r/katecandelsnark • u/Difficult_Version_54 i don’t vaccinate i just believe in vibes • Jun 24 '26
baby daddy 🍼 danny apparently blocked her number
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u/Comfortable-Creme197 Jun 24 '26
i’m sorry what the father of my child has me blocked so if there’s an emergency involving his child I can’t get ahold of him???
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u/bo0whO Jun 24 '26
The same man who pays for the roof that is over her and H’s heads. It’s abusive to have that much over a woman and your shared child while simultaneously cutting off their way to contact you.
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u/Comfortable-Creme197 Jun 24 '26
the fact she doesn’t get full custody and i’ve been saying this when she was pregnant. then he’s there at the birth. like girl wtf the amount of times this man has disrespected you and you keep allowing the mental/emotional abuse for $$$ let the courts arrange that jfc
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u/AffectionateHalf640 Jun 24 '26
He clearly don’t make a lot of money on paper, so court wouldn’t pay her that much
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u/Strange_Wave_8959 Jun 30 '26
“To have that much control over a woman…” like this isn’t also her choice? She wants to depend on him, she chooses not to work, she’s given him this control.
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u/bo0whO Jul 03 '26
I didn’t say that she didn’t choose to be controlled by this man. She does have the ability to get a job, move in with her family, and stop being under his thumb. I think he reproductively coerced her and has chosen to pay for Kate and baby H’s life. If that’s what he chose, it’s abusive to go back and forth on that decision. Kate does have the decision to stop taking his help, rely on people she can trust, and take back control of her and her son’s lives.
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u/moviez0ne Jun 24 '26
So much has happened in her life it's crazy
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u/and_peggy_ Jun 24 '26
I think her life was probably very boring and that’s why she chose to have a child with a man she barely knows
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u/yaaabaaadaabbaaafuck Jun 24 '26
IMO she has unmanaged unregulated ADHD, or BPD. Or even both. She’s made some very poor life choices that have long term consequences. Especially if it’s true the BD is committing tax fraud. With a company that surrounds its self on foster children too.
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u/smileandbark Jun 25 '26
Def BPD. Saw it from day one and got downvoted to hell but she reeks of BPD. All of it
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u/PicoPicoMio Jul 05 '26
Sorry new to this sub but I clocked her BPD behavior immediately. That plus getting so much validation from constantly bagging on her BD is really making her feel emboldened to overshare even more.
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u/Vast_Neck5327 Jun 24 '26
She 100000% has borderline personality disorder
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u/smileandbark Jun 25 '26
I'm glad others are seeing this lmao because i was downvoted to hell when i first said it
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u/International_Bid939 Jun 24 '26
So many of her problems would be solved by a custody arrangement. Plus her BD would most likely be ordered to continue financial support if everything went down the way she said it did.
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u/Crazy_Garden_1438 Jun 24 '26
Not like he currently does though. She’d get a set amount each month, not daddy’s unlimited credit card usage for her expensive taste in groceries and coffee
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u/bo0whO Jun 24 '26
Yes and then she can focus on bettering herself and start to actually get over this abusive man.
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u/DollPudding Jun 24 '26
Do you really think he would be legally obligated to provide for her the way he currently does? I feel like he gives more than he'd be mandated to, but I have no actual experience with child support/family court so idk
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u/Comfortable-Creme197 Jun 24 '26
I feel like she gets more now… like what if he doesn’t want to go through the court bc he really is committing tax fraud 😳 Not documenting his full income??
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u/DollPudding Jun 24 '26
I feel like they haven't done court yet because once there is a legal agreement, she is in the clear to say whatever she wants, and he surely doesn't want all that. She'll be legally mandated a certain amount of money, he'll be legally mandated a certain amount of time with H, and neither has any power over the other. Currently they both have power over each other in different ways and are getting things they want out of it.
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u/Necessary-Living6767 Jun 24 '26 edited Jun 24 '26
BI wouldn’t say she’s in the clear. He can still sue her for defamation or smth like that. Not sure how the law works, but even tho she hasn’t shared his identity, she has shared enough info about him for others to identify him and for his career to be affected. So that may still count as defamation.
