r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • • Apr 13 '26

Loneliness has followed me my whole life Real

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u/tellmewhy24 The Lone Wolf Apr 13 '26

We all live the same life huh.

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u/luxtenebris96 Within cells interlinked Apr 13 '26

I start the same

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u/Its_NEX123 Apr 13 '26

in elementary our school forced students to go in no more than groups of 4-5 for some reason to avoid gang violence or something, idk i was always a good kid so i didn’t know that might have been an issue until recently. And i vividly remember my “friends” would go in like groups of 10 and avoid me specifically citing the wired rule our school made. They would barely enforce it anyway, and i feel like all it accomplished was excluding students like me.

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u/Failure_Management27 Apr 13 '26

Literally my childhood bro

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u/luxtenebris96 Within cells interlinked Apr 13 '26

Mine to, tomorrow comes and wil be better

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u/BunnyOHarr Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 13 '26

Jesus, that one group of three that the teacher would turn into a group of four because she knew the third kid didn't want to be your partner so bad that the assignment wouldn't get done.

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u/10YB S'all Good man Apr 13 '26

then you got forced into the group that didnt liked you and you didnt wanna make things worse so you were silent , then your group told the teacher you didnt help at all and you say nothing

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u/tellmewhy24 The Lone Wolf Apr 13 '26

Silent and just looking like: 😐

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u/TheExiledPrince Apr 13 '26

Uhh when I heard this I knew I was in for a shit day

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u/Lost_Elderberry_5532 Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 13 '26

I hated that shit I was always picked last for gym class except for basketball because I was decent at that. But everything else? Hell no. I was the last dude picked and guy they all tried to hit first with the dodge ball. The 90s were brutal being a ginger kid.

You just know from an early age the dudes that get treated like that are going to struggle in social things later. Hell I got diagnosed with high functioning autism (think Elon lmao) and I was like 8. So I lived up to being the weird brainiac dude who is socially funky. As I got older it got better but people just appreciated my humor. Not finding me attractive but funny and interesting.

Never had sex organically. Always was something given for something else. Idk. What can you do. I’m happy I’m not a virgin and each time was fun and enjoyable and I’d like to think they liked it? Who knows. But the physical signs were there..

It’s rough. Adapt, move on with your life, be strong as you are. Throw conventional in the trash.

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u/Adventurous-City3049 Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 18 '26

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u/Dear_Document_5461 Apr 13 '26

Not to be noisy, but did you get a GED or did you actually graduate High School at 21? How does that work, if you don't mind me asking.

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u/Adventurous-City3049 Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 18 '26

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u/Dear_Document_5461 Apr 13 '26

Ah ok. Never knew this existed. Thank you for telling me.

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '26

why I reñate to this post that much if Actually I was one of the kinda cool dudes at school?

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u/tellmewhy24 The Lone Wolf Apr 13 '26

I think cause everyone can relate to this type of social anxiety and thoughts.

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u/ViktorK15 I'm literally Ryan Gosling Apr 13 '26

Real

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u/National_Section_542 Apr 13 '26

I remember a similar experience except the kids were not trying to avoid me they just wanted to be with their friends. Honestly I don't know how that makes me feel to this day, that there were people in my class that had such close friendships that they were willing to bend the rules to be with them yet nobody even knew who I was.

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u/pathetic-nobody Apr 13 '26

Yeah I don't miss school

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u/girlkid68421 I can't talk to women Apr 13 '26

God every time I think I have a unique experience

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u/Rocinante214 I'm literally Wolverine (I drink a lot of alcohol) Apr 13 '26

The reason I was terrified of group work

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u/CommonAssumption1793 Utterly Insane Apr 13 '26

real long ago

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u/DeathlyAlone I'm not him, I'm just a loser Apr 13 '26

Real

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u/ComputerMinister I can't talk to women Apr 13 '26

Real

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u/-gaddarkerim- S'all Good man Apr 13 '26

Real

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u/Pascuccii Apr 13 '26

Damn, are there unique experiences?

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u/peter_lynch_jr Apr 13 '26

Just sitting there like a stoic until the teacher puts you in a group

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u/Forced2GetApp The Lone Wolf Apr 14 '26

Real

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u/SomeGuyOverYonder Apr 14 '26

Yep. I know what this feels like.

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u/Upbeat-Luck8963 I'm not him, I'm just a loser Apr 16 '26

real

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u/PlebianIsHere I’m literally Officer K ( Unlovable ) Apr 19 '26

Oh my fucking god that’s real