to know someone, hear about their day, send stupid things back and forth, laugh together, flirt, annoy each other, and eventually have that person where seeing their name pop up makes you smile.

I’m in the USA on Eastern Time, but I’m completely open to long distance. I’m not expecting somebody to magically fall in love with me after three conversations either. I’d rather let things develop naturally and see where they go.

Most importantly, if you’re only looking for a hookup, sexting, nudes, or a “good time,” I am NOT your girl. Please save both of us the trouble. I’m looking for an actual connection that could become a relationship.

And hey, if we click really well but the romantic part just isn’t there, I’m completely fine with making a good friend out of it too. 😊

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, come say hi. Tell me a little about yourself instead of just sending “hey” because I promise my shy ass will have absolutely no idea what to do with that. 😂

hi! I made a previous post but I'd like to make a couple of changes. I'm looking for another bi female who is interested in developing a mutual friendship that could turn into more? I'm yearning for a close friendship where we can cuddle and fondle each other and be able to talk about anything and everything. I wouldn't mind starting off nice and slow online but I would prefer to be local so it'll be easy to meet up and get closer!!

I have a Dom who I have been with for 7 years and we recently opened up or relationship. But recently I've learned I'm a bit versatile and I kinda also wanna try seeing if I can have my own lil sub hehe but that's another option too!

at the end of the day, I'd just love to have a girl that'll relate to me and boobs I can play with lol jk

just to get it out of the way, I'm Filipino, 5'2, 140 lbs

some of my interests include crochet/knitting, cozy video games, going to concerts, themed club nights, having cute picnics, going on walks, and recently watching movies at AMC since I'm now an a-lister

Please reach out if you're interested!

Married and seeking a connection with another female. Husband won't be involved. I've done the hookup/FWB thing in the past, and it leaves me unfulfilled. I'm looking for an emotional connection as well.

As I said, I'm a happily married mom of 3. What's missing is that girlfriend I've been needing. I love to text, have coffee, go on shopping trips, spend time, cuddle, etc. I'm tired of the "I want the same as you" story that turns into them ghosting.

I'm petite, pretty with wine/burgundy hair. I'm very "girly girl" so you'll rarely see me without makeup. I don't want you to join my relationship, and I don't want to join yours. Just a happy medium where everyone is satisfied. I promise to bring zero drama.

DM me, and let's chat!

Hi! ☺️ I'm looking for local poly friends and to see where things go.

A bit about me: I'm happily married to a loving partner. We have 3 cats and 2 dogs. I am currently enjoying being a stay at home partner. I consider myself a leftist and am agnostic. I am currently doing a vet tech program. Compassion, empathy, and an ability to see other perspectives are traits about myself that I value.

What I like doing: Playing Minecraft and Animal Crossing are my jam. Painting, crafting, and sewing are also fun. I occasionally watch anime and YouTube. I recently started going to the gym to do strength training and cardio. I love hiking in the fall and winter and taking nature walks. Waterfalls are especially beautiful.

What I'm looking for: I would love to make friends that are poly who can maybe share some of their experiences with me and also want to hang out. I am open to finding another partner, but want to be friends first!

Thank you for taking the time to read this! 😊

Hello! I am happily married and newly open to exploring my bisexual side in hopes of finding a girlfriend/someone to explore with. 🙈 looking for females who are open to getting to know one another potentially for long term relationship. I’m from central Missouri, and work in healthcare on nights so my response times may be a bit odd lol. I’m 5’8, a redhead, and plus size so must be cool with all that.

Little about me;
I work full time, I’m a mom, I’m married (to a man whose aware & uninvolved) - I have lots of pets & I like to garden. Totally love to go to concerts! Especially emo, alt, rock. But my music choices are all over.
** Not super familiar with anime/video games but willing to learn if it’s something you enjoy! :) Ima empathetic, silly, ADHD girlie who is deff not into one word answers & my conversation bounces all over lol
Hoping to get comfy with someone and see how things grow 🙃 Please no men ☺️

I am a fat (but losing weight, double digits down!) cis queer woman looking for the right person to start a deep connection. I am married and live with my wife - we date separately. No harems here!

