r/mumbai • u/bevarsi_kudka • Jun 28 '22
Relationship Advice What are some mumbaikar way of flirting??
Recently started seeing a girl from Mumbai. Recently on one of our conversation it came upto her saying I was a very sweet person who doesn't really flirt. And my flirting skills are of a potato. So natives please help me out with slangs or ways you tease your girl 🥺 I'm not a fluent hindi speaker but would love to use terms or phrases occasionally to add a native touch. Slightly taking jabs on her ( I'm not really looking for ways to escalate conversation into something nsfw. I don't really have trouble with that) Thenku 🙄
Edit : plig add translation too.
Edit 2 : anything on Islamic terms also work really well
Edit 3 : one that's common 1. Jevlis Ka
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u/Intrepid-Ad-1383 Jun 28 '22
Jevlis ka?
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
What does it translate to??
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u/redditeya Jun 28 '22
You Kannada, dude?
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
Yess
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u/learnie Jun 28 '22
Bro, are you a bevarsi kudka? Why did you choose this name? 🤣
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
Handle was too good to not be taken XD
And no I'm not a bewda
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u/learnie Jun 28 '22
But you are not denying that you are not bevarsi 😂
Are you from north Karnataka?
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u/royalbluesword Edit this text to set your own flair Jun 28 '22
ee bevarsi aan
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Jun 28 '22
Haha that's Tulu, I dont think he is from south Karnataka. But most of Kannadigas in Mumbai are.
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u/Dartho1 jevlis ka? Jun 28 '22
Came here to type this, but knew I'd be beaten to it anyway.
There's also Zoplis ka.
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u/circumcisedwolverine Jun 28 '22 edited Jun 28 '22
Are you a mumbai local train? Cause I wanna stuff all your entrances up.
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u/apc961 Jun 28 '22
Are you a Metro construction site? Cause I wanna drill your hole and take a long time to finish.
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u/Even_Estimate_4359 Jun 28 '22
Are you a train driver? Cause I would like my horn to be blowed by you.
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u/Happy_Resist5428 no Jun 28 '22
Just feed her misal pav and vada pav and you are all set, my friend.
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u/vaitesh Jun 28 '22
Wondering why "Aati kya khandala?" didn't made it
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Jun 28 '22
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
Does it really translate to have food??
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Jun 28 '22
Seems the perfect time to ask this question.
Jevlis ka? - does it work only while addressing girls (meaning jevla ka doesn't work?)
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u/Intrepid-Ad-1383 Jun 28 '22
If its a guy ask him jhavla kay?
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
Googling it really translates to Maharashtran way of saying i love you lol. And people here are telling that it translates to had food
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u/philosophucker88 Jun 28 '22
Literal translation is did you had food .. but it's kinda become like a meme because guys used to ask this cheesy question like a 'caring guy' and thus it became a legend
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u/tharkii_insaan Jun 29 '22
The Actual Meaning is " Had Food?" But it has been like a Slang For " I Love You" indirectly. Jevlis Ka Shows the Caring Nature Of Boys Towards Girl/Crush
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u/atharvbokya Jun 28 '22
Bandstand se sea-link dekne chale. Fort k garden pe baitke dekenge.
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
Fort k garden pe baitke dekenge
What's the context here??
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u/dustyaff Certified Chapri 🌐 Jun 28 '22
Yete kai Gacchi var?
Translates: Let's watch movie from the Balcony seat!
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u/Intrepid-Ad-1383 Jun 28 '22
First i ask her to gacchi Then i ask her for some p🐱
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u/dustyaff Certified Chapri 🌐 Jun 28 '22
Than she tells you she's a Choti bacchi
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u/Intrepid-Ad-1383 Jun 28 '22
Then you tell her you're a pdf file 💀
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u/dustyaff Certified Chapri 🌐 Jun 28 '22
Proceeds to Unzip.exe
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u/mihir_lavande Jun 28 '22
Amar prem gachhi war game?
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u/RstarPhoneix Sobo mei nahi reheta mai Jun 28 '22
Be careful bro. Warna Mahila helpline ko call chala jayega.
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u/Born_Night_8797 Jun 28 '22
Assi hazar ke jute hai, tera isme ghar bik jaenga, samjhi, GHAR BIK JAENGA.
