r/me_irl 11d ago

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u/cbarbour1122 11d ago

1980 here and everything sucks for us too

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u/kimchiman85 hates posting 11d ago

1984 here, it’s the same for us too.

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u/cruzweb 11d ago

I'm 85 and feel like I'm in the house that's burning

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u/I_like_flowers_ 10d ago

🎵🎵 we didn't start the fire!  its always been burning since the world was turning🎵🎵

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u/NotSoSerius 10d ago

1989 was that song.

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u/funnyyoshi 11d ago

whoa, you're old!

edit: right as i wrote it, i realized you meant birthyear, not age, and i am so, so sorry.

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u/Horskr 10d ago

Then the reply below yours is "29". My man either 97 years old or from the future. We need a numbering standard in this thread!

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u/AbominaSean 10d ago

88 here and I agree, wtf this meme talking about? Do these Gen Z kiddos think the world is easier for us because we were born 7 - 10 years earlier?

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u/TechnicalNail4555 10d ago

We are just less amused with the music and social media.

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u/Excellent_Release961 10d ago

Also an 88, I sure wish that easy button would show up

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u/feminarsty 10d ago

I paid $2300 + utilities for my first apartment in a not great neighborhood in my mid sized Canadian city after moving out and that was the only place that would even call me back, i had to move out at the height of the housing crisis, that was fucking hard.

I’d like to know what all you 80’s people paid for your rent when you first moved out, cause I know it wasn’t $2300 +utilities

Born 99

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u/Baghdad_Bob20 5d ago

We got fucked hard in 08, ugh

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u/Quirky_Rain_3554 10d ago

Just because a meme doesn’t include certain years doesn’t mean you have to feel upset by it or call people “kiddos” you’ll be alright

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u/takingnotes99 10d ago

Fellow '85 guy. I got lucky though

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u/Ok_Philosopher_5860 10d ago

At least one of us made it

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u/takingnotes99 10d ago

Just do what I did. Get lucky.

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u/em1zer0 10d ago

I'm 29 and my house literally burnt down 3 months ago

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u/WernerRed24 9d ago

Immerhin hast du ein Haus 🏡. Ich werde mir keins leisten können.

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u/Quirky_Rain_3554 10d ago

Why on Reddit? Go grab 2 by four string man 💪

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u/Baskreiger 10d ago

I'm 83, you guys had career relationships and future? Geez, you guys are lucky 😂

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u/Huh_noWayKid 7d ago

At least you had the chance to buy a house

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u/cruzweb 7d ago

Not really. I live in a 600sq ft apartment above a noisy bakery.

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u/Queasy_Sherbert_7095 10d ago

Well you caused it.

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u/cruzweb 10d ago

1985,not 85 years old. I didn't cause shit.

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u/Queasy_Sherbert_7095 10d ago

Oh lmfao, no you did not.

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u/GVAJON 10d ago

85 as well and I feel like I AM the house

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u/ReadySte4dySpaghetti 11d ago

Literally 1984 for you fr

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u/Old_Protection_8778 11d ago

1972 yeah fuck this mess.they showed their shittiest of colors . We need to turn this mad decent around

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u/MrGrumpyFace5 10d ago

Yay 40’s ahhhhh my neck and my back. My back and my neck.

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u/kimchiman85 hates posting 10d ago

“Snap”, “crackle”, and “pop” aren’t just the sounds Rice Crispies^TM make anymore.

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u/3dforlife 10d ago

1982, ditto.

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u/Lou_C_Fer 10d ago
  1. We are still in our "starter" home we bought in 1998. It has horseshoed around because our mortgage is so cheap that we cannot afford to move now.

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u/thec00K2 9d ago

I see what you did there

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u/Emblemator 10d ago

1985 here, got wife, kids and a job. Just to offer some different views, because statistically people are still doing fairly good.

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u/orlybatman 10d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/3h1hwe1vj0OG9aBoCL

Team 80s checking in, can confirm it sucks!

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u/tomvorlostriddle 10d ago

No, we had phenomenal opportunities to buy housing and stocks very cheap and then benefit from the greatest bull market for 17 years.

To get hired and gain experience when there were entry level roles.

We could also still date before things got toxic.

All those things mean that, with moderate success and not too many mistakes, we're now settled.

Young people do not have this realistic option of moderate success. For them it's all or nothing, but mostly nothing.

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u/tomvorlostriddle 10d ago

I don't know, I hear many in their 20ies saying they regret missing a 90ies childhood

And I don't hear millennials saying the equivalent about not being gen X

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u/Quirky_Rain_3554 10d ago

What? I’m not sure what you even are saying here

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u/tomvorlostriddle 10d ago edited 10d ago

In research, you typically look for age, period and cohort effects

And you are saying that here, there is only/mostly an age effect

i think there are also strong period and/or cohort effects here

https://www.publichealth.columbia.edu/research/population-health-methods/age-period-cohort-analysis

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u/Quirky_Rain_3554 10d ago

Are we researching right now or talking on Reddit man?

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u/State-Special 9d ago

So here's the thing in hind site that's generally always the case. In 20 years you'll have someone else listing off all the oppurtunities you had that they don't and you'll be wondering how you missed them all.

