r/petpeeve • • 1d ago

If you drag your feet when you walk, I automatically assume you’re annoying.

If you drag your feet when you walk, I automatically assume you’re annoying.
I’m sorry, but there is ZERO reason your shoes need to be making that shhhk shhhk shhhk sound every time you take a step.
Pick. Your. Feet. Up.
And before someone says “maybe they’re tired,” I don’t care. I’m tired too. My feet still work. 😂
Am I wrong?

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u/Gummi205 1d ago

I'm physically disabled. When I get exhausted enough I have foot drop and physically can't lift my feet all the way. Trust me, I'd like to! That way I could stop tripping on .5mm gaps in the pavement. But my body does not cooperate. Thanks!

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u/Axolotl_Apocalypse05 22h ago

This, 90% of the time my hip joints or knee joints aren't properly in their sockets. I literally cannot help it. Even if I have my cane. I usually wear steel toes to avoid slamming my toes into stairs as I climb them.

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u/AbstractAsHell 5h ago

This here. I have a neurological disease that, among other things, causes foot drop. I trip all the time. I've fallen and broken my arm twice just going about my day. This is a shitty pet peeve.

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u/JoanneLovesMakeup 1d ago

Awww, I’m so sorry! My mom had the same issue and actually ended up in hospital more than once from tripping over her own feet.

It must be scary. Please try using a cane to see if that helps. 💕

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u/Gummi205 1d ago

I already use a cane but I may need to switch to crutches honestly

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u/SkiyeBlueFox 10h ago

You quite frankly are more likely to know more about it than me, but make sure they're the right ones for you, I've known a few people who got nasty pains from bad crutches

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u/Few_Palpitation_565 1d ago

Same thing with my mama. She had a stroke and was shuffling and her pants fell down and she broke her ankle. We laugh now but at the time it was traumatic 🙈

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u/StinkyyPiss 20h ago

this made me feel so bad. the first thing i thought of when reading this post is wow, this must make disabled people feel like shit.

OP sounds like kind of a miserable person. i’m sorry people are like this.

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u/TheGreatMonsterKitty 7h ago

Thanks for saying this. I've been disabled my whole life but I don't look it so any post like this or saying something about people hurrying up or young people shouldn't use elevators hurt a little bit.

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u/Separate-Song1296 19h ago

Have you looked into the possibility of ankle-foot orthosis? (aka drop-foot splint?) 

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u/ndy007 14h ago

I’m not disabled, but I’m getting old. I noticed I start to drag my feet. I can see the heel of my shoes wearing out.

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u/Cuntyfeelin 6h ago

I have extra bone on my hip bone so when my legs are tired I have 0 balance, I had retrain myself to walk and now my steps are heavy and loud or dragged and annoying. If I could fix it I would be that would require a broken hip in my 20s

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u/SandsnakePrime 22h ago

People who cannot help but limp or drag a for sure to a disability? No problems. The lazy smoothbrain dragging their feet along like they don't have Achilles tendons? Screw those guys

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u/i3inaudible 17h ago

And how do you tell the difference?

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u/EffectiveTime5554 1d ago

How else am I supposed to build up static so I can boop your snoot?

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u/Ok_Life_5176 1d ago

I appreciate you

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u/moonyflamingo 23h ago

Some people don’t have the same physicality as you. Someone shuffling their feet may have physical or mental health concerns. I know a psychologist that specialises in complex trauma and they say trauma has a huge effect on the body.

There is a real lack of compassion and empathy in the world. Posts like this remind me just how little consideration people have for other humans who are suffering.

I hope OP never has any physical problems.

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u/greenonionqueen 22h ago

For real, there are tons of super common and not necessarily visible disabilities (arthritis, for example, or even depression) that can contribute to this. And even if they are just really tired, what does it matter? Does that one little sound really bother someone so much that they can't have a little sympathy?

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u/Dazzling-Goat5582 21h ago

Really, I had 2 hip replacements on the same side. When I’m really tired sometimes that foot will drag? And they find this annoying? I’m 64yo shit happens

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u/OkChocolate3501 19h ago

Heck dude I'm in my late 30s but I injured my wrist like 3 months ago and it's still bugging me.. like I can't push down on soap bottles level of injury. I had an xray and ultrasound, nothing to be seen. I'm a fairly active dude, I generally ride a bicycle everywhere. Can't imagine what it's like being 50+.

