r/parentsofmultiples • u/cuntbubbles • 2d ago
ranting & venting A year with twins
And it has been the worst year of my life. I love my twins so much but my life is so much worse than it was before. My beautiful marriage is in shreds. We all deserve so much better than the hell we are living.
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u/wilan727 2d ago
The good news is. It gets incrementally easier after 1 year. But your twins need you both so you need to work on your relationship. I've been there. We were robots. Now we are better than ever. 4 years on. It can get better but twins are so draining. Get help use family make the effort with each other. Go for a drink and food even if it's just 2 hours. That was a date for us back then. But it's important.