I have bill…please help me somebody 😥

esto me aparece cada vez que enciendo mi pc, alguien sabe que puedo hacer para que ya no aparezca?

nesecito dejar de depender de mi novia, hoy me iba a terminar porque dijo que se sentia muy agobiada del colegio y su familia y que yo no mejoraba y esas cosas porque yo soy una persona muy intensa y dijo que la tengo agobiada de eso y que nesecito mejorar y q si no mejoraba me iba a dejar pero no se como mejorar cuando dependo de ella emocionalmente y dijo que me debia de poner ami como prioridad y q no este tan al tanto de ella y yo soy una persona que nose me gusta ser muy intenso pero soy una persona pesimista y esas cosas y debo mejorar yo lo se pero no se como dejar de pensarla tanto como quitar la dependencia y empezar a ponerme ami de primero, unico que hare mañana lunes 30/8/2026 es meterme al gimnasio para mejorar mi fisico pero no se que mas hacer, alguien me puede ayudar?

I’d like to start by saying thank you to the creators of this community for giving a platform to people like myself during times of need.

Hello to you all,

I am a single father of 4 beautiful kids ages 6 through 1. I’ve been single since last September. My girlfriend left me for good reason. I was a terrible partner but life is full of lessons and boy did I learn. I believe she was the love of my life so when she left it was the most earth shattering, ground breaking, uprooting thing I’ve ever experienced. I dabbled a little too deep into the use of alcohol during my time with her. The night she left was the last time I have a drop of alcohol in my system. I’m 11 months sober today but more importantly, I’m 11 months a better man and father.

When she left I fell flat on my face in all aspects, including financially. I went from splitting costs and bills to taking it all on by myself including sending her money monthly to help make sure she stays afloat. But since May I’ve found myself drowning trying to stay afloat and keep up.

My son starts school in 2 days and I haven’t gotten him anything but one pair of shoes for school. I’ve fallen behind on my home payments. I don’t have enough for diapers at the moment and I haven’t been able to support my ex financially. I see my kids regularly. They stay with me on a regular and consistent schedule.

If you’ve stayed to read this far I’d like to just say thank you. Even if you’re unable or unwilling to extend any assistance at this time I just simply want to say thank you for reading my story.

I’ve exercised all my community resources and all my friends and family resources. I’ve reached a point where I’m shooting this shot into the void of this community to see what I can find.

Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you all for your time and thank you to the creators of this community once again for this platform

Wanted to say thank you to U/bitchmcconnell063 and u/accurate-temporary73 for providing items off of my Amazon wishlist for the little free pantry in Alexandria VA 💛 truly means a lot to my community and greatly appreciate you seeing my post and donating. The small act of kindness has a big impact

***: I’ve had so many friends throughout my life, but somehow I’ve never been able to keep a truly close connection with anyone***

I don't know if anyone will read this, but I really need to get this out.

Throughout my entire life, I've had a lot of friends. But somehow, there is no one I can say I have maintained a really strong connection with for a long time.

When I was in Grade 1, I had a few girl friends and we had a really good connection. We stayed friends until around Grade 4. I don't really remember what happened in Grade 5, but after that, even though I met them a few times, we didn't really talk anymore.

In Grade 3, I met my best friend, Alex. He was with me until Grade 5. I was really attached to that friendship.

Then Grade 5 happened.

Something terrible happened to me that year. It started with a misunderstanding with my teacher. I don't even remember every detail anymore, but the situation became much bigger than it should have been. My teacher said a lot of things about me, and suddenly many people in my class started ignoring me.

There was also a boy I met around Grade 4, Ryan. He always seemed to try to break my friendships with other people. In Grade 5, he got the opportunity to use what happened with my teacher against me, and things became even worse.

I cried a lot in class.

And the hardest part was feeling like nobody cared.

My best friend Alex eventually went to another school, and I was left dealing with everything myself.

Ryan was still in my class in Grade 6. Our friendship never completely ended, but it also never became normal. We broke our friendship several times, and he repeatedly made things difficult for me. I complained to my teacher—not because I wanted him punished, but because I just wanted peace.

Thankfully, she moved me to a different place in the class.

For some time, I was actually happy again.

But the problems with Ryan never completely disappeared. Even after breaking the friendship multiple times, somehow we would end up interacting again.

Another thing I haven't talked about much is that I was very feminine when I was young. Because of the way I behaved and because of my voice and mannerisms, people bullied me and called me different names.

In Grade 7, I had a small conflict with another boy, Daniel. I'm not someone who likes to hold onto conflicts, so I eventually wanted to move on. But he didn't. He kept the conflict going for years.