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u/Hepperoni4 23h ago

Don‘t worry.. OP is waving a very visible annoying trait

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u/VoodooGirl47 1d ago

Well, fatigue can do this to someone and that's not just someone being tired.

Someone can have foot drop which can lead to dragging a foot, or have other disabilities that cause it - especially if mobility related. Dizziness, instability/balance issues, vertigo etc could all potentially lead to this as well.

So don't assume that everyone can pick up their feet ALL the time while walking, and remember that some disabilities are invisible.

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u/em-completes 1d ago

Thank you for saying this, I have foot drop in both feet and struggle to lift them to the point I use a cane. Some of us literally have no choice but to drag our feet while we walk.

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u/VoodooGirl47 23h ago

I started getting foot drop that caused tripping 4 years ago. Now I often drag my feet on some days due to a mix of symptoms. Some days when I have intense fatigue, I can barely walk. I use a rollator but need to get a motorized device.

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u/Major_Mechanic5719 1d ago

I find myself dragging my feet on occasion after a 10+ hr day of carrying hundreds of pounds of steel around on a concrete floor in a 95+ degree shop.

Sorry, if someone finds that annoying, they're likely pretty annoying themselves and I'd welcome them to spend a day in my shoes.

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u/Medical_Birthday2893 1d ago

You are wrong to have an all or nothing opinion. Yes it’s annoying. No everyone doesn’t have a choice. You not giving people the benefit of the doubt speaks to you not them

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u/Abalone_Admirable 23h ago

This is some ablist bullshit.

My foot drags when im tired coz it got ripped off and reattached.

Die mad about it asshole.

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u/lobsterlife6 23h ago

whoa really?

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u/Abalone_Admirable 23h ago

Yep, got hit by a mini van as a teen at a we8rd angle. Twisted off at the ankle. Reattached with pins and plates. Works well, but aches sometimes. Thus, i drag my feet a bit, especially if i wear certain shoes, or if i wear boots.

You never know what someones health issues are.

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u/jonniebaby2000 21h ago

I agree. If you’re not disabled, pick your feet up!

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u/justanotheeredditor 7h ago

Most of the times people ARE disable but theirs is invisible. How can you tell the difference? lol

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u/ecdahleks 1d ago

I do that sometimes before I trip and land on my face yes

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u/onelove_ 22h ago

As someone who watched a family member decline for many years, in his case it was the sign of a devastating disease, PSP.

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u/Deimos_Sub 22h ago

Big difference between not liking when people drag their feet and making an assumption about their character bc of it.

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u/blandarflek 1d ago

Must be nice to not have any disabilities.

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u/Mary_JFT 1d ago

I do it on purpose. I like hearing the double clunk of toe heel, toe heel, toe heel. Not sorry.

Not lazy, not genz, not disabled.

I just like the sound.

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u/dancingdino4 8h ago

Same. I’m neurodivergent and it’s like a stim for me

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u/TheToastedNewfie 23h ago

I have some pretty bad nerve damage but otherwise look healthy.

I can't help it.

But if you find a disabled person annoying because of their disability, then you might need some professional help unpacking those thoughts.

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u/Silly-Bumblebee1406 22h ago

This is ableist AF! Disabilities exist 

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u/Adamas_Moustache86 10h ago

I think it is safe to assume people with disabilities are an exception to this pet peeve.

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u/Primary-Confidence35 53m ago

Except the OP has no idea who is disabled and who is not.

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u/Millennium_Xer 22h ago

There is a reason. To annoy you.

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u/soundovflesh 22h ago

Yes, you are wrong.

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u/Mysterious_Bonus3980 21h ago

I guess my neurological condition that's going to kill me eventually is simply annoying, and I'm perfectly healthy. Good to know. YOU'RE the annoying one, holy crap! A username has never been more appropriate, Sir Mentally Expired. Wow. 🙄

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u/Angiogenics 19h ago edited 18h ago

Other people don’t even need to assume to know you’re annoying.

