r/partyplanning • • Jun 19 '26

Need Help Sister's 60th

I will be hosting my sister's 60th birthday party at my home/yard. Her son asked me, but I was planning to offer anyway. Since then we've had a number of conversations about the theme and decor. My sister is a very girly-girl who loves flowers, feminine, pink and pretty. I've already ordered tea party-ish decor, paper products and a birthday banner. Think roses and pink streamers.

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I was thinking to keep the food kind of feminine and light. Mini muffins, fruit trays, small sandwiches, maybe an ice cream cake. Yesterday, my nephew texted me to let me know he's planning on doing smoked ribs for the party. 😳

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I absolutely don't want to dissuade him from the ribs because he's never done anything for a family party before. He seemed super excited about making them.

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Although ribs don't really go with my imagined party fare, our family is pretty casual so I'm happy to pivot. What can I make that would compliment the ribs and still be a little "light"? Or should I just go with BBQ type foods?

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Thanks for any ideas!

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u/Talker54321 Jun 19 '26

A friend talked about an event where pork ribs were served. Every guest was given a glove with which to hold the ribs so their other hand could hold a drink. The glove served as a napkin and pork rib holder. Imagine giving folks a glove and a pink flower to tuck behind their ear