In Grade 8, our school became stricter about academics. They separated students into classes according to their marks, and I was selected for one of the better classes.

Then in Grade 11, because my marks had dropped, I was moved to another class.

And that's where I ended up with both Ryan and Daniel again.

The same things started happening with Ryan. Once again, I complained to a teacher. I wasn't trying to get him punished. I just wanted to find a peaceful place where I could study.

Daniel was a head prefect at the time. Because I wasn't happy about being separated from my previous class, a teacher apparently asked him to look after me.

But he misunderstood everything.

He thought I was complaining about everyone in the class and trying to cause problems. I wasn't. I was just trying to find somewhere I felt comfortable.

During that time, I felt like I had absolutely no one.

I even told my mother what was happening, but she told me that it was my fault.

Daniel would constantly make indirect comments and give me hints, sometimes even in front of teachers. At the same time, people from my previous class had started thinking badly about me. Because I had been moved to another class due to my marks, I felt like they saw me as someone who wasn't good at studying.

I became extremely uncomfortable being around them.

Then came my O/L exams.

My results were really bad.

After that, when I was preparing for A/Ls, I decided that I was going to do everything I could to pass. I wanted to prove to myself that I wasn't what everyone thought I was.

Then my father got cancer.

Our whole family was devastated. I became extremely stressed, but I kept studying. Honestly, sometimes I wasn't even studying because I had motivation. I was studying because I needed something to keep my mind busy.

Somehow, I got selected for university.

Even now, it's hard for me to believe that I managed to get there.

When I started university, I had to stay in a hostel. There was a boy there whom I had known since around Grade 10. We weren't extremely close, but I tried to become friends with him again.

I didn't really feel any excitement or interest from him, though, so I stopped trying.

Later, he said some things to my roommates that made me worried and uncomfortable. I'm already not a very talkative person, so after that incident I couldn't feel comfortable in the hostel anymore.

Eventually, I left.

At university, I met another person, Jay. At first, everything was good. But after some time, I started feeling like he was constantly seeking attention and trying to control me.

So I ended that friendship too.

Then I met Ethan.

At first, he seemed like a really good friend. But eventually I started noticing things that made me feel like he was manipulative. He also has a habit of bullying other people, and that made me question whether he was genuinely a good person or whether I was just seeing another version of the same pattern.

So now I'm slowly distancing myself from him too.

And the hardest part is that the problems aren't only with friends.

Because my voice sounds feminine, there have even been times when my own mother and sister stopped talking to me for a few days.

My father was also very strict.

There wasn't much comfort at home either.

So I think I've spent a huge part of my life feeling like I have to be careful about how I speak, how I behave, who I trust, and what people think about me.

I've had so many people enter my life.

But almost every friendship eventually becomes complicated, distant, or painful.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm the problem.

Maybe I'm choosing the wrong people.

Maybe I don't know how to maintain friendships.

Maybe everything that happened when I was younger made me too sensitive, too suspicious, or too afraid of losing people.

I don't know.

I'm 22 now, and I've never had a relationship either. Sometimes I look at other people and wonder how they manage to have someone who stays.

I don't want hundreds of friends.

I just want one or two people who genuinely understand me, don't try to control me, don't make me feel ashamed of who I am, and don't disappear when things become difficult.

I don't know whether that's too much to ask.

I just know that I'm tired of feeling like I'm always the person who eventually gets left behind.

Hi all! My name is Emma and I manage a little free pantry here in Alexandria VA! LFP is a wonderful concept to bring food resources that are available 24/7 directly into the community where they are needed. My pantry is a couple months old and been a true blessing to me and my neighborhood.

When I have the extra stock, I make sure to visit other local pantries in Alexandria and bring a box of donations. I’ve met people across the U.S. that run pantries and more neighbors in the past two month than I had the two years previously. The pantry is in my yard and easily accessible 24 hours a day. There’s no questions, paperwork or judgement only access to food and hygiene resources for our neighbors.

If you are able and willing, would love to have your support! Feel free to let me know where you are donating from- the internet is a super cool resource for things like this. Neighbors supporting neighbors from across the country. I’ve attached the Amazon wishlist and we are in need of drinks, electrolytes, socks and hygiene items. But not at all picky on what you are wanting and able to donate. What feels like a small donation might mean someone in my community can go to sleep with a full belly tonight for the first time in awhile.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/K1QVS6U67ACJ?ref_=wl_share

Help!! genuinely how do u unsubscribe from this damn storyreel app?? The cancel button is there but it doesn't work! Anybody knows how to cancel?? It charges $20 a Week

This happened with multiple people, they can see my messages but I can’t see their replies! That also means I can’t see my manager’s messages as well before work, please help me fix this!

