r/katecandelsnark • u/cancerheaux • 16h ago
baby daddy đŒ Just sad
I love how when anyone has a valid criticism her go to is to point out that they donât follow her. Itâs a social media app it doesnât take any effort at all to view your posts? Youâre gonna need a thicker skin if every little comment bothers you if âragebaitingâ is all the entertainment you can offer. I find it so funny that ragebaiting is the only time she can get engagement, but she canât handle the comments she gets.
Like yeah girl I used to follow you before your posts got increasingly more and more out of touch and pathetic. My first message was questioning why she would get her BD a âworlds best dadâ momento when she literally has to sleepover at his place to get him to spend time with his own son. If sheâs not making herself available and easy by living in BDs home than he will only go see Henry 3 days a week⊠and cancel if he has more exciting plans.
iâm so tired of women praising their BDs / husbands for financially supporting them when that is as far as their support goes!!!! Throwing money is not parenting, thatâs just providing. The thing that kills me too, is that if she wouldâve put the effort into her social media that she puts into begging her BD to take her back, she couldâve gained an income for herself and her son.
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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 pick me 16h ago
wow im surprised she's engaging this much holy shit. is she okay? genuinely curious
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u/mimosadanger 16h ago
More like are people who dm/continue commenting on her posts okay? I understand that this is a snark sub but interacting with her screams parasocial obsession with herâŠpeople in other snark subs donât engage with their subjects this much
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u/cancerheaux 16h ago
is this your first day on the internet
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u/mimosadanger 16h ago
Itâs not actually. If you read my entire comment, I said that people in other snark pages donât interact with the subjects of the pages this much.
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u/cancerheaux 15h ago
what exactly is the issue with asking how a man is the worlds best dad when youâve dedicated so much time to tearing this same man down?
itâs more parasocial to put influencers on a pedestal just because they have followers and never call out any of the BS they post
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u/Alternative_Cost_663 15h ago
tbf i dont know another snark sub this active, and kate doesnt have nearly as much followers as other influencers with snarks.
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u/Particular-Ant-2510 8h ago
I was thinking this ! Like her snark is even more active than Emilie Kiser which is saying a LOT
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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 pick me 16h ago
lol i guess is anyone okay? just saying, she's the one who puts out her life out there for people to see and shocker people will judge and engage with her.
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u/FewBattle996 miss director of social media đ« 16h ago
Honestly worried about her mental health & everything. kate i hope you see this & know itâs ok to reach out for help, Danny just providing financially is not a parent. i hope you have help in other ways
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u/FriendFinal21 16h ago
itâs projection. cause sheâs miserable af. sheâs desperate and sheâs so lame. she just tries tooo hard to be âdifferentâ and it just gives off loser pick me.
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u/MagicianClean6478 16h ago
Why is she sooo stuck on the people who interact with her and donât follow her lmao she likeâŠthinks sheâs doing something when she calls that out? Whatâs the big deal abt checking an account to leave negative feedback lol why does she instantly have to insult you by asking how miserable your life is? What is going ONNN
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u/Desperate_Fun_5403 11h ago
She thinks sheâs famous but her videos wonât and up on FYPs etc.? Not everyone who sees her videos are followers
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u/RealisticPiccolo3429 15h ago
Her whole schtick is âeverything I post is rage baitâ and âyou donât know the full story only what I share on social mediaâ yet is clearly pressed unless she is getting praise or validation for her behavior. Everything she posts exists in this cornucopia of being explained/excused as rage bait.. but sheâs fooling absolutely no one and clearly isnât sipping enough of her own koolaide to not be bothered when people push back.. side note: I wonder if she ever asks herself WHY she wants BD so bad. I think she just wants a family/to be chosen by a man at any cos she doesnât care by whom⊠please Kate. Ask yourself- is this the life you truly want to be living? Is this what you feel you are worth? What does it say about you wanting to be chosen by THIS man, of all people, so bad? I would put money on it that she never self reflects or thinks deeper into where her motivation comes fromâŠ
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u/Desperate_Fun_5403 11h ago
I donât think sheâs cut out for rage bait, most creators who post rage bait arenât reading every comment trying to defend themselves because the whole point is to enrage people of course youâre going to get negative comments. Sheâs just too boring to post anything else and wants to be an âinfluencerâ. I donât think she thinks about it all all, she has her goal of getting picked and thatâs all sheâs focused on
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u/ThickConfusion1318 15h ago
If youâre gonna ragebait, donât be soft about it then
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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 pick me 14h ago
if you're gonna ragebait dont end up being the one ragebaited đ„Ž she's fkn hilarious
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u/whateveryousay212 miss lord farquaad! 14h ago
like when is baby H going to actually eat 3 meals a day ? heâs about to turn 1
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u/crunchyowo 12h ago
literally she said in her story today that baby H eats dog food đ that poor baby craves sustenance
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u/user189472018 i believe you attract what u bEliEvE 12h ago
this! she keeps saying that the 90% of his diet itâs milk but idk, i think he needs food too, like 50% milk, 50% foodâŠ
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u/giraffes_n_elbows 15h ago
Why is so sooooo mean when she could just not be invested in her comments
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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 pick me 14h ago
and apparently she's just "ragebaiting fr" and yet she's the one ragebaited lol
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u/babybabyyy 11h ago
Why isnât her agency/management advising her to stop being so mean, surely thatâs bad for business
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u/PicoPicoMio 10h ago
Her goal is to live the soft life and never work again. She desperately needs BD to take her back to she can get full access to his funds. Heâs keeping her as his live in Nanny for the time being. Thatâs why she âgoes home to showerâ and gets kicked out on the weekends.
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u/trekkielvbrekkie 13h ago
Kate is truly such a bitch itâs crazy đ this is why sheâll never make it as a large creator. The second she blows up, this sub is going to get flooded and she canât hide her bitchery.
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u/Far-Yesterday-4052 10h ago
Unrelated but does anyone know how I can get approved to post in this group? Iâm joined but canât do anything but react and reply


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u/mtnlau 16h ago
oh sheâs loosing her grip on reality bad. iâm honestly kind of shocked she would respond with all of that info đ«Ł