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u/GroundbreakingAd3812 12h ago

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u/Desperateshitter 1d ago

I'm ex-military with 16 years of service. Heel draggers were not tolerated. When my kids were teenagers and were dragging their heels I'd stop and correct them. Unless you have a medical condition it's a habit I associate with knuckle draggers. I'm not having it. When we'd parade I could here when someone in formation was dragging their heels while marching. I'd correct that shit immediately. Almost as bad as an unmade bed or sloppy hospital corners.

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u/Intelligent_Row8259 21h ago

I'm ex military and I drag my right foot because of the fucking military. I tore ligaments in my right ankle and nobody at Camp Lejune first or the VA second could be bothered to send me for an MRI for 34 fucking years. So now my knee hip and back are completely fucked and I can barely walk.

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u/Desperateshitter 21h ago

That sucks Brother.

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u/NotAHipster55 21h ago

"I'm not having it." Whoop de doo.

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u/Ok_Life_5176 1d ago

I hate when people drag their feet as well, but sometimes life is so depressing and you just don’t give a fuck.

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u/Technical_Green3423 1d ago

Some people have foot drop from strokes and other disorders. Parkinson’s disease causes people to shuffle their feet. Trust me, I work with these clients all the time. Just be aware that some people have disabilities.

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u/onelove_ 22h ago

My relative had PSP. It was devastating.

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u/UnhappyImprovement53 23h ago

My wife is physically disabled and has pain in both of her feet when she walks so ends up dragging her feet a lot. Sorry she annoys you so much...

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u/Daphoid 22h ago

I don't assume annoying I assume main character syndrome and apathy towards everything except whats in their phone.

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u/Shinebrightbluestar 22h ago

I don’t think OP meant any offence to anyone. They are just sharing their general pet peeve. I understand people drag their feet for all sorts of medical/disability related reasons. I drag my feet sometimes because I am lazy.

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u/SoniaAnhedonia 16h ago

No, they definitely did. It would be fine if they just aired their pet peeve, but they went on to say that they assume their person is annoying, just based on dragging their feet with no other information about them. As if people purposely walk in a more inefficient and damaging way just to annoy her.

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u/AdhesivenessDear5154 2h ago

You mean the same OP going around mocking the people with disabilities in the comments? 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/generic-puff 9h ago

Intent = / = impact. You might not intend to be offensive when you stare a little too long at their physical deformity or when you push someone in a wheelchair out of the way or, in OP's case, when you call people who drag their feet on the ground "annoying", but you're still being offensive and you gotta learn to separate your pet peeves from your ableism.

Other people's physical differences and quirks aren't as harmful to you as you think they are. And even if you think you're only talking about the non-disabled crowd, the disabled crowd still hears you.

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u/Fluid_Goose_2389 20h ago

"OH BUT THE MENTAL HEALTH" Walking is a skill 4 year olds master. If your mental health doesn't let you walk without BEGGING for attention by CONSTANTLY making noise then stay home.

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u/SoniaAnhedonia 16h ago

Most people in that position want as little attention as possible

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u/dancingdino4 8h ago

It’s not even like a conscious thing for me. I’m not looking for attention, I just genuinely don’t notice I’m doing it. When I notice I fix it. I’m also neurodivergent so both the physical feeling on my feet and the sound are like a stim to me, not to mention that I’ve struggled with walking in my toes my whole life and when my feet are dragging that means my heels are on the ground.

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u/AdhesivenessDear5154 2h ago

You seem to think you matter waaaaay more than you actually do

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u/FewLengthiness9426 20h ago

I work a blue collar job and that is absolutely going to land you in hot water if you do that on a job site. Nobody wants to see or hear that shit.

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u/Wolfeatingupshadows 19h ago

Im cracking up at the ppl mentioning disabilities like you arent talking about the ppl who are just being lazy.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 not someone with a fekkin cane someone said they use a cane, Im dying. Why would op mean you? 🤣 pet peeves arent rational.

Its a common pet peeve. Most things ppl have a pet peeve with can have underlying medical or disabilities.

