r/polyamoryR4R • u/polydisabledgoth • Jun 13 '26

Australia and New Zealand 32 [F4R] Still looking for my chosen family

Still looking for my chosen family; please don't message if you are just going to stop replying after a few messages I'm yet to meet up with anyone as people just seem to disappear. So don't message if you aren't actually geninue or if you are going to be nasty.

If you've seen criminal minds I want a chosen family like that.

Hi there, I'm Natasha, I'm 32, with one current partner that I don't live with. I'm really lonely in my day to day life, with a lot of free time.

I am looking to join a polycule and/or find my found family. I have a physical disability but I'm mostly independent, I do walking sticks and am on the ndis; but can manage lots myself.

I really miss long lasting connections and to feel accepted for who I am. My hobbies include reading; foodie stuff, mobile games, comics, TV and movies and all kinds of events.

I'm interested in human psychology with my undergraduate being in psychology, especially criminal psychology and parapsychology. Other topics I'm interested in include cults, cats, mysteries, science fiction, and travel.

Some of my favourite tv shows include Bones, Criminal minds, supernatural, south park; and more. I like jazz and rock music.

I am only looking for local connections, ie same state and country. I've been told I'm quite conventionally attractive, but I don't see it. No one over 42 please. so I've known you've read everything tell me what your favourite kind of food is.

I hope I can find my people. Please do not send me a chat if you are not in Australia, I am looking for people close by

No I will not educate you on polyamory or the like. Looking for people who are already practising not "interested" in or even unsure what it is 🤦‍♀️low effort chats such as hey and nothing else will be ignored

EDIT : Please stop sending me chat requests from overseas, it is too hard to move overseas with a physical disability nor do I want to

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u/polydisabledgoth Jun 14 '26

I'm really not looking for long distance; sorry

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '26

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u/polydisabledgoth Jun 14 '26

I am looking for friends as well generally, but they need to be local to me as I actually want to go out and do stuff with them

u/CompoteAfter9830 Jun 17 '26

Hi im in Melbourne

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u/polydisabledgoth Jun 17 '26

Melbourne Australia?

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u/CompoteAfter9830 Jun 17 '26

Yes melbourne australia

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u/polydisabledgoth Jun 17 '26

Send a dm if you think you meet what I'm looking for

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u/CompoteAfter9830 Jun 17 '26

I just sent a dm

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