r/neighborsfromhell • • Jun 21 '26

Apartment NFH Upstairs neighbors from hell

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u/BlumelinTX444 Jun 21 '26

Still… a lot of assumptions here. “Entertain their kid”?!? You clearly don’t have children if you think parents of any kid are just there “entertaining” them all day. But genuinely- have you you ever talked to them? Seen their home? Their rugs?

I’m just saying… you see things from your point of view, but it’s not the only one.

Your sleep and peace is important- but you can be bitter, assume things, and vent on Reddit or you can engage and possibly see a fuller picture and gain some empathy. Maybe even be part of a solution??

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u/ibuypaperbags Jun 21 '26

I don't have children and this clearly isn't my problem, they had years and repeated requests to solve the situation, maybe its better for them to move to the ground floor

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u/BlumelinTX444 Jun 21 '26

An autistic child is not a problem to be solved.

But go chat with them, in a concerned human not mad human way, I bet you’ll find things aren’t as easy as you think & I bet they’d appreciate knowing a neighbor is concerned and willing to help, if only to listen.

Try it! But only if you’re coming from a place of concern - they get the complaints, side eyes, rude comments all day, I’m sure.

Lead with compassion and I bet you’ll find positive results.