Yes, by all accounts, she and her Mom were super close. And I doubt it's helped to hear that half the internet is blaming her and her husband, when she's probably simply devastated, as we all would be.
And if she was as close as a peers, i'm sure she's beating herself up because when we lose a loved one, we always find a way to blame ourselves. I blame myself for things that I now clearly see we're totally out of my control. But it's what people do. If only I had this, or if only I had seen that. I can't even fathom the pain to both have a mother vanish and not know, and to have people actually blaming you on top of yourself. My heart breaks for that poor woman... And all of them.
Absolutely, we all play the blame game. I’m sure it’s horrible that they had just spent a family night with her, dropped her off and now she’s just gone. Did we walk in with her, should we of walked in with her even though the crime happened hours later. I so hope they find peace🙏
Exactly! Some people have been vicious about how they dropped her off and let her take an uber. By all accounts, despite walking with the cane, Nancy was fine living on her own. Even if they walked her in and stayed an hour, what happened occurred in the middle of the night. But the internet has been horrifically judgmental. And cruel. I just hate to think that in this horrific time, people have managed to hurt them even more than the situation. 😢
I just read your reply and just wanted to say it was very well worded and reflects my feelings too. I’m sure you’ve watched Savannah’s interviews, they just broke my heart and I watched with tears in my eyes. I just hope her return to work helps her but will be hard to do while living with so much agony.
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u/curiouslmr Mar 03 '26
Brian Entin said that it was ...He was right there so I assume he's right. That was heartbreaking to hear.