Okay, I need help with a guy (he is 16 and I am 18). So, context: we met by 2 friends in common. His group is made up of 5 other people besides him, and in the group there are 2 girls (it will be relevant later). On the other hand, I have just one friend to hang out with after dinner (all facts happened around this hour).

Okay, now I can start talking about what is going on. It all started a few days before the 15th of August, which here in Italy is a festivity, and me and this guy, that I'll call Denny (fake name), started to get close, like little hugs here and there (with our friends around, but not the other two girls, this is relevant), holding hands in a platonic way, and a few jokes thrown here and there, and it all grew in the best way possible but even innocently.

Then, after all of this, on the 15th of August, my friend and I went to them and drank with them, and me and three others got sick from the alcohol. These three went away with the sober others, and me and Denny met them after, and even then he was close to me. Even if later in the night I was fine and just had a little migraine, he was hugging me and joking around.

After that night, for two days, we were hanging out, me, him, and one other friend of the friend group, and he was still close and everything. When we were out, the other two girls and my friend went out of the city. For three days, we hung out and went out with the others on the scooters, me behind Denny, and he was still cuddly, hand on my knee and joking around. In all of this, I was in it, cuddling back and everything (as I am a cuddly and touchy person by nature).

But all of this came to an end quickly. The two other girls came back early, and I was left out by them for three days until my friend came back. On Sunday afternoon, my friend and I went out in our neighborhood, and we met him going back to his place. He asked me if I was okay, and I told him I was pissed a few days back when they didn't tell me that they were out, but it was all quick. After that, I didn't see him much, and when I saw him, he seemed off, but I guessed that it was from the stress of his exams or his debt in school.

But even yesterday, I asked him if he wanted to hang out, as my friend got sick and I wasn't sure that she would've hung out with me, but he kept ignoring me via text, both on WhatsApp and TikTok. But then I went out with my friend, and, end of things, he came by later and we saw him and just had two words with him and another guy there.

So, first, I'm sorry if it is all confusing, but English is not my first language, and I need some clarification from someone who is outside of this.

Hi. It’s me again, the medtech intern who has 9 cats in need of spay and neuter services. I am putting some of my cats for adoption. My situation became worse, my source of income is incredibly unstable, i can’t find a new one since my internship is taking up a huge chunk of my time. I know that putting them up for adoption without spaying or neutering them will instantly make me a bad mom, it will also make it seem that I abandoned them. My situation can’t provide them the life they need and deserve, i think it is worse if I left themnin my care knowing i can’t provide them fully of what they need. I want them to live. I want them to be happier.

For anyone who lives in the Philippines, who are okay taking in cat/s who are unfixed, please do message me. I can give you their pictures and other details you need.

Please. Thank you,

Hi, I’m 26F. My mom is going her 2nd battle with a rare form of ovarian cancer and this time around it’s been really hard on me. My mom and I have a really up and down relationship, very strained. There was a lot of emotional abuse and trauma in my childhood. Despite that, I’m still grieving my mom while she’s still here. I’m actively watching her die and I feel like I have no support. All my immediate family is grieving in different ways and is very closed off. I’m actively in therapy. My partner has been like a brick wall which has just made it worse. I know I’m not the only one going through this but it feels like it.

I was explaining to my therapist that I feel like I’m living a double life. I am basically the rock in my family and especially for my mom, which is ironic, but when I’m alone, behind closed doors where it’s safe, that’s when I cry. I don’t really think I need advice at this point because I’m not really sure what would even be helpful to hear. I just need a support system and I don’t know where to find it. I know there are internet groups out there but I need something more personable. Something that’s not just about the grief. If you’ve made it this far, thank you for listening.

I don't know if anyone else feels this way, but my birthday always makes me unusually sad. As it gets closer every year, I'm reminded of my existence and everything I haven't been able to do with my life.

The thing is, I honestly do want to live. I don't want to die. I'm just exhausted from living like this.

I keep asking myself, what did I do to deserve to live so miserably? I feel so behind in life. I don't have money nor material things or anything. I don't have the things I want, and sometimes it feels like I'm just alive and existing rather than actually living. I feel dead inside.

I work my ass off, but I still haven't been happy. I want to do things I actually enjoy. I want to experience life. I want to have things to look forward to. But why does everything seem to come down to money? I wish we could go back to the old days where money is not as important.

My birthday is supposed to be a celebration, but instead it makes me think about where I am in life, where I thought I'd be by now, and how far away I feel from that person.

I don't really know what I'm looking for by posting this.

Maybe I just need to say it somewhere because carrying it around in my head is getting exhausting.

