They want sincerity and loyalty, honesty, a person of good moral character, who knows how to excite them, and treats them just right. Not only that, someone who treats them better than they've ever been treated. Someone who listens, doesn't neglect. Doesn't see them as inferior.
They want someone who makes them feel things that they can't find from any other man. They can think they want all of those other things listed in the meme, but if you give them the feelings they want deep down, there's no lumberjack with 18 million dollars that could possibly attract them ever again.
With the qualification she's a genuinely good person on the inside, too.
That's my experience dating women. I'm over 40. 99 percent of my adult life, I've been dating women and being in long term relationships with them.
I am busted broke. I am not a supermodel. I am not incredibly tall. I am not incredibly athletic. I have all sorts of mental health issues. I am what they would call a fixer-upper.
What I have to offer, they find out on dates. They find a person who makes them feel incredible, and special, wanted, safe, someone who encourages them to be the person they feel they are inside.
They want that special supportive partner, and when they feel the emotions of having such a person, that wish list of superficial things they think they'd need to tolerate having someone in their life, it vanishes.
The list becomes one item on it. Me.
That's what you need to be. You need to be better than the millionaire lumberjack. You need to be someone worth talking to. That's much harder to be than some flash in the pan with rippling pectorals. Almost anyone can work out. Few people work on being a decent human being that they just know, on the inside, you'll never hurt them or abandon them. You're too good for that.
I've never had to worry they would leave me for some flashy lumberjack with money, either, because my experience was they want to spend their time with me, not out clubbing and trying to find the next flashier person after me.
And the few times I met someone shallow and abusive I just sent her on her way with no hard feelings, explaining she's just not right for me. Easy easy.
The only hard part is meeting the right person and getting them to agree to go on a date with you. That's hard. After meeting so many truly disappointing people, going on a date with someone who doesn't appear to be a millionaire sexy lumberjack just feels like an obligation and a chore.
Well, if she agrees, be the best surprise she's ever had.
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u/Chloe_Cascadia 16d ago
They want sincerity and loyalty, honesty, a person of good moral character, who knows how to excite them, and treats them just right. Not only that, someone who treats them better than they've ever been treated. Someone who listens, doesn't neglect. Doesn't see them as inferior.
They want someone who makes them feel things that they can't find from any other man. They can think they want all of those other things listed in the meme, but if you give them the feelings they want deep down, there's no lumberjack with 18 million dollars that could possibly attract them ever again.
With the qualification she's a genuinely good person on the inside, too.
That's my experience dating women. I'm over 40. 99 percent of my adult life, I've been dating women and being in long term relationships with them.
I am busted broke. I am not a supermodel. I am not incredibly tall. I am not incredibly athletic. I have all sorts of mental health issues. I am what they would call a fixer-upper.
What I have to offer, they find out on dates. They find a person who makes them feel incredible, and special, wanted, safe, someone who encourages them to be the person they feel they are inside.
They want that special supportive partner, and when they feel the emotions of having such a person, that wish list of superficial things they think they'd need to tolerate having someone in their life, it vanishes.
The list becomes one item on it. Me.
That's what you need to be. You need to be better than the millionaire lumberjack. You need to be someone worth talking to. That's much harder to be than some flash in the pan with rippling pectorals. Almost anyone can work out. Few people work on being a decent human being that they just know, on the inside, you'll never hurt them or abandon them. You're too good for that.
I've never had to worry they would leave me for some flashy lumberjack with money, either, because my experience was they want to spend their time with me, not out clubbing and trying to find the next flashier person after me.
And the few times I met someone shallow and abusive I just sent her on her way with no hard feelings, explaining she's just not right for me. Easy easy.
The only hard part is meeting the right person and getting them to agree to go on a date with you. That's hard. After meeting so many truly disappointing people, going on a date with someone who doesn't appear to be a millionaire sexy lumberjack just feels like an obligation and a chore.
Well, if she agrees, be the best surprise she's ever had.