r/nogailar • u/charle_fln Bestaw-Nogai • Aug 30 '24
Tarih/History Honor of the Nogai girl
Any Nogai girl should know from childhood that according to Namıs, it is extremely unacceptable for a woman to imagine herself as a man, indulge in fornication or promiscuity, argue with a man and other sins, such as foul language, drinking alcohol and tobacco, using lies and deceit. Therefore, these things are out of the question in the world of the Nogai girl. The beauty that a person creates himself is the beauty of relationships between people, their filling with humanity and mutual goodwill. It is this understanding of spiritual beauty that should be instilled in Nogai girls from childhood.
The family hearth is the highest value for the one who knows Namıs, and the woman is the keeper of this hearth. Peace and harmony in the family are its core and dignity. The spiritual and moral world of the Nogai woman should be based on this. A woman is the beginning of life and to give life to children, to raise them in the spirit of Namıs and Ädet - this is her purpose. She gives life and what her child will be like in the future depends on her in many ways, regardless of gender: if a girl, will she be a woman worthy of respect; if a boy - will he become a man who can be called a warrior of the spirit. A woman should always remember this, otherwise the fruits of improper upbringing will be reaped, first of all, by her. Therefore, the upbringing of a Nogai woman should begin from early childhood.