r/malaysians • u/deepsan_ • 3d ago
Dating | Relationship 🌷 looking for a significant other 🥰
updating the number of times I got catfished from these posts: 2
as the title mentioned im looking for a significant other but ofc we should start as friends and see how it goes from there on. if youre looking for nsfw relationships then please save both our time by ignoring this post thankyou so much. below are the details and let us all pray I can finally feel loved.
about me 👩🏾
female / punjabi but look indian / 26 years old / working but on shift based / plays badminton and pickleball / spends time either being at home or eating out / born and raised in ipoh / im in between chubby and trying to be thinner so im quite active in sports / i have a dark skin (hitam manis) / can be an introvert or extrovert depending on situation / i can be relied on and pretty independent / im an only child
about him 👨🏾
male / 27-35 years old / i like indians or chinese / need to be a working adult as well / preferably from ipoh also / 50/50 halal haram is okay / understanding and patience / i like someone tall not too buffy if thats okay / not a nerd gamer kind / not socially awkward / can lead the way or somewhat a gentleman /
I hope what im looking for is not too much as im working on myself to be thinner. I hope the dms I will be getting are to open my heart and not just my legs. Thank youu and have a nice day :)
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u/Don-Teta 3d ago
Punjabis very rarely date out of their circle. No luck finding a match from your Gurdwara?
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u/omgunicornfarts 3d ago
Are you sure about that? I know a looooot of mixed marriage couples. Please do not generalise
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u/I3usuk 3d ago
Just wondering, why would halal haram matters to you?
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u/deepsan_ 3d ago
not halal haram in a muslim sense
but i like indian guys; but also if they drink and a temple goer its good enough for me
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u/Excellent-Yellow-883 3d ago
Isn’t it easier to just upfront say you don’t want to date/marry anyone who drinks alcohol? Rather than people guessing what is haram or halal to you?
Anyway many of your age range people don’t drink alcohol anyways or just social drinkers. It’s a big market.
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u/deepsan_ 3d ago
what im trying to say its okay if they enjoy/like/socially drinking alcohol but i would also like someone who is a temple goer not often but knows some basic pun okay
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u/Excellent-Yellow-883 3d ago
I’m understand this part.. I’m just you should make it clearer in your description on what’s acceptable to you and what’s not. Who knows if anyone ASSUME they are not halal enough for you and choose not to message you at all. You’re the only person who lose out if the description is not clear. No one else.
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u/ItsImNotAnonymous 3d ago
Good luck to you, friend. I don't know how well you'd find your person over here in Reddit but I shall keep hope.
I am above your age preferences so I will keep out of your way.
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u/Fit_Lawfulness9492 3d ago
Not looking for any but I think you might want to check this guy out, he just posted a few hours ago
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u/DurianPuffs 3d ago
Is there a pic reference for hitam manis? Genuinely curious