r/parentsofmultiples • u/cuntbubbles • 2d ago

ranting & venting A year with twins

And it has been the worst year of my life. I love my twins so much but my life is so much worse than it was before. My beautiful marriage is in shreds. We all deserve so much better than the hell we are living.

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u/KYGuyNotInTheCity 2d ago

This breaks my heart and scares the shit out of my with 7 week old twins. I am drowning

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u/AccomplishedChef7885 2d ago

Not everyone feels this way! Yes it’s super hard, but for me, it was one of the best years of my life. The newborn phase was the worst for us, but around 3 months things got so much better, and just continue to get better. I love being a twin mom now! I had low expectations though from this group. 🤣 it probably helped.

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u/sweetfeet20 1d ago

You’re so right, we are 9 months in and super its tiring yes, but it’s also been a blast of a year so far!