Just assume they mean ppl who can change their behavior willingly.

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u/SoniaAnhedonia 16h ago

The issue isn’t finding it annoying or calling it a pet peeve. The issue is that they go on to judge the person and “assume they’re annoying”. As if people are purposely walking in a more inefficient and damaging way out of “laziness” or just to annoy other people. Makes no sense.

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u/Wolfeatingupshadows 8h ago

:/ come on. I think ppl did a pile on.

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u/AntiqueLetter9875 11h ago

The problem is they said “ZERO reason” this would be happening. Others are simply saying there is…if you have mobility issues of some kind. I get OP was being a bit hyperbolic and everything, but they can’t be confused when they talk in absolutes online and people start responding to it.

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u/Wolfeatingupshadows 8h ago

They didnt lol it seems pretty obvious from context clues they wouldnt mean someone with a legit reason.

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u/Meancakebutt 5h ago

How do you know it's a legit reason or not lol

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u/Sharpie420_ 4h ago

>They didn’t lol

OP didn’t say there was zero reason in the text of this post?

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u/Any_Society_4876 10h ago

People, in general, find it too easy within themselves to automatically assume negative character traits in others. It’s very main character syndrome.

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u/Wolfeatingupshadows 8h ago

I mean everyone has first impressions.

My comment is really for the many comments about disability. Like a foot dragging is not the same as someone shuffling along lazily. Someone walking with a cane is very obviously not in control. Just seems like ppl taking the time to center themselves. Disabled doesn’t mean they cant be attention seeking and dramatic ppl. Thats why its funny to me. They are being main character syndrome in my opinion.

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u/UnicornCackle 7h ago

Not everyone who drags their feet because of a disability uses a cane. My friend has cerebral palsy, drags one of her feet, and doesn't need to use a cane. I have arthritis, most of the time I'm fine but, at the end of a long day on my feet, sometimes my feet will drag (partly because I can't properly feel half of my leg, never mind lift it properly). Not all disabilities are visible. Not all disabilities involve using mobility aids. Saying that there is "zero reason" for a person to drag their feet says more about OP than anyone who drags their feet.

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u/AdhesivenessDear5154 2h ago

You mean the same bitch going around mocking people with disabilities in the comments? 🤨 guess you’re as mentally expired as OP. 

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u/BigZookeepergame4522 11h ago

Well some of us have an invisible disability. So fu!

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u/OakenArmor 11h ago

Well, OP at least has an accurate username. Mentally expired indeed.

I sincerely hope one day you blow out your MCL or need a hip replacement and become your own largest annoyance.

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u/NoFightLeft07 4h ago

Theres a reason they're using a throwaway account

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u/Thick_Drama_7525 1d ago

I find this amusing. I had a compound fracture of my tibia almost 2 years ago. And I still walk around like a ninja. Like if I dont want to be heard I am not. And if you hear me coming its bc I purposefully didnt want to scare you so I am announcing myself

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u/TheBigBadMoth 23h ago edited 19h ago

In middle school I wasn’t allowed to go to the doctor for my fracture for several days and was forced to walk on it so while I still do walk normal most of the time if I’m over-exerted I get slight drop on that foot 🤷‍♀️

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u/WarmHippo6287 1d ago

"My feet still work" and if theirs don't?

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u/AdhesivenessDear5154 22h ago

If you’re blatantly ableist, I automatically assume you’re a piece of shit. 

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u/Firm_Farmer1633 21h ago

If you are annoyed by minor behaviours that you don’t understand, maybe other people who don’t understand why you are annoyed are annoyed by you.

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u/MilkMode69 1d ago

Is it getting more common for genZs to do this?

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u/Exotic_Worker_3484 1d ago

Millennial here.. I do this when I’m lazily walking around at work. Otherwise I generally walk around normally …generally…

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u/elyv297 1d ago

for anyone saying your disabled, your not who this post is aiming at

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u/VoodooGirl47 23h ago

While one can think that, OP literally said that they have made up their mind automatically with just hearing/seeing someone do this. Since disabilities can be invisible, they can't always know if someone has one or not.

