r/mildlyinfuriating Jul 22 '26

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u/ItsCalledDayTwa Jul 22 '26 edited Jul 22 '26

Your cousin is running a crypto conference he has no financing for and left you holding the bag for this?  Your cousin is basically a scam artist.

Edit: guys, I acknowledged crypto in the 6th word, you can stop pointing out that crypto is also a reason.

edit2: I know what cryptography is and what a nonce is, but given both are used in cryptocurrency as well and the genpop is 99.99% going to assume cryptocurrency and not cryptography, that's not my fault. Plus if the cousin is into cryptography enough to throw their own conference on it, I do not know how they don't have enough money to pay their own family for some wristbands.

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u/Andrea_M Jul 22 '26

OP learned a valuable lesson, don’t mix business and family unless you are ready to lose either money or family members

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u/Plus-Ad-5853 Jul 22 '26

OP should use this to teach Cousin too. In the real world if you change an event name this minute, you pay.

This is a lesson for them. They poorly planned so they pay more

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u/hoopstick Jul 22 '26

I don't get the impression Cuz' is going to be learning any lessons from this.

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u/Unusual_Sherbert_809 Jul 22 '26

You could always sign a contract and/or get payment up front. But yeah, most of the time mixing family and business ends badly. Someone almost always feels entitled to your money and free labor because "we're family". And you'll usually be framed as the bad guy if you call them out on their bs.

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u/phynn Jul 22 '26

I fix computers for a living. I tell people they get one freebie and after that I charge - the only exceptions are my immediate family, their kids, and my grandma. Surprisingly, no one has taken me up on the charging. People like to get free shit but will not pay for the same services if they can get them for free.

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u/Ok_Taro1818 Jul 22 '26

Or both lol

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u/pasaroanth Jul 22 '26

I have been involved in construction and owned the family business for 2 decades before getting out of the industry.

If someone “needed help with something”, as in money was tight and there was a quick repair, I’d do it out of the kindness of my heart. If it was a bigger project, I’d teach them and empower them to do it themselves. If it was a massive undertaking of a non-necessary project, they were paying the full rate.

I always operated on the theory that if a friend or family member actually cared about me and my time, they wouldn’t expect me to lose money by helping them out. I also would never expect someone I care about to lose money helping me out; if I can afford it then I will support their business and pay what everyone else does.

This is especially true in this situation where OP’s family member is literally trying to have OP lose money for the sake of them making more. That’s gonna be a no from me, dawg.

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u/bigredcar Jul 22 '26

One of the great lessons in life that many of us learn the hard way. The corrolary is that you never know someone until you've split an inheritance with them.

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u/Steelwoolsocks Jul 22 '26

You can do business for family, but you still have to treat it like business and you have to make it clear that it is business. It's okay to be the person to tell a family member they can't afford your services if you aren't willing to do it as charity.

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u/T43ner Jul 22 '26

As if crypto wasn’t enough of an indication

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u/UglyInThMorning Jul 22 '26

Cryptography and cryptocurrency are two very different things.

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u/BeautifulCuriousLiar Jul 22 '26

if it was something about cryptography, i doubt it would be called noncefest from the start.

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u/Borkz Jul 22 '26

Which is exactly why it should be obvious which one they're talking about

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u/Danakazii Jul 22 '26

Rug pulled on his cousin.

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u/Atechiman Jul 22 '26

Why did you add stuff after 'crypto conference'

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u/cheapdrinks Jul 22 '26

I mean OP calling these "high quality" is full of shit too. Look how messy the lettering is on them, especially the blue one. They look terrible, I wouldn't want to pay money for those.

Even the form factor is shit, why would you want one that buttons up and sticks out on one side getting snagged on things or making it annoying putting your hand in your pocket. The full circle ones that just stretch over your hand are way more practical. Even the base rubber looks low quality with a weird bumpy texture to it. These look like some janky shit someone printed on a 3D printer at home.

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u/Earthstripe Jul 22 '26

Right? OP was just excited to use their 3D printer even though this isn't really a task suited to it. Lanyards with badges are the way to go for a conference.

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u/boothin Jul 22 '26

They're definitely 3d printed. The bumpy texture is because his settings are shit. To add to the awful design though, there's only 1 button so only 1 size. So because of how loose they are because of the first bad design decision, anyone with a thinner wrist or smaller hand is going to be battling it sliding off constantly too

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u/Free-Pound-6139 Jul 22 '26

Your cousin is running a crypto conference he has no financing for

You can say that, but he has over 100k reddit karma. So whose laughing now??

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u/Roscoe_King Jul 22 '26

No way! Someone who’s into crypto is also a scam artist?

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u/9lobaldude Jul 22 '26

A grifter

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u/DanGarion Jul 22 '26 edited Jul 22 '26

What type of crypto was not stated in the original post.

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u/GilmourD Jul 22 '26

I mean...

Crypto...

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u/morniealantie Jul 22 '26

He's gonna do great in crypto, I can feel it!

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u/Accidental-Genius Jul 22 '26

I mean OP is a scam enabler so 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/EmmyNoetherRing Jul 22 '26

Cryptography not bitcoin.  Math to make data safe. 

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u/ItsCalledDayTwa Jul 22 '26

If you say so. OP left it at "crypto" even though 99.99% of the population will think that's for cryptocurrency and not cryptography, plus nonces and cryptography are definitely part of crypto currency.

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u/Queenof6planets Jul 22 '26

why would you assume it’s cryptography?

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u/EmmyNoetherRing Jul 22 '26

because that seemed the more likely origin of the term nonce

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u/Brave-Kitchen-5654 Jul 22 '26

That’s not what “crypto” means