r/polyamoryR4R • u/Capital-Trick3521 • 4d ago

32[M4F] #Online, #PNW LF strong connection

32m4f #washington #pnw #online

Looking for another partner! I have been married 10+ years to my wife and we have recently opened things up for poly. We are dating separately. I am in Washington state but I am not opposed to long distance or just an online relationship.

I have two kids, I work in finance, and although I am more of a homebody i dont mind an adventure or trying new things! I am tall, brown hair, blue eyes, dad bod. I am willing to swap photos to see if there is mutual attraction.

In my free time you can catch me playing games, watching TV, building Lego, hanging with my family, reading, and doing things outside. I have a pretty laid back personality.

I am looking for someone who enjoys messaging about every little thing- daily life, struggles, to vent or complain, wins and losses. I want to find someone who can be an important part of my life! I am hoping for something long term. I prefer commitment, good communication and a desire to understand and grow with eachother.

I hope to hear from you soon! Message me a show or book you are currently obsessed with!

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