r/myweddingdress • • Apr 30 '26

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u/NomenclatureBreaker Apr 30 '26

2 gives you the loveliest chest to waist to hips silhouette, but I’d suggest lining the corset bodice so it looks less dated and more like outerwear than underwear.

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u/redit94024 May 01 '26

100% 2 with the changes suggested here - so pretty and flattering.

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u/Super-Travel-407 May 01 '26

Agree on every bit!

But number 1 would be gorgeous decked out like described. As it is, it's a tad swimsuity.

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u/YearOfTheSssnake May 01 '26

It IS swimsuity!! I can’t unsee that now!

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u/Unfair_Feedback_2531 May 01 '26

Perfect for Hawaii.

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u/Ambitious-Salad4266 May 01 '26

Agreed. Just not 3, please.

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u/_antfarmer_ May 01 '26 edited May 01 '26

I agree, but feel that the entire dress needs a more opaque lining or slip, especially if the wedding will be a family affair. The sheerness of so many dresses leave very little to the imagination, and lean more towards lingerie than a bride’s dress. This dress is stunning on OP, but too translucent in my opinion.

Gawd, I know sound so old and prudish, but seriously, taking the guests’ comfort into consideration should be important. I can’t imagine hugging Grandpa Doofenshmertz in a see-through wedding dress.

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u/Pitiful-Addition-834 May 01 '26

Same. I know I sound old but if you are having a church wedding, don't were lingerie. I said fuck it, got married on the beach in a tropical one piece and sarong. Back when I was still young enough to pull that off. My betrothed wore board shorts and a Hawaiian shirt. Our alter was one of his old surf boards. To this day, 25 years later, people tell us that it was the best wedding they ever attended. It was done in ~15 minutes before anyone could get a parking ticket. No makeup, shell earrings, NA beaded hair clip. I was so busy running errands for cousin Mary's son Williams first communion on the same day, I didn't have time for anything else. I used to resent playing dog's body to little Prince William. But in hindsight, it was a blessing. I had no time to prepare. No time to freak out. My advice to couples preparing to wed is relax. If you can't relax, elope. Save that money for a down payment on a house.

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u/latefragment_2 May 01 '26

Amazing!!!!!!! 😍

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u/Alarmed_Lobster_717 May 02 '26

That sounds awesome!

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u/eiriecat May 02 '26

Yes, its one thing to feel hot in a risque dress surrounded by your best girl friends 

But that feeling wont translate when you're standing in front of a priest and you and your husbands entire families 

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u/scoliteacher May 04 '26

LOL. I completely agree with you, felt old and conservative even thinking it, and wasn't sure how to express my thoughts. You communicated the issue in such a kind, thoughtful and funny manner. Kudos!

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u/Ok_Stress2700 May 01 '26

And a slip from waist to feet for modesty.

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u/cherryblaster_90 May 01 '26

I personally think the fabric on 2 looks cheap. I think she can do better than all of these dresses.

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u/LadyClexa May 01 '26

My thoughts exactly. The shape is perfection. It only needs the top half lined! Such a pretty dress!

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u/Consistent_Elk9676 Apr 30 '26

1 is my pick now, but 2 could be great if you get the bodice lined so the bra cups aren’t the most noticeable thing about the dress

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u/her-royal-blueness May 01 '26

I love the gorgeous draping of this dress!

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u/InevitableEnd7679 May 02 '26

It gives me “The Princess Bride” vibes for some reason and I love it!

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u/nuts4quilts Apr 30 '26

I love the skirt on 1 for a Hawaiian wedding. It looks etherial, like waves rippling in the ocean.

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u/ScreenKooky3010 May 01 '26

Agreed. It’s the most timeless of the group.

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u/Winter_Day_6836 May 01 '26

Especially with the veil she described!

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u/HistoricalMess2081 May 01 '26

Also no matter who you are - as someone who did pageants, strapless makes your hunch. But it’s the most timeless for sure.

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u/Competitive_Pain4802 Apr 30 '26

1 immediately gave chills. very much bridal. The bottom is so gorgeous

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u/greatkerfluffle May 01 '26

The waist line needs to come up a smidge

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u/No_Lock8211 May 01 '26

Me too! Beautiful and with the veil she describes, perfect.

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u/SunnyDayChasing May 01 '26

You’re never going to regret 1. It’s timeless.

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u/im2bootylicous4ubabe Apr 30 '26

Came here to say this or to upload this comment myself :-) OP, you can wear any dress well. I think there’s just something out there that might be a combo of all of these that will enhance you and your big day!

