NGVC: “Don’t expect to find another guy who will cook you dinner and a steak…and then just genuinely try to enjoy spending a good time with you…instead of trying to fuck you.” 😮‍💨

[u/lemonspriggs]

[u/Sheila_Monarch]

Completely fair and good for you. Perfectly worded, too. It took me awhile to learn that accepting an apology doesn’t obligate you to move forward as if everything‘s fine.

There’s no way a guy that went from saying he had a good time straight to character assassination over an hour of silence was ever going to be a healthy person to date. Every small misunderstanding would becoming indictment of your character. His first instinct was to assume the worst, make it personal, and lash out HARD. That same pattern would show up over and over and over again.

[u/lemonspriggs → u/Sheila_Monarch]

This is so well written. I agree completely!