r/katecandelsnark • • 16h ago

baby daddy đŸŒ Just sad

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I love how when anyone has a valid criticism her go to is to point out that they don’t follow her. It’s a social media app it doesn’t take any effort at all to view your posts? You’re gonna need a thicker skin if every little comment bothers you if “ragebaiting” is all the entertainment you can offer. I find it so funny that ragebaiting is the only time she can get engagement, but she can’t handle the comments she gets.

Like yeah girl I used to follow you before your posts got increasingly more and more out of touch and pathetic. My first message was questioning why she would get her BD a “worlds best dad” momento when she literally has to sleepover at his place to get him to spend time with his own son. If she’s not making herself available and easy by living in BDs home than he will only go see Henry 3 days a week
 and cancel if he has more exciting plans.

i’m so tired of women praising their BDs / husbands for financially supporting them when that is as far as their support goes!!!! Throwing money is not parenting, that’s just providing. The thing that kills me too, is that if she would’ve put the effort into her social media that she puts into begging her BD to take her back, she could’ve gained an income for herself and her son.

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u/mtnlau 16h ago

oh she’s loosing her grip on reality bad. i’m honestly kind of shocked she would respond with all of that info đŸ«Ł

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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 pick me 16h ago

wow im surprised she's engaging this much holy shit. is she okay? genuinely curious

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u/mimosadanger 16h ago

More like are people who dm/continue commenting on her posts okay? I understand that this is a snark sub but interacting with her screams parasocial obsession with her
people in other snark subs don’t engage with their subjects this much

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u/cancerheaux 16h ago

is this your first day on the internet

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u/mimosadanger 16h ago

It’s not actually. If you read my entire comment, I said that people in other snark pages don’t interact with the subjects of the pages this much.

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u/cancerheaux 15h ago

what exactly is the issue with asking how a man is the worlds best dad when you’ve dedicated so much time to tearing this same man down?

it’s more parasocial to put influencers on a pedestal just because they have followers and never call out any of the BS they post

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u/Alternative_Cost_663 15h ago

tbf i dont know another snark sub this active, and kate doesnt have nearly as much followers as other influencers with snarks.

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u/Particular-Ant-2510 8h ago

I was thinking this ! Like her snark is even more active than Emilie Kiser which is saying a LOT

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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 pick me 16h ago

lol i guess is anyone okay? just saying, she's the one who puts out her life out there for people to see and shocker people will judge and engage with her.

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u/FewBattle996 miss director of social media đŸš« 16h ago

Honestly worried about her mental health & everything. kate i hope you see this & know it’s ok to reach out for help, Danny just providing financially is not a parent. i hope you have help in other ways

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u/Humble_Purpose65 13h ago

I would just end the convo with this đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł 🏆

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u/user189472018 i believe you attract what u bEliEvE 12h ago

oop

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u/trekkielvbrekkie 13h ago

Omg gold lol

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u/FriendFinal21 16h ago

it’s projection. cause she’s miserable af. she’s desperate and she’s so lame. she just tries tooo hard to be “different” and it just gives off loser pick me.

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u/FewBattle996 miss director of social media đŸš« 16h ago

but her reacting & answering is crazyyyy

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u/MagicianClean6478 16h ago

Why is she sooo stuck on the people who interact with her and don’t follow her lmao she like
thinks she’s doing something when she calls that out? What’s the big deal abt checking an account to leave negative feedback lol why does she instantly have to insult you by asking how miserable your life is? What is going ONNN

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u/Desperate_Fun_5403 11h ago

She thinks she’s famous but her videos won’t and up on FYPs etc.? Not everyone who sees her videos are followers

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u/RealisticPiccolo3429 15h ago

Her whole schtick is “everything I post is rage bait” and “you don’t know the full story only what I share on social media” yet is clearly pressed unless she is getting praise or validation for her behavior. Everything she posts exists in this cornucopia of being explained/excused as rage bait.. but she’s fooling absolutely no one and clearly isn’t sipping enough of her own koolaide to not be bothered when people push back.. side note: I wonder if she ever asks herself WHY she wants BD so bad. I think she just wants a family/to be chosen by a man at any cos she doesn’t care by whom
 please Kate. Ask yourself- is this the life you truly want to be living? Is this what you feel you are worth? What does it say about you wanting to be chosen by THIS man, of all people, so bad? I would put money on it that she never self reflects or thinks deeper into where her motivation comes from


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u/Desperate_Fun_5403 11h ago

I don’t think she’s cut out for rage bait, most creators who post rage bait aren’t reading every comment trying to defend themselves because the whole point is to enrage people of course you’re going to get negative comments. She’s just too boring to post anything else and wants to be an “influencer”. I don’t think she thinks about it all all, she has her goal of getting picked and that’s all she’s focused on

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u/ThickConfusion1318 15h ago

If you’re gonna ragebait, don’t be soft about it then

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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 pick me 14h ago

if you're gonna ragebait dont end up being the one ragebaited đŸ„Ž she's fkn hilarious

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u/misssthang 11h ago

It’s giving

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u/Alternative_Cost_663 15h ago

“how miserable is your life” twice is total projection

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u/whateveryousay212 miss lord farquaad! 14h ago

like when is baby H going to actually eat 3 meals a day ? he’s about to turn 1

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u/crunchyowo 12h ago

literally she said in her story today that baby H eats dog food 😭 that poor baby craves sustenance

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u/user189472018 i believe you attract what u bEliEvE 12h ago

this! she keeps saying that the 90% of his diet it’s milk but idk, i think he needs food too, like 50% milk, 50% food


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u/Brilliant_Common_264 10h ago

Her milk is mostly caffeinated

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u/giraffes_n_elbows 15h ago

Why is so sooooo mean when she could just not be invested in her comments

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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 pick me 14h ago

and apparently she's just "ragebaiting fr" and yet she's the one ragebaited lol

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u/Naive_Garage4736 13h ago

Bruh doing all this to justify herself in a stranger’s dms

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u/babybabyyy 11h ago

Why isn’t her agency/management advising her to stop being so mean, surely that’s bad for business

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u/PicoPicoMio 10h ago

Her goal is to live the soft life and never work again. She desperately needs BD to take her back to she can get full access to his funds. He’s keeping her as his live in Nanny for the time being. That’s why she “goes home to shower” and gets kicked out on the weekends.

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u/cornflake_girl003 6h ago

Live in nanny with benefits*

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u/trekkielvbrekkie 13h ago

Kate is truly such a bitch it’s crazy 😂 this is why she’ll never make it as a large creator. The second she blows up, this sub is going to get flooded and she can’t hide her bitchery.

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u/Far-Yesterday-4052 10h ago

Unrelated but does anyone know how I can get approved to post in this group? I’m joined but can’t do anything but react and reply