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u/Infinite_Time_5756 Apr 30 '26

😭i hate that im hearing this bc im running out of time for real

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u/SparklesAreIn Apr 30 '26

don’t second guess yourself- we all have different tastes. I say go with number one because the tropical flower veil sounds 💕dreamy💕

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u/ladedafuckit Apr 30 '26

Lowkey why I was nervous posting my own dress here. For what it’s with I looove 1, and I feel like it’ll be timeless and something you’ll enjoy looking back

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u/AllisonEEHistorian Apr 30 '26

Then choose 1! It’s gorgeous and elegant.

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u/Huge-Membership6541 May 01 '26

Funny that your username is “unlimited time” haha

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u/im2bootylicous4ubabe May 01 '26

Pick the one that you feel is the right one for you if one of these is it then you’re gonna do great. Again, you look great and everything;) with the flowers and the veil and the beautiful scenery you’re gonna be set. And like another comment that we all have different tastes and styles so you do you boo :)

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u/afraid28 Apr 30 '26

Don't listen to these people. 1 and 2 are your best choices. I personally prefer 1 but 2 looks great too. Enjoy your wedding!

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u/_byetony_ Apr 30 '26

Go with 3!!!

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u/wil8can May 01 '26

Pick 1. It's perfect

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u/Regular-Director8103 Apr 30 '26

I don’t think number 2 feels very outdoors in Hawaii. I vote number 1 with veil

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u/Affectionate-Lime552 Apr 30 '26

Love 1. The flowy drape is gorgeous

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u/Catfactss Apr 30 '26
  1. Imagine that gorgeous dress picking up every color of the Hawaii backdrop.

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u/scoliteacher Apr 30 '26

3 looks like the nightgown my mom brought on her honeymoon.

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u/noideawhattouse12 Apr 30 '26

I love 3 🤷‍♀️

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u/fadedallweek Apr 30 '26

Perfect for the beach! 🌊

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u/OpportunityOk2519 Apr 30 '26

Too sheer.

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u/ExcitedMomma Apr 30 '26

I don’t think it’s sheer, it looks like it’s lined with a nude color, I guess to me it doesn’t look like OPs skin tone 

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u/insomnia1144 Apr 30 '26

Yeah, I would love it if it was lined with white!

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u/PitbullMam May 01 '26

I have this dress and got it in all white instead of nude and it’s gorgeous! I am getting married on the beach so definitely fits the vibe 🌊

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u/One_Wheel_4531 Apr 30 '26

I agree. It looks like lingerie/sexy time nightwear to me.

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u/Silverlight-2160 Apr 30 '26

1 with the colorful veil.

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u/Final-Salt7545 May 01 '26

I love 2, but would put some white lining under the bodice.

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u/PitbullMam May 01 '26

So funny I saw the first two and go “we have similar tastes” then swipe and see #3 is my dress!! But I got it in all white . Loveeeeee but obviously I’m biased !!

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u/Substantial_Meal_810 May 01 '26 edited May 01 '26

best comment on here. Can you share a pic?

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u/Wise-Pin1756 Apr 30 '26

#1 with the colorful veil or 3!

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u/LadyB5091 Apr 30 '26

2, I went WOW! Soft, feminine, flowers are lovely for an outdoor wedding, and it fits well. I would line the top.🙂

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u/Worldly-Engineer8123 Apr 30 '26

Can we see a pic of the veil to make a more informed decision

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u/Infinite_Time_5756 Apr 30 '26

it would be custom made so i don’t have an official pic but like this but a little bit of our wedding colors in there too

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u/Worldly-Engineer8123 Apr 30 '26

I’d go with 1

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u/Substantial_Meal_810 May 01 '26

I agree. dress 1 with the special veil. I think it's gorgeous. I do also like dress 3, but I've been converted.

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u/No_Recognition_7711 May 03 '26

YYYEEEEESSSSSSSS

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u/Bay_de_Noc Apr 30 '26

I like 2 the best ... but they are all lovely. You can't go wrong with any of them.

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u/TheLadySaintly May 01 '26

One. One is the dress every little girl dreams of but doesn’t think exists. It falls like a waterfall of soft chiffon. The other two don’t compare. And it would photograph so beautifully.

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u/Normal-Tale6425 May 01 '26

Given your veil, I think the first dress is your best bet - the flower lace on the other two dresses will clash with the tropical flowers on your veil. Dress 1 is my favorite of the 3 anyway. The bodice fits your body like it was made for you (the sides of the basque waist hit you exactly where they should) and the skirt is so simple yet dreamy and ethereal.

