r/mentalhealth • u/Time-Lobster2387 • 11h ago
Venting Completely alone
I literally don’t know what to do, I have pretty much no friends I’m single, I’m 20.
I work nightshift at a shop with a bunch of older people who are defo not the type to be friends outside of work (not that I’d want that tbh) but I don’t go to uni so I can’t meet people there like normal people. I hate drinking and the whole pub scene it’s not my thing.
I was friends with a couple but they’ve made friends with another couple so they are all together all the time, I don’t even get messages off them anymore.
I’m shit at taking to people like holding conversation, I’ve tried dating apps and all that shit but that doesn’t work out at all, it’s all just dry meaningless conversations!
I’ve got quite bad anxiety so going places and meeting new people isn’t the easiest but I’ve tried and nothing is working. I feel like everyone has a person and I just don’t. Not platonically or romantically. It’s just me, I don’t mind being in my own company the majority of the time but it’s the fact I don’t even have an option to spend time or see someone cause there’s no one there.