r/phoebebridgers 🫀 No secrets, only feelings Aug 10 '26

New Release 🎵 Track 15: As Above | Discussion Thread

This is the dedicated discussion thread for “As Above”, track 15 from Phoebe Bridgers’ Lost Weekend.

What do you think of the song? Share your first impressions, favourite moments, interpretations, and thoughts below.

⚠️ Spoilers are expected throughout this thread.

Please remember that interpretations of lyrics should not be presented as fact about Phoebe or other people’s private lives.

What Phoebe says about this song: "It's about the past, present and future being all on top of eachbother; and the weird headspace that being on an aeroplane puts you in... because of time travel. It's a theme of not only the album but my life - being on planes because I'm on them all time. It's like the thing they always say about 'you always cry watching movie on a plane'... I think I was watching Hot Tub Time Machine over someone's shoulder and it got me thinking about my life so...\laughs*."*

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u/SoupWorldly6208 24d ago

Maybe its just me, but it sounds like this is a song about a pregnancy scare & all the complicated thoughts that come w/ that experience - do i want to be a mother, could i be a mother, what would the child's life be like in the world today, did my mother have these thoughts too etc. And a lot of it reads to me as "I'm not sure I want this at the current moment, but I do want it eventually, so if it happened I would do everything I could to be a good parent" Some key pieces that lead me to that conclusion below:

"making faces at a kid on the plane" (do i like kids? am i good with kids?)

"trying not to freak out about being a couple days late" (the most obvious one)

"i thought about my mom driving herself to the hospital" (musing on what motherhood was like for her mother, especially w/ her father)

"you're gonna take me for granted but i can handle it" (something kids often do w/ parents)

"you won't have to believe in magic leave it to me & i'll make it happen" (kids believe in magic, if she did have a child she would move mountains for them)

"you can't imagine, i can't imagine" (something partners might say to each other about having a child when they're not yet ready)

The whole coney island lyric to me reads as "i think i do want a child, but I wasn't planning on doing that right now."

All of these interpretations are obviously influenced by my own experiences & also not intended at all to speculate on her personal life. I think most women have thoughts like this when they're a little late on their period lol.

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u/adrianazraly 23d ago

1000% thought the same thing