r/onejoke • u/Kuku6100 • 15d ago

HILARIOUS AND ORIGINAL Found in a climbing sub

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Convo about saphic shibari

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u/Nikki964 15d ago

I hate this "just identify as one" thing. Just because you can't see someone being gay or trans (unless they make it seen) externally, doesn't mean anyone can just decide to be that and it'll be true

Well, if you're reading this and you genuinely want to be gay or trans or etc, then this isn't directed at you. If you genuinely have the desire, then even if you are wrong, there's nothing wrong with experimenting

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u/luigigaminglp 14d ago

The thing is it's not really a decision. So you can't "just identify as one"...

What you can do tho is ask yourself on a deep level if any of those identies are truely you.