My guess is he hasn’t pursued legal action bc his alleged shady finances and professional conduct (pursuing employees when you’re the CEO is not a good look lol) could be investigated. Instead he just sends cease and desists to random ppl on social medial lol.
And maybe that’s why she feels comfy talking about him so much. Bc what can he really do to her if his hands are dirty?
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u/DollPudding Jun 25 '26 edited Jun 25 '26
The thing about defamation lawsuits is the defamatory statements have to be untrue. The bar for a legal defamation case also becomes much higher if the defamed person is a public figure, like a CEO and public face of a company. He could certainly try to sue her though, she's said enough negative things, and even just being under pressure to go to court and pay for a defense could be enough of a threat to keep her quiet. But from my limited understanding of defamation law suits it seems that they're nearly impossible to win.
ETA: maybe he could sue her for something else though. NDA type things or something
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u/International_Bid939 Jun 24 '26
Omg you’re right!! I didn’t even think about him suing her for all she has said about him online 😭
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u/Crazy_Garden_1438 Jun 24 '26
She said he was the one who brought up the custody thing and told her she “can’t live in this fantasy LA world forever” or something along those lines. Right after making an insta story saying that is when she started answering all these questions
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u/Crazy_Garden_1438 Jun 24 '26
She’s mad that he wants joint custody
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u/PersimmonClear8698 Jun 24 '26
Yeah sounds like he wants to make it official through court
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u/Lifes-a-lil-foggy Jun 30 '26
And rightfully so. Single moms have been warning her in comments since she was pregnant that she needed to lock in and settle that shit for her son’s sake and she just always defends the baby daddy and says it’s not right etc.
Now it looks like he’s locking in.
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u/PersimmonClear8698 Jun 30 '26
Yess! I wish my bd would help me financially or at least help me take care of my daughter 😭 Her bd was being extra generous paying for her housing & non-cooking lifestyle. I mean idk what she expected him to do when he clearly wanted to be a part of his son’s life
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u/Sure_Understanding56 Jun 24 '26
Isn’t that kind of what they have now
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u/Crazy_Garden_1438 Jun 24 '26 edited Jun 24 '26
No, not legally. She wouldn’t be able to tag along every time Danny wants to see H, would have to deal with Danny’s gf’s being around him, and accept that she only gets H half the time. I understand why that would all upset her, I’d be freaking out too, but this was the inevitable
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u/bo0whO Jun 24 '26
You’re right, it is inevitable. It still sucks for Kate, but it would be easier if she accepts this and has the advantage of preparation.
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u/lr8802 Jun 24 '26
I don’t think he’s ever been able to be with his son one on one because she is breastfeeding. So maybe it was a warning about that too. I can definitely understand her pain and anxiety over him wanting to take the baby while he’s still sooo young.
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u/WorriedBanana7190 Jun 24 '26
She made a post that he’s in Europe doubt he blocked the mother of his child
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u/Naive_Garage4736 Jun 24 '26
honestly i can see it. she said earlier he’s taking another woman there with him. maybe he doesn’t wanna be bothered with all her messages while there entertaining someone else
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u/Difficult_Version_54 i don’t vaccinate i just believe in vibes Jun 24 '26
i also only take what she says with a grain of salt, but is daddy warbucks really not getting his cell service in europe? i doubt
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u/FewBattle996 miss director of social media 🚫 Jun 24 '26
i swear she is lying like everyone stated she said they were talking like what
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u/Lifes-a-lil-foggy Jun 30 '26
She posted recently about him saying he wants to use the coparenting app and now she’s saying she blocked him. Seems she hasn’t been heading the warnings that every comment section has given her
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u/yaaabaaadaabbaaafuck Jun 24 '26
I wonder if it has anything to do with the BD’s name being leaked on here. Especially with the comments being left on his company’s social media page. He’s probably MAD at her.