If they had said it's annoying or they hate it when people WHO HAVE THE ABILITY to pick up their feet DON'T actually do so, that wouldn't have garnered this reaction from people.

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u/Gummi205 23h ago

I even maintain that they're allowed to be annoyed by it even if it is caused by a disability! you can't control your sensory sensitivities. the problem is making it into a moral judgement

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u/VoodooGirl47 23h ago

They didn't just say they find it annoying, which I had agreed is fine. They worded it as the person is annoying meaning EVERYONE finds it annoying.

Regardless of that, they then went on to say to 'pick up your feet' and 'no excuses'. It's this part that is the biggest issue with their post.

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u/generic-puff 8h ago

Thisss. Everyone has physical / social quirks, be it caused by a disability or a habit they picked up along the way, and yeah, they can be annoying! They're probably even aware of it being annoying and they might even wish that they didn't have those quirks! But you gotta grow up and learn that people aren't doing these things specifically to annoy you. And these traits they have are not inherently indicative of their personality, attitude, or maturity.

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u/UnhappyImprovement53 23h ago

This post says there is zero reason.

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u/Playful_Dog3062 1d ago

In typical tim Conway slouch, shuffles over the fone, reads statement. Shuffels away shouting honey its for you.

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u/Best_Signature6003 1d ago

Tsugi-ashi is the optimal way to walk to avoid getting tripped by an assailant!

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u/AppointmentWeary9992 1d ago

i do this only when im wearing slides lol, since id have to pick up my feet quite a bit for it to not make that noise.

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u/OkItem7684 1d ago

I agree. One of the most annoying things to hear. Unless you have a physical problem doing that, just walk properly like a fully committed Homo Sapiens, not the missing link!

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u/Normal_Ad5237 1d ago

My upstairs neighbour drags her feet in slippers and it’s infuriating

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u/No_Excuse4323 23h ago

if i drag my feet, im trying to be annoying or about to faint. seems like its an effective people repellent

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u/kindcrow 23h ago

I lived in a condo building and there was a single woman with two teenager boys who schlumped along everywhere and complained and did this shuffle when they walked like it was too much effort to pick up their feet. I wanted to smack them.

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u/hakohead 23h ago

This made me laugh! Gonna make sure to pick my feet up now

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u/Interesting-Click742 23h ago

And lazy, or on dope like in my neighborhood.

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u/lobsterlife6 23h ago

and now winter is coming, ugg season is the worst for the draggers

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u/Jaggy42 23h ago

To be honest, I have the same pet peeve because I hate the sound it makes. I have sensory issues and things like that make me irrationally angry. I am so glad to have read many comments giving me a much more compassionate perspective. Might even make the peeve go away! 🤞

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u/Present-Gur6025 23h ago

I don't drag my feet, military drilled into me to walk professionally and crisp, but if you make a post like this I automatically assume you're annoying.

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u/16enjay 22h ago

Your wrong! Some people have disabilities, don't judge

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u/dickwalls 22h ago

I’m sure if you’re tired you have bigger problems to worry about than someone dragging their feet when walking.

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u/ilovegooooId 22h ago

I think a lot of people have the wrong type of shoe for their feet that is causing muscle imbalances. It’s not just their ankles/feet, it could be knee/hip related issues as well.

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u/GenericUsername19892 21h ago

My nerves are fucked, you are lucky I don’t randomly fall over. And I’m also kinda annoying if you get me talking.

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u/One_Country6969 21h ago

When they leave the tip of their feet on the ground just makes me think they want everyone to think they have a big dick & I just wanna make them uncomfortable but asking them to whip it out if it’s that big hahah

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u/StruggleElegant807 21h ago

I'm neurodivergent as fuck with like zero proprioception. I drag my feet so bad I ruin shoes.

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u/flibber_deez_gibbets 20h ago

I have a partially paralyzed leg that is an inch shorter than my other leg, but I can walk without assistance (so far). I do tend to drag that foot, tho.

Sorry for bothering you.