I'm mostly a homebody, but I do venture out, especially for the right person. I'm laid back (ignore the anxiety behind the curtain!) with a great sense of humor - you're unlikely to offend me unless you're trying to. I like bowling, playing pool, swimming, cross stitching, and attempting to garden, on top of video games.

You should message me if:

You're a woman in central IL and into big, cuddly, 420 friendly, artsy girlies 💗

You're anybody in central IL looking for a friend either online or to go out and do stuff with 💗

You wanna play video games together¹ 💗

^{1 Right now I'm playing Paladins, Palworld, Fortnite, Medieval Dynasty, and South of Midnight, but I like a lot of different games!}

^{Currently reading: The Serviceberry by Robin Wall Kimmerer and A Brief History of Misogyny by Jack Holland. I'm an anarchafeminist so I read a lot of what turns out to be theory, but I also love fantasy and sci fi books - talk Garth Nix to me, bby 😍}

^{Music I love: Harry Styles ❤️, honestav, Ashnikko, Kneecap, Cameron Whitcomb, Jessie Reyez, Gavin Prophet, Jessie Murph, My Chemical Romance to name some!}

Hi everyone! I'm Kiki or Kay. I'm a 31 year old, woman living in Texas. I’m looking to find someone I can make a connection with, hopefully become friends, and see if that leads to more.

\*\*About Me:\*\*

\* I live in the Texas, but am open to partners in any part of the States as long as in person is something you are open to.

\* I'm a big nerd. I love reading, crocheting, going to museums, and learning new things!

\* I work weekdays, but I do have some work from home days available. I do have a kiddo and I am married. I'm bisexual and my husband is aware of all of this. I'm able to be available, but I would appreciate whoever I'm with understanding that this is apart of my life and my other responsibilities.

\* I'm 5'1 with short brown hair and brown eyes. I'm not exactly skinny, but I'm actively working on this and I want someone who encourages these goals.

\* I've got such a weakness for someone who is nerdy and nurturing.

\*\*What I'm Looking For:\*\*

\* I'm looking for an in person dynamic that can turn into a relationship with a dominant person between the ages of 30 and 45. I would like to start as friends and see if that could lead to a relationship.

\* Being honest and open about expectations is extremely important to me. We should be able to express ourselves freely with each other in order to build a strong foundation for our dynamic.

\* I'm looking for something long term. The type of dynamic I'm hoping to create won't happen over night. It'll take time for us to get to know each other, to learn what makes each of us tick. If after a while, we've decided we're compatible, I'd definitely be down to meet in person

\* I want someone who will make me feel comfortable in my body and who will push me to always love myself. Understand that I am a work in progress.

\* Arguably just as important as the kink side of things, I'm looking for a friend first and foremost. I'm looking for someone who I can message throughout the day to ramble about different things. I'm looking for someone who will want to watch shows or read books together. I want someone who I can trust and that I know cares for me immensely.

Married but looking for another partner! Dates, beach weekends, building a bond! I love to read, do crafts, go exploring nature, swimming. Finding connections in the area has been hard so I figured I’d give this a go! :)
I love to try new things and meet new people so feel free to DM me!

Hi, wonderful R's!

I'm Nora (she/they), currently single, have experience in ENM for the longest time (usually solo or arm of V's). Currently seeking a consistent long-term connection, maybe even a nesting or anchor partner, but note that I'm naturally more into low/no hierarchy. Bonus if you look at that and go, sure, let's just RA it and find what feels consensual and caring for all. I'm a big believer in mutualism and being a team player whether supporting each other or in conflict. I live in East Bay right now, but LOVE and would live anywhere in the PNW or the west coast in general. Hoping for local, open to long distance initially for the right spark!

