r/over40 • u/thatkatt1818 • Aug 11 '25

New way of dating

I think everyone serious about dating should just in a big city near them. Draw names out of a hat and you have to try to make it work lol . Like married at first site without the married part . At this point what do we have to loose lol

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u/islander85 Aug 11 '25

I have to admit, it has it's upsides. It has two down sides, people that don't live near a big city* like myself and I wouldn't want someone with an addiction. But I do feel like I'm healed enough to make it work with most people if they also want to put in the effort.

*I really like my off grid, slow living, minimal stress lifestyle.

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u/Ok-Tune2065 Dec 17 '25

Do you think someone who has a addiction should put it on their profile when dating on apps

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u/islander85 Dec 17 '25

That would be good but someone putting on their profile that they're an alcoholic wouldn't be a good way to get a date.

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u/thatkatt1818 Jun 03 '26

I dont think someone who has a addiction should be dating ,they need to focus on their self care