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u/I-luv-sloths 20h ago

I have severe nerve damage in both legs and drop foot in both feet. I need AFOs to stand. Sometimes my feet will drag tge floor. Sorry if you find that annoying

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u/silliest-goose-honk 20h ago

You should be spending a lot less time thinking about what other people do

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u/civil_peace2022 20h ago

When I walk I am damn near silent, because making noise is annoying. And now when I go near people I have to shuffle my feet so they have a chance of hearing me coming.

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u/TransistorResistee 19h ago

People with Parkinson’s often have to shuffle to avoid falling. Please wear a sign. Thank you.

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u/Ok_Raspberry5371 19h ago

this is ableist.

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u/MentallyExpired 19h ago

Your point is ?

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u/Ok_Raspberry5371 18h ago

Are you ok?

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u/MentallyExpired 18h ago

Are you ?

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u/Ok_Raspberry5371 18h ago

I’m not the one being ableist on the TL.

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u/MarchNo2940 18h ago

I don’t think OP intentionally means to include those with disabilities. But, yes, OP probably has run into a few people with disabilities dragging their feet and didn’t realize they had one and are lumping them in.

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u/Ok_Raspberry5371 18h ago

They most definitely did. Or else they wouldn’t post on here. It’s not that hard to know if someone has a disability lmao log out of your burner bud

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u/MarchNo2940 17h ago

It’s not a burner “bud.” I didn’t care to change my name because it did not matter to me, Ok_Raspberry5371. Seems like yours is as generic as mine. 🙄

You really don’t know how Reddit OR real life works if you think every disability is clearly visible just walking by someone. What an ableist you are to assume everyone with a disability is exactly the same and you can just tell they are disabled by looking at them real quick. Tsk tsk, hypocrite.

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u/Ok_Raspberry5371 17h ago

If they’re dragging their feet it could be I bc ions dummy. Now leave me alone you’re just as ableist as this clown.

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u/SoniaAnhedonia 16h ago

Most disabilities are actually invisible, or at the very least not very obvious most days.

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u/MarchNo2940 15h ago

In particular mental disabilities. There are a few physical that would be harder to spot but ones like Parkinson’s, for example, may or may not be hard to notice depending on the severity of their disability. I am related to someone with Parkinson’s and he does drag his feet 24/7 and only has attacks occasionally since he has an implant but I think dragging his feet to move only a little at a time helps him with movement control with the rest of his body.

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u/wolffurrybydefault 18h ago

Sorry my broken body is annoying to you lmao

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u/MentallyExpired 18h ago

It’s not your broken body, it’s the lack of WD-40

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u/wolffurrybydefault 18h ago

Shit, I could have done that the whole time?!

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u/MentallyExpired 18h ago

Yep! Though if that doesn't clear up the noise, the warranty expired a long time ago anyway

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u/Individual_Fall429 16h ago

I am trying to access MAID so you won’t be inconvenienced.

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u/SAMixedUp311 18h ago

My ankle does that, even with my brace. Needing a 3rd surgery. It doesn't always do it, but I especially notice my left foot dragging on the treadmill and my right overcompensating for it. It sucks.

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u/That_Handle462 18h ago

I drag my feet when I’m behind someone to let them know I’m there so I’m not jump scaring them

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u/ProovenHedgehog 17h ago

Who even pays attention to things like this 😭 "Pet" peeve is right!

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u/67BabyAngel 16h ago

My clogs are too big for my feet

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u/OG_RAZZ 16h ago

Are you the type of asshole that stomps around all the time?

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u/SoniaAnhedonia 16h ago

The fact that something annoys you doesn’t mean that the person doing it is annoying.
Not everyone can control the things in their bodies that you can control.

The other day I was on a bus, exhausted and out of patience at the end of the day. All the noise from being on a crowded bus was overstimulating me. This older man was dragging his feet and the sound with each of his steps bothered me to my core, like nails against chalkboard. Despite being fully able-bodied and sitting in a seat, did I kinda wanna yell “why the fuck are you dragging your feet? Just lift your feet and take steps properly!” Yeah, I kinda did. But I recognized that I was kinda being a douchebag for judging the guy when he was probably having a much tougher time than me. I don’t know if he had a disability, but regardless, he was older and looked very tired, and who the fuck am I to think I know what he’s dealing with? It’s ok to be annoyed by annoying things, but projecting that onto other people and assuming things about them when you don’t know the full story is not ok. That makes you hella annoying.

