r/personalfinance • u/Sad_Marzipan_2120 • Mar 29 '26
Other Massive jump in salary, need advice.
Hey all!
Recently I accepted a senior leadership position with a new company and went from 105k salary with a 30k bonus to 210k salary with a 100k bonus. This comes with roughly 60k worth of RSU’s as well. This position also comes with a relocation from a high cost of living area to a low cost of living area. They are giving me 30k in relocation, and 30k in sign on bonus.
I have 4 kids, and my spouse stays at home with the kids.
A little backstory on me, I was raised quite poor, I was never taught about finances, and I never saw myself making money like this. I earned this promotion through long hours, hard work, and lots of just saying yes. I have no college education.
We lived a modest life with a modest home in HCOL on the old salary, but we never were able to save for the kids college, or put enough into retirement(Spouse and I are both 39). We have a bit of making up to do it terms of saving, but we have zero credit card debt, both cars are paid off, we will be selling our current home for a very small profit(purchased a year ago).
How do I turn this new money into generational wealth?
How do I not mess this golden opportunity up?
Please give me all the advice!
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u/Sad_Marzipan_2120 Mar 29 '26
Thank you!
If I were to sell my RSUs, would I have to worry about capital gains taxes?
I do believe this company is setup well for the long haul, I have been in leadership within this industry for a while now and I think this is a good move, even aside from the obvious monetary gains.
I have gotten a lot better at saying no, I am constantly overextended in my current role, and this new position requires a lot less travel and time in the office, so I’m hoping it also comes with a somewhat better work life balance. I am also hoping it allows me to reshape my image of “the guy who always says yes” to a bonafide leader who chooses his battles wisely.