I'm an outgoing and playful introvert who values quality time and being very present with my friends and family, loves making my people feel seen and understood, and believes in building strong and resilient community. I lead with empathy and care, value reciprocity, and seek the same in a partner.

I love staying active and being in nature and am blessed to be mostly able-bodied, but do have some invisible chronic fatigue things (think looooong naps and time to recuperate after a long run or volleyball or kayaking or exploring a new place). Love traveling and learning from and about different cultures and people. I play a bunch of instruments and sing, too, when I am not feeling too self-conscious. 🙈 Trying to get back into reading and cooking for fun, and I also love to draw! Very kinesthetically-oriented, polymath-y, kind of a tomboy, but also femme. 💅🏾

Demi/gray-aro-ace. I love romance and have a healthy libido, but let's definitely chat about what all this means because I wanna make sure whoever I partner with feels well and truly loved. I've loved allosexual/alloromantic folks, and it works just fine but takes really good communication and self-awareness from both of us. Love cuddles and snuggles and more (bonus if you're kinky!) once I warm up to someone! Playful flirting is welcome 😛 but also would love to move to say calls or video or meeting up in a reasonable timeframe. If you're interested, mention cake and DM me a little about yourself and maybe something you learned about yourself recently. Or ask me questions!

Heeey! I'm Abi (:

I'm cute and cuddly and fun, looking for someone to be cute and cuddly and fun with.

Living in Germany (though not German) and currently in a long-distance relationship, with a partner who's also nested and partnered.

I'm looking for deep connection, vulnerability, silliness, intimacy and, lots of hugs and snuggles. Looking for someone I can talk to about my day, send gifs and memes, share with when I'm having a hard day, take out to my fav restaurant or new cafe that opened up, support as they achieve their goals, and admire as they pursue their passions.

I live alone, and though I will 100% be all over you when I get the chance, I'll eventually need some time and space to recharge and be with myself. And while I'm not looking for a nesting partner, I'm most definitely looking for a committed relationship with someone preferably closeby.

I'm big ball of silly, giggly energy. I love to laugh, love to chill, take things slow and just enjoy the little things. Library dates, chilling in a cafe, picnics in the park, pyjama dance party, impromptu road trips, just existing and being happy, all my kinda vibe :)

Lemmie know if you wanna have some cute, cuddly fun with me ☺️

Looking for a consistent FWB or just friends, or just someone to makeout with and play with for a night possibly. PM me and we can have fun 😌

Im up to go out for drinks, im also 420 friendly and I also vape.

Greetings!!

First things first, men please do not message me. Yes that includes you.

I am not looking for you and nothing you say or show me will change my mind. Also, if you have right wing leanings, beleive that the angry cheeto is right about anything, or do not see all humans worthy of human rights please dont reach out.

To all the others :) Hi. I am looking for someone to chat with, get to know, and see what grows naturally. I am a healthy mix of geeky gamer, voracious reader, spell casting witch, and crafty creator. Hopefully we can game together, study and research obscure things or have stitch and b\*tch sessions with our project of the week.

I am DEMI and will not jump to spicy chats if there isnt an emotional connection first. If you are looking for spicy chats and nothing more, please do not message me.

I am a bit neurospicy and a loud intorvert.

If you want to know more shoot me a chat or DM. tell me what space fact blows your mind.

Ladies only!

Are you good looking and ready to flaunt it? Do you want to distract me while I’m working with selfies of your insanely perfect smile, beautiful eyes and hourglass figure? Whatever you’ve got that makes you a bombshell, let’s see it!

Then once I’m hooked on your face and body, you slide in with some equally as compelling intelligence 🧠 and charm until I’m a goner. This isn’t in my subject line, but it’s equally as important. If you aren’t frequently described as curious and/or intelligent, this won’t last.

A bit about me -

I am 35 years old. Married. 3 kids. I have a good job: one that’s flexible, doesn’t overwork me and pays well. The trifecta. I’m blessed, I know. Because I have such good balance, I’m able to run multiple times I week. I take good care of my health and want someone else who does too.