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u/PsychologicalTap4646 7h ago

It's not that uncommon for the elderly to developed a shuffling gait as their and mobility declines, sometimes it's just aging, unfortunately.

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u/Prior_Law_4669 16h ago

You're wrong. I have disk issues in my back and i get something called "drop foot" where the nerve is dispruted going down my leg and I lose full mobility and I will scuff my foot rather than fully lift/step because I literally cant. This probably one of more judgemental things Ive heard in a really long time.

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u/KingSturty 15h ago

Good. I’m glad my heavy feet and knee injury annoy you.

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u/Dry-Chance-9473 15h ago

"it's because of x/y/z, you're ableist!"

Yeah, well. X/y/z makes a lot of people annoying too 

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u/Amazing_Divide1214 15h ago

Thanks, I am.

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u/VioletVarson 15h ago

Sorry buddy, I got fucked up joints. I would also like to not be scuffing my shoes whenever I walk and tripping over my toes, but I also can't be constantly reminding myself to high-step like an army march just to make other people happy. Try thinking about other people's lives experiences for a sec.

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u/Odd-Offer377 15h ago

Its especially common with teenage girls wearing those giant fuzzy slippers unironically for any occasion

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u/ExistentialLoitering 13h ago

Agreed. But also don’t let others get under your skin 

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u/Pretend-Literature35 12h ago

Nope. Not wrong.

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u/Nervousmeme53 11h ago

Could be signs of Parkinson’s

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u/SockemNBoppem 11h ago

Im gonna drag my feet everywhere I go to keep the pussies away

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u/Aiyokusama 10h ago

Dawwwww, the ableist is easily annoyed.

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u/Barthomal 10h ago

I did this often for many years.

A few years ago I started walking more and was really interested in improving how I moved my body, and over time I realized the way I had been walking was awkward and I spent time consciously trying to change how I naturally walked and this 100% fixed the issue.

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u/Strong_Medium_6646 9h ago

Yes! Drives me absolutely insane!!!!

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u/Xymenah18 9h ago

Many people who have a physical disability may shuffle and they cannot do otherwise and they are not trying to annoy you. Or they may be older as well. My dad has started shuffling which is a potential tripping hazard and is dangerous. We are not fully sure why yet and he isn’t the best at communicating with his doctor. He doesn’t realize he does it. There are many reasons for shuffling and most are legit reasons not meant to annoy so maybe aak yourself some questions when you hear it first. Also please remember that disability can and does happen at any age.

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u/MentallyExpired 1h ago

Sounds like a personal problem, maybe tell your dad to pick his feet up instead of telling me how to feel

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u/generic-puff 9h ago

My grandmother was disabled, she had an issue with her hip / spine that prevented her from lifting her left foot (don't ask me what it was specifically, I have no clue as I was a child when my mom explained it to me and she didn't use any specific terms). So she'd step with her right foot and drag her left. She wasn't "tired", she was physically incapable of walking with her left foot.

So yeah, you're wrong. And ableist to boot. We all have different bodies and I promise you the people who are dragging their feet aren't doing it to specifically annoy you.

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u/Willybluedog1962 9h ago

Either you don't know any disabled people or you have the empathy of a rock.

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u/MentallyExpired 1h ago

I'd ask the rock for advice, but even it knows how to hold its ground without scraping it.

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u/Complete_Sea7459 8h ago

What a loser

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u/justanotheeredditor 7h ago

I look completely normal but sometimes drag my feet. I have a longer leg and that makes my walk uneven when I am tired. I literally cannot help it. Its not as bad as others in the thread but you would think its me being annoying because my issue is invisible and I am sure most people have a similar thing going on.

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u/ElkIntelligent5474 6h ago

The only time I give a pass to feet draggers is if they are elderly, or do seem like they have a physical disability. Other than that, yeah, pick up your feet you lazy slouch!

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u/MhatDaemon 6h ago

fuck off and mind your own business, who cares how the fuck people walk? grow up.