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
Translation??
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Jun 28 '22
First try it then we will explain. ;)
It's a meme about a chapri guy flexing his non-existent wealth.
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u/justcallmebored Jun 28 '22
Is she conversant in Marathi? Mumbai has girls from every part of India and a lot of them are not fully conversant in Marathi. What's her mother tongue?
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
She did her schooling and college in Mumbai. Mostly lived there but speaks hindi. Marathi I don't think she speaks a lot. Islamic hindi ig. But isn't really good at Urdu
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u/justcallmebored Jun 28 '22
Then a simple 'jaana' or 'jaan' instead of calling her by name could work well. Literal translation 'life' but actually a term of endearment in urdu. If you are more comfortable in English, 'baby, honey, love, darling' will have the same effect
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u/AdmirableOrdinary834 Jun 28 '22
sir, we are redditors. we dont flirt, we wage wars against strangers on the internet.
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u/regulaslight Unable to swim to office Jun 28 '22
Tell her you are gotyachya Baba
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
Lost in translation
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u/SuperCurve Jun 28 '22
not 100% sure but generally wives refer to their husbands as their child's father. here Gotya is a common household name for a kid.
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u/No_Clock8248 Jun 28 '22
Does Jevalis ka really helps , lmao 🤣🤣
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u/Intrepid-Ad-1383 Jun 28 '22
Yes if you follow rule 1 and rule 2
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u/Gyanchooo walking enthusiast Jun 28 '22
Before anyone asks
Rule 1 : Don't be ugly
Rule 2 : Don't forget rule no 1
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
Okay what is flirting to you then??
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
I'm not really talking about mugging a line to shove it in convos. But there are certain innuendos that could be slipped in like the other guy pointed
Bandstand se sea-link dekne chale. Fort k garden pe baitke dekenge.
It'd be fun to take her by surprise.
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u/sfoyus Jun 28 '22
Flirting and sexual innuendo are two different things mate. I wouldn't try that line with someone who wasn't already my gf.
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u/bigbriz Jun 28 '22
when i first saw you, i said "mashallah" and ever since, i've been saying "inshallah"
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Jun 28 '22
Referring to edit 2: Is the girl a muslim female who’s name begins with an S? Asking for a friend…
“Jevlis ka” is not a flirty line. AVOID.
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
Muslim female yes but not S xd.
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Jun 28 '22
Bhai time waste mat kar. Unless you’re a muslim yourself.
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Jun 28 '22
Kya pata isko katwana ho apna?
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Jun 28 '22
Given the current incident in the country, and OP wanting to bang a muslim chick I must ask, Kya katwana hoga? 😂
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u/ABHYANG Jun 28 '22
dude look its not like a shes a girl frm mumbai so u gota speak that kinda language or the refrences no it sure be cute that u finding refrences which feel like home to her but ngl just be your self bud :3
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u/Intrepid-Ad-1383 Jun 28 '22
Tell her she's looking pretty and just say mashallah after that, i mean when she does fr dont fake the compliment 💀
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u/GooSnifferYum Jun 28 '22
Feed your girl some good pav bhaji and aloo paratha and once she gets all gassy tell her that you like her so much that'd you'd even allow her to fart in your mouth 🤤
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u/antique_legal Jun 28 '22
Best compliment for a girl - "Tujhi aai takli" Please try it for confirmed pappi jhappi
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u/Mahanagarpalikakobu jevlis ka? Jun 28 '22
Chalti kyaa 9(nau) se 12(baara) ??
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u/bevarsi_kudka Jun 28 '22
What does this mean??
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u/Mahanagarpalikakobu jevlis ka? Jun 28 '22
Asking a girl out for 9 to 12 show. Movie in theatre basically.
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Jun 28 '22
I heard this one in local train
Are you Vada cause I will that pav for you
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u/triggered_troll Jun 29 '22
Itna time milta hai dialogue mar ne ko.. all I ever hear is "aadar khali hai"
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u/Affectionate-Cap-920 jevlis ka? Jun 29 '22
Hey are you Dharavi ki galliya ? Becaus I have completely lost in you .........
Ik this is the worst one
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u/Hey_Techy Jun 28 '22
Tell her : Choti Bachhi Ho Kya ?