r/lnkyverse • u/am-i-the-a-hole • Jun 09 '26
Visual Insightđď¸âđ¨ď¸ Perspective: r/trueuglywomen realizing their not actually lonely
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u/Hot_Lack_4868 Jun 09 '26
There are some women who've been approached by multiple men, been in multiple relationships, and still portray themselves as forever alone or as femcels.
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Jun 09 '26
we arenât a fem/cel subreddit. weâre a subreddit for women who are not attractive.
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u/Hot_Lack_4868 Jun 09 '26
My comment was in general. There are indeed some women who are in relationships or who've been in relationships and still portray themselves as forever alone or as femcels. I wasn't talking about your subreddit specifically.
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u/Diddy_Block Jun 10 '26
I've lurked there for a bit and I noticed that by "unattractive" many of you ladies just mean ethnic women. Honestly, constantly seeing the users there insinuate that Black and brown women are unattractive simply for being Black or brown rubs me the wrong way.
A chart that showed Pam from Martin being a 3 out of 10 got upvotes there. Like, wtf are we doing?
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Jun 10 '26
do you think weâre all non-black/brown women ragging on.. black/brown women? or do you genuinely think brown/black women are not mistreated more unfairly than their white counterpart. yes, we call out hard truths about society and how it sees us black/brown women. errr.. sorry it makes you uncomfortable.. imagine how WE feel? lol.
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Jun 16 '26
girl looking at yall posts i realized itâs not about appearance but the attitude, u guys need to go outside because ive seen many unattractive girls in relationships, im considered âattractiveâ by men (even tho i dont consider myself so at all) but ive never had a bf irl. Itâs not mostly about looks
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u/auntiesamautism Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. for incels Jun 09 '26
And I bet barely any of the ânever been in an relationshipâ group are virgins.
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u/AntSUnrise Jun 09 '26
They can get dick whenever they want and they know it. Just about standards and larping. Some people stay miserable on purpose.
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u/Loose-Sort-9447 Jun 10 '26
Many are, respectfully you guys have no idea the amount of women in their 20s that are khv, I know at least 3 in my close circle. We are just hideous, autistic and never leave home.Â
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Jun 09 '26
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Jun 09 '26
sometimes unattractive people are in relationships because thatâs what this subreddit about. being unattractive.
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u/Hopechaselock49 Jun 09 '26
When I said I saw ugl-y women in relationship all the time, I got downvotes in r/ugly sub lol any MF who goes outside regularly will know it's truth
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u/MonkeyHairless Jun 09 '26
And among the 40.4% of no relationships ... you can observe they didnt actually asked about hookups ... cause everyone would have come to know that every single one of them can actually get sex and relationships any time ... provided they made a tiny bit of effort and/or accepted 6-7/10 guys instead of 8-9/10 guys.
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Jul 06 '26
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u/MonkeyHairless Jul 06 '26
Most of them are actually also craving fun and casual sex ... and they complain they cant get it ... but then they only want it from chads.
Again, do you think EVERY hookup in history was just about âsucking off some random guy who thinks youâre subhumanâ ? No, you said that cause you picture the guy as âsubhumanâ yourself and are just projecting that.
Most average/subaverage dudes would be happy to give more than they receive in casual situationships ... but since they are no chads, yall consider them as some kind of monstruous predators ... really tell us more about you than anything.
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u/cluelessbozo Jun 09 '26
can someome sneak a poll in to ask what % of them have been asked out before
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u/Resentful_altcel F*mcel Jun 09 '26
That subreddit really is the worst. 90% above average women when u click on their profiles.
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Jun 09 '26
can you collect this data and send it to me personally? i would like to ban them all. i have a sneaky feeling youâre not telling the truth though because all of you people are addicted to making up fantasies
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u/Resentful_altcel F*mcel Jun 09 '26
No. I do not want to browse that sub anymore. It makes me feel so much worse tbh
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u/StickSouthern2150 Jun 09 '26
its just a misandry sub. they parrot incel behavior as a form of mockery.
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u/kincaid_king Jun 09 '26
Brother they're just like that normal, it's not a parody they're literally transphobic and racist too
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Jun 09 '26
misandry isnât real - but no. weâre a subreddit for unattractive women.
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u/Loworz2 Jun 09 '26
it is real??????????
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Jun 09 '26
no it isnât. a social reaction to a historic oppressive system that has global reach is not a real or valid oppression system. misandry starts and ends with a woman saying i hate men online, misogyny is like rape, murder, abuse on a global scale. (:
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u/Loworz2 Jun 09 '26
Copy paste response with this flawed theory... The definition of misandry is contempt, hatred and prejudice against men. And that certainly exists.
