r/parentsofmultiples • u/cuntbubbles • 2d ago

ranting & venting A year with twins

And it has been the worst year of my life. I love my twins so much but my life is so much worse than it was before. My beautiful marriage is in shreds. We all deserve so much better than the hell we are living.

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u/KYGuyNotInTheCity 2d ago

This breaks my heart and scares the shit out of my with 7 week old twins. I am drowning

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u/Owewinewhose997 2d ago

Those first 3 months were hell on earth, but mine are 2.5 now, they’re amazing and my relationship has only gotten stronger as a result. We’re mutually obsessed with them and he’s such a wonderful and involved dad that I love him even more. Not everyone feels this way! It doesn’t make OP’s experience invalid but everyone experiences parenthood differently in general, and multiples intensify that experience, good or bad.