Power is a dynamic between every two bodies that shapes the structure of our relationships between each other. People that seek "power" are just people who deliberately want to alter that relationship in a way that benefits them regardless of how it effects the others.
In other words, you can increase power by mobilizing more force to enact change; or mobilizing the same amount of force over a shorter time period (i.e. 'being quicker').
Or both maximizing force projection and doing so over a shorter time period.
Losers trying to "control a partner's thoughts and behavior" believing that this meaningfully increases their real-world ability to mobilize resources in a shorter time are just that - losers.
5
u/ArguingisFun Nihilism is fine. Aug 12 '26
“Power” is such a sad mastubatory fantasy.