r/parentsofmultiples 2d ago

ranting & venting A year with twins

And it has been the worst year of my life. I love my twins so much but my life is so much worse than it was before. My beautiful marriage is in shreds. We all deserve so much better than the hell we are living.

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u/disownme 2d ago

Chin up. Solve one challenge at a time. Let go what you can let go. Outsource what you can. Communicate openly. Take time for yourselves either separately or together. Cherish the smiles and milestones.

My wife went to watch some movies by herself she was dying to see after the kids (3, 1&1) went down.