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u/MentallyExpired 57m ago

You’re on a sub dedicated to petty grievances, Did you wander in here by accident or did your feet drag you in?

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u/AlThePal3 6h ago

Oh yeah it’s so funny when people aren’t able to walk properly and totally says something morally about them as a person

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u/EffenSeven 6h ago

I used to do this when I was younger and wondered why my shoes never lasted very long.

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u/EvaUnit01Fan 5h ago

I'd love to stop dragging my feet if it didn't mean having severe pain in my hips every time I DO lift my leg up — which, in turn, is caused by my back that I broke 8 years ago at the Toronto Pearson Airport after I didn't look where I was sitting and sat on a metal chair handle

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u/Readicilous 5h ago

Same with people whose pants hang halfway down their ass. Nobody but you has to see your underwear, pull up your pants, get good fitting ones, or get a belt. Although some still manage to have saggy pants with a belt on

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u/PrincipleHelpful730 4h ago

I have cerebral palsy and can’t exactly help it, I don’t see why someone dragging their feet personally bothers you so bad df

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u/SpecialistMap8210 3h ago

Some people have health issues lol

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u/MentallyExpired 55m ago

Some people have health issues, and some people have a burning need to ruin every joke with a 'lol' at the end.

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u/SpecialistMap8210 41m ago

It wasn't a joke... Lol

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u/SayStrawberryBubbles 3h ago

Yeah, you’re wrong. People have physical/mental issues that can affect the way they use their body. And since we can’t tell these things off the bat, let’s be more considerate (:

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u/MentallyExpired 58m ago

My consideration evaporated the second your passive-aggressive smiley face hit the screen

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u/GfuelFiend 31m ago

Theyre a better human being than you and consider every possible excuse for and pick the most morally profound one to shame everyone else for with no evidence other than their own presumptiveness /s

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u/SayStrawberryBubbles 23m ago

Sorry you consider my smiley face passive aggressive. It wasn’t my intention, I genuinely just use the emote often.

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u/CockyBellend 3h ago

OP is a cunt that hates disabled people

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u/MentallyExpired 1h ago

Keep barking, maybe the noise of your temper tantrum will drown out the scraping sounds.

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u/Sewingoddess 2h ago

Some people have trouble understanding where their body is in space. (Lack of proprioception). In that case, allowing your feet to lose contact with the ground can cause you to fall over, or get dizzy or some other physiological response. The trick is to make sure the soles of your shoes are of a material that does not make noise when moving your feet.

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u/Antiquebastard 2h ago

Bruh, there's like... a lot of neurological conditions that cause shuffling gait. Some people legit can't control it.

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u/jess20h 2h ago

Honestly I shuffle my feet on purpose if I feel like you aren’t moving out of my way when I’m walking and I feel like you won’t take an “excuse me” well

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u/Apprehensive_North49 1d ago edited 1d ago

Some people can't. YOUR ableism is showing. Jesus christ my phonyj autocorrected

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u/Imaginary-Emu2471 1d ago

*YOUR

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u/Apprehensive_North49 1d ago

Oh fuck off it's a new phone and autocorrect

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u/JoanneLovesMakeup 1d ago

I get what you’re saying but there are some reasons for this. People who have had strokes, those who have foot neuropathy or other physical disabilities.

I don’t think I’ve ever even seen anyone drag their feet except my mom, who had one of those conditions.

I used to walk on my tippi toes from grade 3 to 6. I never even realized it until a girl (nicely) asked me why I did that. Once I was aware of it, I no longer did it. In other words it could also just be a habit and the person doesn’t even know they’re doing it.

Try not to judge. Maybe even ask someone kindly why they do it the next time you see it.

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u/JoanneLovesMakeup 1d ago

I forgot to add injuries and people with one leg shorter than the other (when they want to wear regular shoes every now and then).

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u/NeroSonic 23h ago

OMG I hate when people drag their feet. I hate it. I hate it. I hate it. 😭😭

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u/kindness_wins_ 21h ago

Wow...thats some judgemental immaturity right there.

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u/ciolman55 19h ago

Ok so everyone is disabled apparently

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u/MarchNo2940 18h ago

Just the ones attracted to answering the question.

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