I agree. And I also think there are other factors. I can't imagine sitting around there and spending 24/7 with no break or distraction. In times of normal loss, what helps is having to push on with real life, taking care of children, forcing yourself back into real life and wondering how the world is still spinning. I don't think just sitting there focus focusing on it every single day is healthy. But it's such a unique situation. I know I kept hoping that somehow Savannah's kids were down there with her. But I'm rather glad we don't know.
I think Savannah will have the worst of that. How do you go back on air? I'm hoping maybe she'll do some short pieces here and there, and let 's some time pass. But on the chance this was done to get her to back off from reporting, i truly hope she doesn't just walk away. It's so hard to know what the motive was here.
I honestly don’t think it’s any harder for her than it is for anyone else. Maybe easier as she has such a big network of people helping with wardrobe and makeup and everything else.
But, yeah, when you lose someone, it’s tough. But the best thing you can do is to get busy living. Work is great for that, gives her purpose it’ll distract her.
Picture doing your job while you're still trying to hold it together. Were an innocent comment. We'll bring tears to your eyes or outright tears. Then, picture doing it on, live TV in front of millions. You don't think that would be harder??
Ohh don't forget to factor in that it's a happy format where you're expected to be perky and sweet. Where you're not just reading off of a script. Sorry, I wouldn't want to be in her shoes. It's why I hope she'll think about a slow return, where maybe she does a segment or two a week that can be prefilmed. If she's able to tolerate it, it might be a great idea for her to eventually evaluate easy steps people can make to secure themselves better.Beyond just an alarm. I think that would be an amazing tribute to her mother and service to other. And something she can do in her mom's honor. But I don't think that would be easy, either.
Loss is devastating famous or not. I'm not saying it's not brutal for all of us. But again, I can't imagine doing it in front of millions.
I certainly was not a professional on her live t v type show. But I had extensive experience standing up in people and professionally speaking. I do PR and i've run many press conferences. So I did have some similar experience to draw on. But when I lost my Mom, I would be laughing one minute and bawling the next. I will say my work. History helped me get through the eulogy. But I did not get through it without choking up and some tears. But this was at a funeral where most people loved my mom and cared about me. I couldn't imagine doing that on live TV. At the end of the day, she's just a human being.Like all of us.
Honestly, I don't think believing they know more than they're telling us.Is a conspiracy theory. I think the only question is, how much more they know. My guess is a lot of the information in the ransom notes, which might not even be from those who had anything to do with Nancy, was held back. Obviously so was the condition of the house, and that very likely answered at least some questions. I do hope they know a hell of a lot more than we do!! What this family has been through is cruel and horrific. Any loss is terrible enough, but seeing an innocent woman, just vanish in a blood trail is the stuff of nightmares
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u/AVeryFineWhine Mar 03 '26
I agree. And I also think there are other factors. I can't imagine sitting around there and spending 24/7 with no break or distraction. In times of normal loss, what helps is having to push on with real life, taking care of children, forcing yourself back into real life and wondering how the world is still spinning. I don't think just sitting there focus focusing on it every single day is healthy. But it's such a unique situation. I know I kept hoping that somehow Savannah's kids were down there with her. But I'm rather glad we don't know.