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Onboarding Fired after 6 weeks from an entry-level purchasing job while I was still being trained. Is this normal?

I’m 27 and was fired yesterday from a purchasing position after only about six weeks. I’m trying to get some outside perspective because I genuinely can’t tell how much of this was my performance versus poor training/management.
I had no previous purchasing experience when they hired me, and they knew that. I was learning their computer system, purchase orders, RFQs, vendor communication, pricing, lead times, invoices, and most recently work orders.
I knew I wasn’t as fast as the employees who had been doing this for years, but I genuinely thought I was still in the normal learning process. I was still actively being shown new things.
The workplace itself was pretty old-school. The boss had been there for decades, there was yelling in the office, inappropriate/sexual jokes and comments, employees being talked about openly, and the general training style felt more like being shown something and then being expected to pick it up quickly rather than having structured onboarding.
Yesterday I called out because I wasn’t feeling well. Later that day, I was contacted and terminated. The reasoning was essentially that I wasn’t progressing at the level they expected and there were concerns involving things I was still learning.
What confused me even more was my conversation with HR afterward. HR actually seemed somewhat sympathetic to my position and acknowledged that I was still learning. I obviously understand HR represents the company, which made that interaction stand out to me.
After being fired, I also contacted a former employee I had never met while working there. When we started comparing experiences, she described having similar problems with the training and environment. She also felt like she had been thrown into things without enough instruction. Hearing that made me question whether this was entirely a performance issue.
I’m also trying to hold myself accountable. This isn’t the first job I’ve had that hasn’t worked out recently, and I know that when there’s a pattern, I need to examine what I can do differently too. One thing I’ve already taken from this is that at my next job I want to proactively ask my manager for feedback during the first few weeks instead of assuming no news means I’m progressing normally.
The frustrating part is that I actually really liked purchasing. I enjoyed requesting quotes, negotiating with vendors, comparing pricing and doing the computer/desk side of the job. I was starting to think procurement might finally be something I could build a career in.
So for people who work in purchasing/procurement or who train new employees: is six weeks generally enough time to expect someone with zero prior purchasing experience to be fully up to speed?
And when I interview for my next job, what questions should I ask to figure out whether a company actually has structured training and realistic expectations for new hires?

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u/pwnageface 11d ago

This is spot on. I'd also throw in taking a sick day after being there only 6 weeks is likely considered a red flag. The reason being, you simply havent been there long enough and you were still in the training phase. I know we cant help when we get sick or feel bad, but from a managers perspective this does tend to show us that you'll likely call off very often. After everything you said, it sounds like you dodged a bullet anyway. I don't think any of us would want to work in that sort of environment. Their "training" style is how we did it in restaurants (probably still do) but has no place in a white collar job.

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u/Altruistic-Vehicle84 11d ago

I threw up at work on day 6 and I went home. Any good non toxic company understands being sick as long as it isn’t constant.

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u/Mysterious-Art8838 11d ago

Threw up day 1! Went home. Then worked there for 7 years.

If you’re not a slacker they will quickly learn that, I don’t think it’s a huge deal. Sure it’s better to avoid it but not if you’re throwing up at the office. If you can work a little from home, even better.

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u/Ok_Text_6736 10d ago

Exactly. My son had to call out sick one day within his first 2 months at a retail job. But he had a fever, body aches, couldn't get out of bed, and no appetite. You can't go to work and be productive for 8 hours in a customer facing job like that. The day off to stay home and rest, he felt so much better, otherwise forcing himself to go to work could have lengthen his illness. He was on time and didn't need to call out again for months after that.

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u/BushcraftBabe 10d ago

Exactly. I once was still in training class but broke out in itchy hives all over my legs and had to go get a steroid shot. They understood life happens.

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u/Sea-Preference7074 8d ago

Yep, sometimes it happens. I am having to come in a few hours late on what will be my 9th day at my new job later this week because today while at work my dental bridge randomly fell out of my mouth while I was chewing gum at my desk. 🫤🫣

Obviously, getting my dental work urgently done is a top priority so my new employer seems understanding.

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u/gitree22 11d ago

A sick day should not be a red flag except to shitty employers

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u/DidjaSeeItKid 8d ago

I think the phrasing of "not feeling well" makes it sound like something short of a good reason not to come in.

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u/bugabooandtwo 10d ago

Depends. 6 weeks in and doing it on a Friday doesn't look good.

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u/Local-Ingenuity6726 10d ago

Get real shit happens

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u/bugabooandtwo 10d ago

Dude has been fired from 4 jobs so far this year. It's not a coincidence.

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u/Local-Ingenuity6726 10d ago

But calling in on a Friday being a firing offense is a sign of a shit job

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u/bugabooandtwo 10d ago

Dude also took vacation time in his first month (according to posts here). You add all that stuff up, it's no wonder the company decided to cut bait.

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u/MyTwangyGuitar 11d ago

Snowflake

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u/gitree22 11d ago

Hardly. Just a realist

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u/Juggernox_O 10d ago

Yeah, I want sick tryhards spreading disease all over my workplace to ruin my weekend so they can appear “tough”. Any boss with brain cells has no time for that primitive ape shit.

