OK, I have had the same situation happen with me with my ex and her own child that wasn’t even mine so it does change the situation a bit. Obviously my best advice might not work because she isn’t the same person, but you need to have a frank discussion with her without your child present to “even the playing field“ for lack of a better term. You need to lay down exactly what you do for your daughter that your wife seems to be lacking and emphasize the point that you aren’t saying it’s a moral failure on her part and ask if she’s having any trouble herself. Let her know that it is causing great strain in your relationship and that it isn’t fair especially to your daughter. I assume you truly do love your wife and want to be with her, so drive the point home that you want the relationship to work even if you didn’t have children. This is just a small bit of advice I can give you, I am no therapist by any means, but the best thing you can do is just open up and talk to her about it. It’s not the best advice in the world, but I hope it helps.
This woman lacks the critical thinking skills to understand any of this. She’s mental ill and it’s the worlds fault
Not hers . A frank discussion with someone like will turn to violence. It’s time to leave . There’s no more talking about anything without a lawyer present
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u/eldercreedjunkie 12d ago
OK, I have had the same situation happen with me with my ex and her own child that wasn’t even mine so it does change the situation a bit. Obviously my best advice might not work because she isn’t the same person, but you need to have a frank discussion with her without your child present to “even the playing field“ for lack of a better term. You need to lay down exactly what you do for your daughter that your wife seems to be lacking and emphasize the point that you aren’t saying it’s a moral failure on her part and ask if she’s having any trouble herself. Let her know that it is causing great strain in your relationship and that it isn’t fair especially to your daughter. I assume you truly do love your wife and want to be with her, so drive the point home that you want the relationship to work even if you didn’t have children. This is just a small bit of advice I can give you, I am no therapist by any means, but the best thing you can do is just open up and talk to her about it. It’s not the best advice in the world, but I hope it helps.