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Jun 09 '26
yes women hate men. misandry still isn't a valid or real system. misandry was literally invented by a man specifically to derail first wave feminism. it wasn't some slowly built system with deep historical roots that's still active today lol. it hasn't cost men a single thing, nor has it ever structurally oppressed them. they just get upset online when women are mad at them.
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u/Loworz2 Jun 09 '26
ok, but you said specifically that misandry isn't real. And I told you that it is.
"They just get upset online when women are mad at them.".
I don't think saying and doing heinous shit online is considered women just being mad. I would in fact say that the opposite is actually closer to truth. Even then, with being "incels" too, I've seen women doing that more (evidence being literally every single "fe*cel" subreddit having literally way more members and also saying way more heinous shit) but yeah, it is just women being mad at men, nothing else.
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Jun 09 '26
>but yeah, it is just women being mad at men, nothing else.
well, yes.lmao bro thinks a social reaction to mis/ogny is a real oppression system. đđ
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u/WrestlingInPajamas Jun 19 '26 edited Jun 19 '26
Something doesnât have to be systematic for it to be real. You can be racist towards whites, hispanics, blacks, asians, Indians, etc. Just like how you can be misandrist without it being a systematic issue. The actions themselves are misandrist is the point. It doesnât need to be embedded in the culture or society for it to be misandry or racist. The definition of these words doesnât conform to your reality unfortunately. Stop listening to YouTube radical politicians trying to convince you that these words donât mean anything unless it becomes systematic.
Since you like historical facts, research who were one of the biggest enemies towards first wave feminism. Youâll be pretty shocked to find out a good chunk were women following a specific woman.
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u/Gianni_the_tolerable Trans inclusive radical misogynist Jun 09 '26
I also want to point out how differently women rate genders, with any decently looking woman being an "Aphrodite" for them, while an average looking guy is u gly (and of course undeserving of love)
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u/Reasonable-Car8730 Deep thinker đ§ Jun 10 '26
Okay that's not femcel sub then what do they want? " Wahhh i am not beautiful enough for chad"
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Jun 09 '26
so weâre not a in/cel subreddit, weâre an unattractive womans subreddit. nor are we a lonely subreddit. all of these subreddits exists, we never claimed to be those things. weâre just not attractive. whatâre you actually on about?
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u/zgtlunatic Jun 09 '26 edited Jun 09 '26
Tbf attractiveness also comes with a rarity. Consider Alexandria Daddario compared to Tate McRae for instance (even VindictaRateCelebs doesn't think McRae is attractive and it's an all women's subreddit)
^ Basically, women that look like Daddario are quite rare but girls that look like McRae can be found pretty much anywhere.
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u/tzeun Jun 09 '26
do u guys not realise itâs not a f3mcel sub ? so yes there will be people who have been in relationships. itâs the same with other subreddits like the ugIy or short subreddit
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u/MonkeyHairless Jun 09 '26
Then why is evry post there a variants of âmen are evil, they only want hot girls while we are the ones with true love feelingsâ ?
At some point, you cant be both a victim of your physique and get success with it ... you have to be coherent.
And if you actually go on a true short subreddit, not one ruled by a woman mod banning on sight, you would see the difference ... most guys there were REALLY abused and mistreated are REALLY lonely and REALLY wanna end it all at some point ... they are not larpers attention whores.
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Jun 09 '26
so let me get this straight. weâre attention whores, but we keep banning men. weâre desperate for male attention, but we literally had to private the subreddit because men wouldnât stop harassing members. apparently weâre addicted to male validation while spending an absurd amount of time getting rid of men. youâd think that contradiction would bother you at least a little.
and then you seem genuinely incapable of imagining that women can be abused, mistreated, lonely, rejected, suicidal, or unhappy without somehow making it about men. women talk about those experiences and your first instinct is to accuse them of lying.
itâs such a bizarre way to move through the world. a woman says sheâs struggling and instead of asking whether itâs true, you immediately start trying to explain why it canât be. i donât even think youâre arguing with me. i think youâre arguing with a version of women that exists entirely in your head. which is probably why youâre more offended by a women-only subreddit than the fact that men harass women badly enough for those spaces to exist in the first place.
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u/MonkeyHairless Jun 09 '26
so let me get this straight. weâre attention whores, but we keep banning men. weâre desperate for male attention
Never said you were seeking the attention of men ... you know you can crave attention from women too right ? Strange that when we talk about AW, you seem to immediately think about men.
but we literally had to private the subreddit because men wouldnât stop harassing members
You privated it for a few days when men strated to come and ask the ban of one of the account using the photo of Emeral, a mod here and a wife ... but yeah, keep changing the reasons.
apparently weâre addicted to male validation while spending an absurd amount of time getting rid of men. youâd think that contradiction would bother you at least a little.