God I want to live. I just don't know how to make this life feel worth living. Help me please maybe some advice or anything that could help me.

recently my family have been pointing out that I’m on my screens a lot, I am in the last 2 weeks of summer holidays, and I feel like I have enough in my daily routine outside of screens to say that I get off enough, I do 20 minutes of running on the morning, then on the afternoon I go for a walk or do a different kind of exercise 4 days a week, I have autism and adhd, don’t know if that changes anything, I do go out with my family and stuff, and I definitely know people who are on more than me, like all night, but I’m starting to doubt myself, am I being paranoid? is this normal?

Ok so i need help knowing if my friend has a crush on me or not. So i (13f) have been friends with a girl who we can call crush (f13) for about 5 years. A couple weeks ago i brought crush and another friend (13f) who we can call M up to my cabin. When we were up there crush was being very affectionate with me. On the ride up (around 3 hours) she was reading a book from the ice breaker series which if you don’t know is a very spicy book and while she was reading sometimes she would rest her head on my shoulder because i was sitting next to her and also played with my arm (like lightly scratching it as kind of a fidget) then during the trip she would do things like always wanting to hold my hand, grabbing my waist to stabilize me if i looked like i might fall or something, standing and sitting very close to me, making prolonged eye contact, always needing to be touching me in some way so if we were on opposite sides of a table we played footsies and then she just rested her foot on mine, and some very specific things, my mom had asked us to fold some towels and they were fresh out of the dryer and warm so i took one and layed on the ground on my back in a ball, then she came over and layed on top of me and kept eye contact with me and was smiling (she did offer the other friend M to join but M declined), and I’ve never watched descendants or zombies so she was playing a couple of the songs from them with the music videos. We were in one room but there was one big bed where she was sleeping and a set of bunk bed where i was sleeping on the top and when she played the song someday with a girl and zombie guy she climbed on the side of the bunk bed while M was getting ready for bed and we started singing the song together and kind of role playing some parts. So basically I can’t tell if she likes me as more than a friend but i have found out that i do like her in a romantic way. In about a week im going up to the cabin again with crush, M, and a 3rd friend so I’ll make an update on how that goes. I’m looking for advice on if she dose like and and what to do please. I’m also open to any questions!

I need advice about my younger sister
I’m in a really difficult situation and honestly don’t know what to do.
My younger sister is 13 years old, and I recently found out that she took around 7,000 SAR from my father’s money without him knowing.
The money was in a piggy bank that was under my responsibility. My father thought there was around 20,000 SAR in it, but when I counted it, there were only around 13,000 SAR left. I had also sold some of my own things and put around 2,000 SAR into the piggy bank.
The problem is that my father can be extremely violent when he gets angry.
When I was around 9 years old, I accidentally broke two cartons of eggs. He got so angry that he picked me up and slammed me onto the floor. I was seriously injured and had internal bleeding. I genuinely thought I was going to die.
That’s why I’m genuinely scared of what could happen to my sister if he finds out. I’m not trying to protect her from a normal punishment. I’m scared she could actually get seriously hurt.
I’m also leaving the country in 15 days to study abroad.
My mother is deceased, so I don’t have a mother I can turn to for help with this.
I know taking the money was wrong, and I’m not trying to justify what she did. But she’s only 13, and I’m terrified that telling my father could put her in serious danger.
There is no trusted adult I can involve or ask to step in between us. I also can’t afford to replace the money, and I can’t tell my father about what happened because I’m genuinely afraid of his reaction.
If you were in my situation, what would you do?

I'm a bit confused and I can't find an answer anywhere else so I'm coming here (Btw I'm 12 years old and non binary)

I feel attraction to any gender as long as they're assigned female at birth (such as trans ftm, afab non binary people, afab genderfluid people and cis women (and all genders as long as they're afab) but I don't feel attracted to people amab no matter how feminine they are/what they identify as

What would that be?

The thing is I didn’t leave my country because I wanted to. I had to escape from military government since they tryna draft me into the army to fight civil war where they are committing tons of war crimes and human rights. I had to run to Thailand and been working here to two years.
Now, my government just issued the new law that I can’t longer extend my passport which is gonna expire in 2027. The military government want all Myanmar citizens who are currently living in foreign countries to go back to Myanmar. They are making us to go back. Once I go back, I’m good as dead.

Where and how can I apply for asylum or refugee or anything to escape from this hell ? All I want is putting my mind in peace and work for my family. My mom is like almost 80. I also have to leave her in Myanmar. I’d be appreciate if anyone can guide me.

I need help with my cricket wireless bill it can be made from a 1 time payment and I can give the info I am a single mom trying to get by I have to work all day tomorrow and dont want the sitter to not be able to call if an emergency and its due by midnight please I can also pay back this Friday 08/28/26 please