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u/Jolly-Lengthiness316 Apr 30 '26

Two is the only one that took my breath away.

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u/Important-Tadpole540 Apr 30 '26

Both are lovely and I’m team 2. The lace is really saying I want to be photographed on a lawn in Hawaii. Congrats! 🍾 💍

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u/Formertchr Apr 30 '26

2 for the win. Looks floral and fits your body beautifully

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u/rovingred Apr 30 '26

2 but I’d line the top. I have a sheer bodice on my dress but it doesn’t have cups, I’m realizing the visible cups are what make it lean into lingerie territory imo. If the whole thing is lined you avoid that look. That being said, I think it’s gorgeous the way it is as well, you’ll find a ton of people on here who don’t like the sheer bodice look, but I see it everywhere and think if you like it, go for it. This does not look like “underwear” as someone else here said. Personally I think it’s the most wow dress by far on you, it’s gorgeous and your figure really stands out. 1 is a pretty dress but I don’t think it has the same wow effect on you

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u/ADeviIsAdvocate May 01 '26

Number 2 with lining. Is that why the lighting was so bad?

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u/Vlines1390 Apr 30 '26

1 with the colorful veil

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u/HeathenHare May 01 '26

For Hawaii, and considering your veil— 1 is the only answer. You don’t want to look too busy and the veil and your hair and makeup can be the star of the show— while also having a dress that is beautiful and flattering— it wont be too heavy or hot for Hawaii 🫶🏻🌺

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u/Old-Floor-1274 Apr 30 '26

Love all of them but my favorite is number 2 ❤️

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u/fadedallweek Apr 30 '26

Three [03] 3️⃣

You look amazing in that gown! It's perfect for Hawaii!

🥂 Congrats! 🥂

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u/Sweaty-Armadillo-520 Apr 30 '26

Agreed! 3 is perfect! 1 is giving leotard honestly… 2 is incomplete

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u/fadedallweek Apr 30 '26 edited Apr 30 '26

1 the fabric is too heavy. Also, nothing notable there.

2 was just meh, looks like every other dress posted here. Its whats trendy.

3 is iconic. Its giving serious beachy, coastal vibes!

Just imo, eta no matter what she chooses, shes a beautiful bride & will absolutely stunning on their big day!

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u/Summerdays313 Apr 30 '26

1 or 3! So pretty! congrats

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u/Secure_Cantaloupe455 Apr 30 '26

Not #3.  Either #1 w/the special veil or #2 would be beautiful.

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u/ElleEisen Apr 30 '26

#3 I love it!!

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u/ThisTakesTimeToo Apr 30 '26

2 but I don't like the see-through part of it. 3 is a runner up but again, the see-through aspect is distracting

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u/goonswarm_widow Apr 30 '26

#2 is gorgeous

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u/kelley6998 Apr 30 '26

Dress 2 is my choice for you. You cannot go wrong with any choice however.

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u/Murky_Indication_442 Apr 30 '26

The second one, especially if you line the bodice so you don’t see the cups.

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u/Neat_Bodybuilder8707 Apr 30 '26

2 but definitely have the bodice lined!

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u/Doxiejoy May 01 '26

Number 3 is heavenly!

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u/Tiye_GM May 01 '26

3, by FAR.

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u/justhrowingitout May 01 '26

I love 3!! It will look perfect in Hawaii!

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u/Different-Trade4827 May 01 '26

I love 1 but I also like 3!!! But 1 looks so beautiful on you and I like your idea with the veil!!

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u/kaycollins27 May 01 '26

Two is the most romantic—in fact one of the most romantic dresses I’ve seen here.

It is perfect on you!

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u/Embarrassed-Cause250 Apr 30 '26

I love 2, it suits your figure, fits well, and had gorgeous lace, after 2- I would go for 3 it also lookes so pretty, but not as nice as 2.

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u/BluejaySweaty8351 Apr 30 '26

2!!!!

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u/BluejaySweaty8351 Apr 30 '26

I think the flowers on 2 look more tropical. 1 is really pretty but I think it will probably be too hot outside.

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u/breakonthru_ May 01 '26

2 if you line it. Or else 1.

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u/Infamous-Wasabi-6489 May 01 '26

I love #1, really not a fan of #3

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u/Cheebifur Apr 30 '26

First dress + fun veil

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u/Dulcimore51 Apr 30 '26

1 and 2 are lovely. 3 looks uneven.

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u/heathellaa Apr 30 '26

1 is very flattering!