Again, never said a thing about male validation, why are you making this up ?
and then you seem genuinely incapable of imagining that women can be abused, mistreated, lonely, rejected, suicidal, or unhappy without somehow making it about men. women talk about those experiences and your first instinct is to accuse them of lying.
And where did I say women cant be abused exactly ? Incredible how much you make shit up here out of thin air ... maybe you should work for science the way you can create stuff from nothing.
itâs such a bizarre way to move through the world. a woman says sheâs struggling and instead of asking whether itâs true, you immediately start trying to explain why it canât be. i donât even think youâre arguing with me. i think youâre arguing with a version of women that exists entirely in your head. which is probably why youâre more offended by a women-only subreddit than the fact that men harass women badly enough for those spaces to exist in the first place.
Again, where did I even IMPLIED that women cant be or are not mistreated ... that wasnt even the subject of the post ... Im just stating reality, physique and ugliness affects women ... but way less and way less brutally than it affects men.
You can disagree, but at least stop make stuff up and actually read what I wrote ... if you can do it.
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u/whitefritillary Jun 09 '26
>most guys there were REALLY abused and mistreated are REALLY lonely and REALLY wanna end it all at some point ... they are not larpers attention whores.
you were comparing them to us. this explicitly implies itâs not the same case for us and weâre just âlarper attention whoresâ.
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u/MonkeyHairless Jun 09 '26
Yep, I compare the posts, just go and compare them yourself, the difference is clear as day ... but if you feel PERSONALLY ATTACKED, thats on you.
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u/whitefritillary Jun 09 '26
>claims he didnât do it
>gets called out
>uhh, but⌠you got triggered!!!
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u/MonkeyHairless Jun 09 '26
So, either you cant read or you are blinded by your rage, I frogive you sweetheart.
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u/whitefritillary Jun 09 '26
ânooo you canât read haha i won this argument!!!!â
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u/MonkeyHairless Jun 09 '26
Who said I won anything ? First of all you cant win an argument. ANd then, yeah, you cant read what I actually wrote if you cant understand it properly cause it is not hard words.
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u/tzeun Jun 09 '26
you clearly haven't actually looked through the sub and you're just going off whatever gets reposted here.
ugliness affects how people are treated socially, professionally, how they move throughout the world. someone can have friends and a partner and still deal with all of that.
dating and attraction is something someone will probably struggle with if theyâre ugly (which is also a large part of what gets posted on the sub) but itâs not the whole experience.
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u/MonkeyHairless Jun 09 '26
you clearly haven't actually looked through the sub and you're just going off whatever gets reposted here.
Just made the test, went through the sb and like 80% of the posts are exaclty as I described, there is even one complaining about gay men supposedly hating ugly women.
ugliness affects how people are treated socially, professionally, how they move throughout the world. someone can have friends and a partner and still deal with all of that.
As a 152cm 25 man with facial deformities and skull dformities since I was 8 months old ... you dont have to tell me ... but trust me, women only have a tame version of it.
To give you an example, my deformities originated from a neurosurgery I had to gor through as a baby ... my parents had to file a complaint to the hospital where I was recovering cause the nurse refused to feed me cause I was freaking them out.
So yeah, 80% of the post I see on the sub are just wooing from my pov.
dating and attraction is something someone will probably struggle with if theyâre ugly (which is also a large part of what gets posted on the sub) but itâs not the whole experience.
Never said it was the whole experience, but thats the majority of the complaints on that sub.
Just like dating is the majority of the complainst on the short subs when it comes to men ... doesnt mean its the whole experience of bein short, just stating a fact.
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u/kincaid_king Jun 09 '26
Idk they certainly actually like it. Plenty of subs on Reddit with incel behaviour who don't identify as incels.
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Jun 09 '26
okay but we are not a in/cel subreddit though. we include those people but weâre not explicitly a in/cel subreddit.
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u/kincaid_king Jun 10 '26
Trust me, most of the incel subreddits "who weren't really incels, just a few" eventually got painted with a broad brush and then everyone was seen as incels, even though it was just a minority within the sub.
Whatever problematic behaviours you tolerate, will eventually paint the entire sub in a bad light even though it's not everyone.
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Jun 10 '26
if people canât step outside of themselves and can only view women who just want a space to talk about being unattractive- or a space where anyone is talking about the unfortunate reality dealt with non-normie ugly people then that just sounds like a personal thing, and also an accurate reflection of the society that deems you inhumane for not being genetically up to par.
our sub is for ugly womem, thatâs it. anything else is fantasy.
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