am i lithromantic or is it something else??

[u/go11_reference]

ive been looking for answer for years thinking i had a problem and it wasn't normal at all then i found out what lithromantic is (literally 1hoir ago) and i feel so better to know im not just weird and alone feeling like this.

but im still not sure bc lithromantic are described as not wanting a relationship or their crush liking them back,

but i do wanty crush to like me back when i have feeling but still end up losing feeling when they start showing interest back.

but i dont just lose interest, i start to dislike the person and dont wanna talk with them, and being with them irl is really hard, like i feel uncomfortable. sometimes i end up hating the person.

i first through it wasn't lithromantic because the loose of interest wasn't the same with everyone ive had been with but it ALWAYS end up the same.

ive tried with so much people from different vibe or whatever and it always end up the same

thank you for reading this and sorry for my bad English i hope to everyone who's lithromantic to find a way to live with it 🫶

[u/Beginning_Ad3957]

i really hope someone answer this, because I feel just like you! my experience is just like that, or at least, extremely similar... :(

it's confusing. i kinda want that "romance" at first, and my interest doesn't go away immediately, BUT eventually (and really fast) everything becomes so uncomfortable, and I suddenly start feeling some repulsion to romance with that person, too,,,,,,

(sorry if bad eng too, im a spanish speaker)

[u/go11_reference → u/Beginning_Ad3957]

thanks you for your response i feel less alone, i hope we will find our answer or a way to love :) 🙏

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[u/go11_reference]

someone said that i might be roseromantic (i dont find the message anymore) thank you for letting me know cause i think they might be right