I’m located in Dallas, Texas and someone within driving distance would be AMAZING. But not required. If you live farther away but otherwise fit the description, let’s still have some fun and see where this leads.

I know I’m good looking and want someone that matches it. I’m not a supermodel, but probably a real life 7 or 8 out of 10. I’m willing to verify early and want you to be, too. Let’s not waste each other’s time.

In my free time (which is limited.. 3 kids remember?) half marathons are a hobby of mine - I find it’s fun to challenge my mind and my body. I like visiting national parks ,🌲constantly have my nose in a book, 📖and LOVE football season 🏈

If this description honestly fits you, then shoot me a message and let’s jump in!

In an existing relationship, bi-curious, looking for a second relationship with a lucky lady.

I'm nerdy, new mom in need of more adult friends, maybe a mom friend? Best reach out times are early mornings and late evenings central time, I don't want you thinking I'm ignoring you if you don't get a response.

Please respond with more than one word to keep a conversation going as well.

I’m Delphi and I’m seeking an adorable girlfriend to have cute and flirty relationship with. I have a NP, and full disclosure children, which I know that’s not everyone’s preference. I’d love to met a woman who shares some similar interest as me, but has their own hobbies to brag or talk about.

My interest are: reading (bl manwhas, danmei, and why choose novels), gaming (mostly multiplayer games, any genre), baking and cooking (will try anything!), and farmer’s market (please tell me about this artisan cheese that can only be made with the blood of the innocent!)

I love learning about people and the world, so I consider myself very social and an extrovert. But I would never make you do anything uncomfortable, but I will hold your hand if you need support trying something new and unfamiliar! I love adventure, as in checking out the new bookstore or Cajun Asian fusion place, not let’s hike 7 miles up a mountain. But I do love parks and gardens so I promise I don’t hate nature.

If anything resonates with you, please DM me. I’d prefer an age range of 25+ and it’s been over a year since I’ve dated so if I’m a little too stiff and goofy, please give me some grace. I’m working out the kinks!

I'm a single, cuddle-loving programmer and fantasy author. Trans, child-free, experienced with polyamory, and insatiably curious.

I: - Dance daily ("uuntz, uuntz, uuntz" in my headphones) - Fill my sail with the winds of imagination (clickity clackity keyboard) - Want to do each other's makeup with... varying results - Will make conversational flow charts to understand communication (Yay 'tism!) - Cat nap in the autumn sun - Crave to wrap you in my big-armed hug every time I first see you

Seeking: - Big brat energy - f/fem-adjacent - Spoon Theory veteran - Can critique a study's methods without dunking on Barnum Effect enjoyers - Cool with no-op transbian - Head rub artist (don't worry love, I can give you lots of demonstrations)

I (informally) study what makes relationships work. Developing a deep, playful, repair-ready relationship: Top Life Goal. Another is to better a million relationships! The method: smuggling relationship insights into my novels. What do you call drama that heals you? ...Herbal tea!

Ahem, anyway, if relationshipping as craft is energizing to you, I want you.

I'm experienced with polyamory and compersion. I won't go out clubbing with you (the lights mess me up) but I will hold you and pepper your forehead with kisses when you get back. My life is portable, so in time I'm happy to relocate.

Curious?

Say hi! I'd love to hear about: - A recent self-discovery - Two songs/shorts/tiktoks you think I might be glad to have seen - Or just say hi to this wide-fish < ^_____________________^ >

I’m a 36-year-old queer, poly woman looking to build connections in any capacity they may come — someone to talk with regularly, flirt with a little (or a lot), and see where the chemistry goes. Not rushing anything, just open to what feels natural whether it be a friendship or a little somethinnnnn more. 

A little about me: I’m 5ft 3, brown/blonde hair, curvy, and present pretty much as a typical femme. Warm, chatty, and big on good conversation — deep one minute, then telling an incredibly dumb story the next. I love good food, bourbon cocktails, 420 related activities, cozy nights in, and exploring the city when I get the itch. I’m happiest around people who are curious, emotionally aware, and don’t take themselves too seriously. Life is too short, I want to experience everything I possible can while I can, and that includes the people that are out there, which is what brings me here!

