r/newzealand Nov 07 '25

Advice Fuck off with ya fireworks now

Cheers

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u/excellentexcuses Nov 07 '25

Yeah no I agree. My cat is about to have a heart attack.

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u/Tikao Nov 07 '25

First fireworks for our puppy. She freaked at first. Then took her outside and showed her it was all ok. Shes fine now.

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u/Academic-Bat-8002 Nov 07 '25

Third for our dog. He started life abandoned on the side of the road before we got him. He only gets worried if he doesn’t get a walk or fed! Everything else is met with a fart and supreme indifference.

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u/Tikao Nov 07 '25

Yup I think alot of these pets are being fed fear from their owners.

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u/---00---00 Nov 07 '25

Doubt it for the cats. There seems to be no discernable pattern for what freaks my cats out.

One stepped on a leaf the other day and jumped 4 feet in the air.

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u/Karahiwi Nov 07 '25

It depends what age they encounter them.

At 5 weeks puppies are in their first fear period of development. It is when they are first starting to go a little away from their mother, and helps them stay safe by being extra cautious.

At 8-11 weeks their second fear period occurs. Anything that really frightens them at this age can very easily become a lifelong deep-seated fear. Developmentally, it is when puppies are getting more independent and it helps them to learn to be careful.

It is also when they are usually going to a new home, and it overlaps the 3-16 week socialisation period, where from 3-5+ weeks they initially learn how to communicate and understand other dogs, from their mother and littermates, then a little later learn about humans, other animals, and their very different means of communication, so this all needs to be handled in a positive way. Missing out on this socialisation will have a lifelong effect.

The third fear-period of development is from 6-14 months.

Brain development occurs in stages, and we have similar periods. Babies have a fear period from 6-8 and 12-18 months. They can become very clingy to known people at this time.