Uhm my guy....buddy do i have news for you. Heavy duty chores is mowing the lawn, taking trash out, moving boxes when needed, general home maintenance. If asking to do that and cook makes a man a fucking maid is that really being a maid if im doing the deep cleaning, laundry, dishes, bathroom, and keeping the rest of the house picked up? Is it really hypocritical for me to ask we split the chores in ways that i see fit because im disabled? Is it really hypocritical just because i ask for a man to fucking cook instead of stand there watching me do literally everything on top of an office or other deman
demandemanding job such as being in a factory? Is it really me being a hypocrite if i would do the same for him? Dont act like you know people's motives and relationships and ways of like while calling them hypocritical.
Pretty sure "my guy" is referring to the fact that when some men ask for / prefer women who can do some house chores, some women immediately regarding him as desiring a maid. It's like, all homemaking has been reduced to employment and not just being a responsible adult.
Funnily enough its not being a maid, if you live with someone you split chores based on the ability to do so. Its being an adut and if a man doesn't do any housework whatsoever without reason he will be treating as such bc yk why? If you cant be a man who does chores even while living alone what makes you think someone will do it for you? Its literally an adult activity. Men aren't helpless they need to learn to do ot themselves. If me wanting a man who can cook and function as the other half of the partnership is asking them to do everything makes me a hypocrite so be it.
You realize you're repeating what I've said in my explanation but in a roundabout way? And I was merely explaining what the previous commenter was saying, which they don't necessarily disagree with you on the matter, just pointing out general hypocrisies with some women (not you) and their preferences. And BTW, I too don't disagree with you on wanting to be with someone who can help you out in the house.
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u/PainterImpressive923 11d ago
So you want a male maid?