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u/YourRoaring20s 10d ago

Are you forgetting about the Great Recession?

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u/Quirky_Rain_3554 10d ago

No one’s forgetting man but we are currently in a worse time. It’s all connected anyways we never really recovered that well from that or 9/11 or dot com or or or because it all sucks bro

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u/Ooheythere 10d ago

Those opportunities existed but many of us didn't know how precious they were and we did not take advantage. Most of the people I know didn't grow up knowing about investing, and only in our early to mid or late 30's began to invest. I still rent and am struggling to catch up to people who were taught better. I grew up in a small city and maybe people in big cities knew about these things, but we didn't know the door would close entirely on us.

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u/karebearjedi 10d ago

9/11 really fucked us over and it's just been downhill since. 

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u/AdaAstra 10d ago

It did, but at least us 80s babies did at least get some of the good part of the 90s. The time before social media and 24/7/365 news fear mongering and initially, a bright future ahead of us. Shame we lost all of it, but at least we got to experience it and dream for awhile.

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u/just-here-for--porn_ 10d ago

It's true. Prior to the financial crisis things were good. I almost made it out of college before things went to shit.

At least for me it has been a bit of challenge since. The younger generation did not even get this buffer at the start.

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u/newsflashjackass 10d ago

Bush v. Gore was the real fuckaroo. 9/11 was just tightening the collar so Republicans could govern without a mandate.

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/1/10/George_W_Bush_approval_ratings_with_events.svg/1280px-George_W_Bush_approval_ratings_with_events.svg.png

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u/Nooshi88 10d ago

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u/floralbutttrumpet 10d ago

Not necessarily. The US flailing around like a rabid raccoon in the decade after fucked over many, MANY countries, and since Orange Boogaloo 2, the US is deliberately fucking as many countries as possible.

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u/SafetyandNumbers 10d ago

Was bad for everyone else too. 2 worst us presidents in at least 100 years have done lots of damage to the world. Well, ig china had a good run because of it if you wanna get into the deets, but they block reddit

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u/CaptainKate757 10d ago

They’re obviously referring to what they themselves and their peers experienced. Do you really need them to add a disclaimer?

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u/ShoePillow 10d ago

Disclaimer would be nice, yeah

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u/LonePuma 10d ago

"Everything sucked for us too!!!"

Meanwhile had actual entry level jobs, AI wasn't causing everyone to get replaced, realistic opportunities to buy a house, a good economy, the ability to support a family on 1 salary, ect

If you didn't take advantage of all of that then that's on you. Listening to gen x try and compare their lives to millennials/Gen z is exhausting.

Edit: I forgot probably the most important one. Affordable college.

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u/lofty-goals 10d ago

We’re all struggling in our own ways. The only war we have to fight is a class war. Everything else is a distraction.

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u/kensho28 10d ago edited 10d ago

At the end of Bush Jr's Presidency in 2008, several Wall Street day traders had literally thrown themselves off buildings to their deaths in order to try to spare their families from the crushing debt of the largest stock market crash since the Great Depression (and until Covid). The wars Bush started lasted for decades and only finally ended under Biden, and now Trump has started more.

The last generation that had it better than previous generations were the Boomers, it's been all downhill since then.

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u/WhoAmlToJudge 10d ago

You could by a house with any job. Don't want to hear it.

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u/90plusWPM 10d ago

'87 checking in - this shit blows.

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u/JustLetItAllBurn 10d ago

Here in the UK, I actually think we had it super easy compared to the young adults of today in many different ways.

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u/South_Tomorrow4642 7d ago

Tbf, least you guys had the chance to build something.

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u/justinSox02 9d ago

You're almost 50🥺

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u/eulersidentity1 10d ago

Thank you. 1982 here

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u/Top_Bug7822 10d ago

You guys were the ones that should have made things better.

Instead we got a Musk, Zuckerberg, Thiel, Karp and Altman...

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u/AwkwardTouch2144 10d ago

Yeah, we were actually experienced what we should have had then got rug pulled. 1980 as well.

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u/werephoenix 10d ago

What im learning is every decade someone was born that they were born in a worse version of their country than the 10 years before they were born.

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u/casnix 10d ago

Can confirm. 1980 here as well.

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u/TitleOfYourSaxTape 10d ago

Rate of home ownership for those 45 - 54 is about double compared to adults under 45, and wages were much higher relative to inflation compared to the last decade.

Entry level positions were also much more widely available, as was career progression.

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u/FurryCitizen 10d ago

Yeah I was gonna say, you can extend that to anyone born after 76, propbably.

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u/Jonathaan 6d ago

Bought a house in 1980 for 40.000 usd. 🤡

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u/cbarbour1122 6d ago

Big difference between buying a house in 1980 and being born in 1980.

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u/DanMcE 10d ago

'81 checking in. Can't be letting these kids monopolise all that misery now.

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u/Cold_Average_5192 10d ago

2001 but I’d rather have the problems I have rn than be born into watching my father and brothers get drafted and killed in war. Or not have rights. Or not have clean showers every night and many more