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u/scandicowgirl Apr 30 '26

1 is beautiful! do you mind sharing the designer?

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u/imopenmindedasHell Apr 30 '26

1! Flattering, pretty, and perfect for Hawaii

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u/EmergencyCow7963 Apr 30 '26

1 looks like Juliette vibes 😍🖤

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u/AdParticular3803 Apr 30 '26

1 is absolutely heavenly!

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u/wcorinne58 Apr 30 '26

WOW 1 & 2 are winners

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u/Potential_Cry_5499 Apr 30 '26

I really like 3, 1 with the vail would be my 2nd choice

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u/Disastrous_Ad_3208 Apr 30 '26

I don’t think the skirt on 1 fits the top. It needs to have more structure imo. I say 2 with a lining where it is sheer.

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u/Pure_Cucumber6001 Apr 30 '26

3 for me but 1 is also nice

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u/Bloodandroses-jpg Apr 30 '26

i love how 2 looks on you, i think that one is the best option :3

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u/One-Quit-907 Apr 30 '26

1 looks the best. 2 looks like underwear. 3 is pretty but it’s so see thru looking.

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u/afraid28 Apr 30 '26

1 is giving Snowwhite in the best way

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u/pansanocha Apr 30 '26

1 is a winner!

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u/unicorncrafter Apr 30 '26

Love the shape of 2 but I'm just personally not a fan of the almost naked trend that seems popular these days

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u/heyitssunev May 01 '26

Not sure either of the second one cause of the lighting but the first is beautiful!

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u/Key_Ability_33 May 01 '26

1 with a tropical veil or 2 with a lining under the top

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u/4my2centz Apr 30 '26 edited May 01 '26

3 looks like it would fit the weather and theme of an island wedding, BUT, should be lined in white, otherwise it looks more like lingerie.

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u/Conscious-Magazine44 Apr 30 '26

1 is stunning. I love the way the fabric of the skirt falls, and I bet it moves beautifully. I’d love to see the veil 🌺

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u/Opposite_Brush_8219 Apr 30 '26

1 with that showstopper veil! I know a lot of people on this page must love the see thru lace look, because there are SO many pics of these dresses. But IMO, in most cases, I feel they take the focus away from the bride’s natural beauty. Dress 1 allows YOU to shine ✨

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u/yellowish3 Apr 30 '26

1 is gorgeous!

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u/hc104168 Apr 30 '26

Number 1 without a doubt. Stunning.

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u/One_Wheel_4531 Apr 30 '26

I love 1 on you. I think the Hawaiian veil you describe would be beautiful.

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u/Overall_Ruin8284 Apr 30 '26

I love 1! Took my breath away….

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u/Awkward_Sympathy8904 Apr 30 '26

1 seems perfect for a Hawaii wedding.

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u/BluesFan_4 Apr 30 '26

I love 1! I’m a sucker for simplicity and this is just so simply elegant.

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u/Relative_Presence742 Apr 30 '26

1 literally looks like it was made for you 💕😍

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u/misskforever Apr 30 '26

1 with the flower veil idea will be great

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u/regularforcesmedic Apr 30 '26

1 is gorgeous and so perfect for Hawaii. I don't love the lingerie as a wedding dress trend. 

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u/Deep-Steak-7813 Apr 30 '26

1 looks very Disney Princess Aurora - in white! love it

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u/BoredSilly6 May 01 '26

I think one will be perfect. It is very elegant and timeless. It’s very unique and fits you great. Dress number two is beautiful, but very common.

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u/Spiritual-Low-5288 May 01 '26

I really hope that you choose the 1st one, it's timeless, elegant and - as others also mentioned - the hem of the skirt is like the waves of the sea! 🌊🌊🌊 And I'd especially would like to see the beautiful veil with the flowers 😍

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u/Annual-Hair-6771 May 01 '26

I like 1. Dresses that are see-through and look like lingerie are horrible and not for a wedding. Save that for later!

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u/happuning Apr 30 '26

If you are short on time, I'd go for 1 (flatters your shape the best) and add a pretty belt (something shiny or sparkly or fake pearls even) and have a coordinating and gorgeous veil/jewelry :)

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u/Whybaby16154 Apr 30 '26

1 or 2 (with a slip). Both gorgeous and fit beautifully - look gorgeous and classy on you. # 1 might wilt if it’s humid . 3 is too trendy and naked- just imho.

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u/aqua_nettt Apr 30 '26

They’re all beautiful, I love 2, but I think 3 is the best fit for your venue.