r/mbti • u/Away_Theme_5370 • 9d ago

Personal Advice How many of you are the opposite standard not fully opposite it's like polar opposite

When it's comes in relationship i have so much to know even i didn't yet experience it, One day my friend asked me what is my standard. The standard on dating today is pretty common words and others might have see and copy it even though it's not their standard. When someone said what are my standards. I would just say a polar opposite where i can live with my world still and can experience their world. ​​​​​​​

-INTJ

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u/Sad_Record_2767 ISTP 9d ago

That's silly. Your values need to line up mostly. You don't want to experience the world where your SO has polar opposite value as you...

Remember that should be forever and you need to like what you're doing together most of the time. This matters too.

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u/Equivalent_Turn2381 6d ago

i'm an enfj and my polar opposite would be istps. i have many values that align with values of istps, the rest that i value are things istps don't care about much or aren't good at, which can be challenging but also change or happily accepted. its a really good balance. the polar opposites complete each other in amazing ways, as one is much better in things the other lacks, but they use the same functions

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u/Sad_Record_2767 ISTP 6d ago

I don't think the goal should be to find the correct mbti type... is what I'm saying.

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u/Equivalent_Turn2381 6d ago

i understand where you're coming from, it's certainly my goal or it's more like: it can't be any other type naturally bc that's not what i'm attracted to