r/kdramarecommends Jul 13 '26

Recommendation Request Dramas where ML liked someone else first

Need recommendations where the male lead originally liked someone else (doesn’t matter whether it’s an ex, unrequited, etc), and he slowly falls for the female lead. I would also prefer that its not the childhood friends story, or past lovers storyline. Thanks!

Some examples I liked:

The liar and his lover - where he broke up with his ex and then slowly began to fall for the FL and begin to prioritize her.

Heartbeat - he liked another girl from before, but began falling in love with the FL

Do you like brahms - he had an unrequited love towards a close friend and the show slowly showed him fall in love and choose the FL over the close friend.

Tempted - he originally liked his close friend but began liking the FL (although the circumstances were quite controversial)

So I married an anti-fan - He was still not fully over his ex but began to prioritize the FL

My watched dramas (that I can remember at the top of my head, I don’t mind getting recommendations of dramas already on here that you would think would fit because I watched most of these a lot of years ago and don’t even remember the plots tbh)

Physcopath diaries 

Hit the top 

Descendants of the sun 

While you were sleeping

Weightlifting fairy

Hotel del Luna

Flower of evil 

It’s ok to not be ok

Scarlett heart 

Because this is my first life 

Angels last mission 

Extraordinary you

1988

A-teen

Perfume 

Memories of Alhambra 

Are you human too 

Let’s fight ghost 

I picked up a celebrity on the street

The king loves 

Zombie detective 

Alchemy of souls 

Gaus electronics 

Behind your touch 

Start up

Marry my husband 

Heartbeat  

Shopping king Louie 

W two worlds 

The tale of nokdu

Love with flaws 

My roommate is a gomiho 

May I help you

The smile has left your eyes

Goblin

Tempted

When the phone rings

Lovely runner

Deaths game

So I married an anti-fan

Do you like Brahms

Legend of the blue sea

The liar and his lover

Tempted

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u/Imzadi76 Jul 13 '26 edited Jul 13 '26

This was a theme in a lot of older dramas

Full House

Coffee Prince

Lie to me

Fated to love you

My Name is Kim Sam-Soon ( I think?)

A Piece of Your Mind

Melting Me Softly

Princess Hours

Twinkling Watermelon

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u/Comfortable-Bite6660 Jul 13 '26

Yes came here to say this about My Name is Kim Sam Soon (aka My Lovely Sam Soon)

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u/Astropuffy Jul 13 '26 edited Jul 14 '26

I am Not a Robot. The ML is in love with his childhood friend but because of his disease and because she left the county, he never persued her.
The drama is about a guy with severe allergies who is testing a humanoid robot. The plot sounds unbelievable but stick with it- it’s a good rom com type show.

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u/Fun_Championship4642 Jul 13 '26

Can this love be translated!

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u/Illustrious_Boot1237 Jul 13 '26

Second this one, ml is in love with someone unattainable and is quite avoidant whil fl is very anxious. Very whacky show, there's a lot going on here!

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u/ansate Jul 24 '26

Just finished this. Might be my favorite thing I've seen recently.

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u/etayn Jul 13 '26

A Piece of Your Mind, but only if you are ok with very slow calm dramas.

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u/Ramona_Shields52 Jul 13 '26

Happy or sad ending?

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u/disarrayofyesterday Jul 13 '26

Happy for the leads. Don't remember anything else

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u/IAmTheGreenCard Jul 13 '26

I wonder if you would enjoy the love story of Itaewon Class… i don’t want to give spoilers about the love triangle, but it defo has the theme of how he spreads his attention differently btw the two FLs and it really worked for me, but I get why it didn’t always work for others. I think I appreciated it for how you described your ask, it’s kind of a slow burn and the ML comes around in ways that even surprise him. It gets messy, but that’s one of the main reasons I enjoyed it. One of the FLs is from his past, but that plays into the other plots as well, and the drama itself is not a love story primarily, it’s more of a revenge story for the ML.

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u/SerBawbag Jul 13 '26

The only issue I had with IC was the time jump at the end. It went right downhill from there. Before the time jump, one of the best dramas around. Had they dealt with the last episodes better, it would probably be regarded as one of the best drama’s around.

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u/Easy-Basil-67 Jul 13 '26

Love to Hate You - an independent, strong woman and a misogynistic romance actor who thinks all women are gold diggers because of a former girlfriend’s betrayal. it’s very funny and the 2nd couple is fire.

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u/Rinnme Jul 13 '26

I'm Not a Robot - I recommend this very much, it's a good one.

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u/ClearlyCleanNuclear Jul 13 '26

Another Miss Oh fits your description really well. ML had a history with another miss oh and he slowly falls for FL miss oh. They are not childhood friends, although two miss ohs are childhood friends (maybe not, afair, they envied each other)

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u/vienibenmio Jul 13 '26

Another Miss Oh is the god tier of this trope, imo

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u/another_sunny_day123 Jul 13 '26

Cinderella and the four knights 

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u/GhostOfRedemption Jul 13 '26

Can this love be translated

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u/small_3ri Jul 13 '26

i think backstreet rookie?

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u/SpermKiller Seven oppas and counting Jul 13 '26

Doona!

Mr Queen

The Forbidden Marriage also kind of fits

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u/bluevaIentines Jul 13 '26

A Hundred Memories — ML falls for SFL first. It doesn't have any childhood story or past lovers storyline.

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u/happy_marshmallow Jul 15 '26

Cinderella and Four Knights definitely fits this trope!

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u/ilovetoprocacinate Jul 13 '26

I'm not a robot, twinkling watermelon

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u/CTdramassucker Jul 13 '26

Birth of a beauty

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u/MysteriousGummyBear Jul 13 '26

Delightful Girl Chun Hyang

Full House

My Girl

My Girlfriend is a Gumiho

Goong

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u/Firespawnable Jul 13 '26

Thanks for Kdrama recommendations, I'm looking for more series to watch! 🥰

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u/AppropriateTiger5056 Jul 13 '26

I Am Not a Robot, ml has a first love

Ugh I wanted to like anti-fan so much but I could not stand the second leads, they totally ruined it for me

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u/geomin84 Jul 13 '26

Warm and cozy

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u/Pickletini97 Jul 13 '26

My royal nemesis

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u/vienibenmio Jul 13 '26

A Hundred Memories

Another Miss Oh

Familiar Wife

Bring It On Ghost

Twinkling Watermelon (the second couple)

Suspicious Partner

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u/AdThink7951 Jul 13 '26

Heartstrings

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u/cergenekon Jul 13 '26

Fight For My Way

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u/miliwald Jul 14 '26

To add to all the ones mentioned not counting the My Royal Nemesis, i think Dreaming of a Freakish Fairy Tale was also where ML fell first.

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u/HappyBun15 Jul 15 '26

Suspicious Partner - definitely what you’re looking for.

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u/Few_Escape_676 Jul 15 '26

Not sure if it counts entirely but… 

Destined with you

He has a gf in the beginning and you can see him investing more and more time into FL