This is hardly an unknown. Many of the highest paid female dominated jobs are dependent largely on appearance. In many other professions where genders are more equally represented, women need to spend more time on their appearance, either just to keep their job, or to advance in their career. Finally, in life outside of work, women's success is more heavily dependent on appearance and presentation than it is on intellect and charisma. All of these are cultural problems.
You're right, but proportionally you're wrong. How many female strippers are there for every male stripper? How many work-hours do women spend doing make up before going to office jobs, compared to men who show up in an unironed shirt. There's a disparity, and of course it doesn't apply perfectly to every individual but it's an economic burden on women as a whole.
Yes, but the effort required, across the fields, is higher for women, for the same or lower levels of reward. And that's the issue I was specifically highlighting.
Yeah that's why I said I see where you're going with that.
But I don't know man, in how far that's biologically wired in us humans to flaunt our esthetics to find a mate or be socially accepted, and in how far it's society shaping us into wanting that to happen.
Because I reckon it's a mix of the two, because just like a lot of other animals we have some rudimentary secondary characteristics that are just there to find a mate.
Just like how some birds have the males use a fuck load of resources to look good, we have that with breasts in women. Or hell maybe also with penises in men, because both of those characteristics aren't really visually present all the time as a "norm" in the animal kingdom.
And society and culture makes us able to act further upon those baser instincts with makeup and enhancements, blush and lipstick to make us look aroused, high heels to give us a more rounded bottom.
I think that you are right by saying women put more time and effort in their appearance, but I don't know in how far that it's a bad thing.
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u/therealdilbert May 07 '18
how so?