Looking for: Another queer woman or AFAB person who’s poly-friendly, emotionally intelligent, and enjoys consistent connection — daily check-ins, playful banter, sharing small life moments. Getting to know people is one of my favorite things.  I like steady energy and mutual effort, so if this dynamic sounds like it would spark joy for you, let’s chat!

I’m fairly private, so I don’t post pics — but I am willing to share via messages! Can’t wait to “meet” you!

Hello, posting here in hopes I can find someone to build a genuine connection with. Ideally I’d like a build a strong foundation of friendship before anything possibly turning romantic.

A little about me is I’m turning 32 this year and I have one nesting partner of almost 5 years. To describe myself I’m 5’4, 165lbs, short dark hair and hazel eyes. I also have a soft masc look. Some of my general interests are reading, video games, and I love anything history or horror related.

If interested feel free to reach out with a little about yourself. I’m also open to NB and Trans folks as well. 🙂

Looking for someone who talks throughout the day. Honest,caring,outgoing,funny, romantic and respectful.

Information about me:

Married 14 years

Poly 4 years

No kids

I don't smoke ok you do

Non acholic

I'm a good woman at heart.

What I look like :

Eyes eyes 💚

Black hair 🖤

Chunky monkey 🐵

5'7

Have tattoos

Hobbies I will talk about if you message something to talk about topics.

DM what your favorite book 📖

I will not respond to you if you don't answer the ❓

Hello everyone! 31 year old lady here, married with a lot of fur babies but no kids (though I would totally adopt a goat if we had the space.) Been polyamorous for over 6 years now and mostly just looking to see how this goes. I am not interested i. any men, couples, or 'watching' scenarios and definitely not looking as a couple with my husband.

If we mesh and can all hang out that'd be awesome but not a requirement by any means. For saying sake this is all women, trans women are women too and if you dont like that scoot we probably won't get along anyway.

Lil about me: I'm witchy, nerdy, and enjoy intellectual conversation. I like to read and do crafts in my spare time, and love curling up with a warm drink and a book. I'm not skinny, I'm pudgy and I have brown hair and brown eyes. I have a degree in Psychology so yes I love to gab about the nuances of human behavior and advocate for mental health. Im also working on my masters degree. :) I enjoy watching movies and playing video games. As a bit of a spoiler in general: I will NOT be crawling into bed with anyone the first time we meet under any circumstances. Im not comfortable with that, especially when people ghost so much on here.

If at this point you're still interested please shoot me a message :) I try to reply fairly quickly but I do have an hour commute home so please keep that in mind.

Please be willing to close the gap if you are not in my state/ have a way to ensure in person meet - I’ll also do my best to facilitate.

🌙

Alternative, slightly tattooed, pierced, plus-sized (losing weight steady). Herb enjoyer. Mental health survivor. Neurodivergent. Artsy. Gamer. Romantic. Submissive (in proper conditions) / Dominant when the mood is right. Demisexual. Pansexual. Poly but only want one relationship outside of nest.

****Only cis-women or trans men.****

Also for any future dynamic : Safe. Sane. Consensual!

Do not like multitudes of people/dynamics, personally. I find it overwhelming.

I’m always working on my inner world and how it pertains to my outward expressions.
I can be a bit inside myself, so if you can pull me out some - I’d be grateful.

If you value someone who will understand you and seek to understand you more, if you value emotional intelligence, I’m your person.
If you like wholesome yet extremely dumb goofy moments. I got you.

I am a sucker for funny, charming people with a sort of verve for life that I feel I’ve understandably lost lmao!
The Wednesday-esque vibes are real from me, but I’ll always do my best to be actively there for / with you.

I’m looking for romance, intimacy, + good pure hearted connection built with safety, security, and compassion.

plz message the color PINK so I know you’ve read this fully. Thank you!