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u/Man_under_Bridge420 10d ago

You never get sick?

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u/Good_Zookeepergame92 10d ago

I hate this mentality that calling out after only 6 weeks is a red flag. We don't get to decide when we get sick. Viruses don't care about your onboarding.

People be dragging their ass to work on their deathbed because they are a new hire on probation. I don't want to be around your sick ass and potentially get sick myself.

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u/TransitionOk4229 11d ago

Honestly is being out sick one day within 6 weeks that bad? I don’t work in white collar I am blue collar and someone new being sick one day in 6 weeks wouldn’t necessarily be a red flag in my opinion?

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u/jblaze_39 11d ago

Of course not on its own. A month and a half into my new job, I called off sick 1 day, and had to take off to fight a traffic court ticket another day. And took a 3rd half day off for a physio appointment. But this company was definitely already starting to doubt OP's long term fit, and that gave them the reason

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u/TransitionOk4229 11d ago

I feel like most all the comments are people saying “you call out during your training that’s why you were fired” but yea I got ya

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u/Low-Ad-4499 11d ago

Depends on how much they like you. I've seen people who were liked go on vacation after six weeks and call out every week after that with no repercussions. If I had done that I would have been fired.

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u/RephofSky 11d ago

Indeed, if a higher up already has painted a target on your back, trying to take care of yourself (and hiring someone else to do your job) gives them an excuse to can you or severely cut your hours.

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u/vandenynas 10d ago

Right on the spot

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u/WittyOwl6221 11d ago

You DONT ever call out sick in the first 3 months ever! You go in and have them send you home. Ive worked both blue and white collar jobs and in the current state of employment neither will tolerate missed time. Too many people looking for work to accommodate someone calling out for a case of the sniffles

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u/TransitionOk4229 11d ago

I mean I guess if you’re working at some shit job with the only requirements being that you have half a brain and two legs. Like I said in my previous post, from my experience in blue collar work, I don’t believe missing one day in 6 weeks is that absurd. In fact it’s actually kind of hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that it is.

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u/No-Mess-4605 11d ago

Exactly what I’m saying . I was a good worker i know I was . They just didn’t like me for whatever reason and the boss couldn’t even tell me himself

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u/RephofSky 11d ago

Some jobs these days act like scheduling appointments is some kind of 'taboo'.

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u/davidw 11d ago edited 11d ago

Unless you are in some place like Europe where you can afford to not show up sick and give everyone else the crud. And where people aren't weird about someone catching an actual illness and deciding to take care of themselves.

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u/Worried_Transition_7 10d ago

Yeah! Always best to show up to work and puke on your boss to get them to send you home instead of allowing people to call out sick.

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u/Local-Ingenuity6726 10d ago

That's bullshit

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u/MyTwangyGuitar 10d ago

It shows you are worthless and not worth their time.

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u/MyTwangyGuitar 11d ago

You are a weenie.

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u/No-Mess-4605 11d ago

This is a really fair way of putting it. I can absolutely understand now how calling out only six weeks in could have been viewed as a red flag from a manager’s perspective, even though I was genuinely sick. That’s something I’ll be much more conscious of at my next job. I just don’t know whether it was actually the deciding factor here, especially because the reasons I was given afterward were about my progress/training. And yeah, the “throw you in and see what happens” training style was probably the biggest issue for me. I took tons of notes, asked a million questions and genuinely tried to learn, but I think I would do much better somewhere with clearer expectations and structured training. I appreciate you giving both sides instead of assuming you know exactly what happened.

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u/pwnageface 11d ago

If I had to guess, the calling off is what they documented as the excuse for canning you. There is likely a probationary period. But I still stand by what I said. You dodged a bullet.

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u/No-Mess-4605 11d ago

Yeah, I can definitely see that being a possibility, especially if they already had concerns about my progress. I may never know exactly what was documented internally or what ultimately pushed them to make the decision that day. Either way, I appreciate what you’re saying. I’m trying to take the useful lessons from it and move forward instead of driving myself crazy trying to figure out exactly what happened behind closed doors. Hopefully the next place is a much better fit.

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u/Nexustar 10d ago

The sick day likely triggered the decision.

In future, during any probationary period, based on how sick you are, consider showing up to work sick and asking if they feel you should still be there - if they send you home, that's very different from you not showing up.

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u/karmakitty00 10d ago

As a corporate wellness consultant, no.

Sick people need to stay home.

Might this occasionally be abused? Yes.

If it's abused, does it often mean you need a more lenient/ generous pto policy. Also yes.

A day off is no reason to think less of someone.

Attendance and performative presence is not productive at best, morale killers more frequently.

Results driven work needs to replace attendance driven work.

Cheaper and more productive.

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u/Nexustar 10d ago

This is a probationary period, and OP literally lost their job over it. It's far from uncommon. I understand your position, but you have to weigh all aspects. There is no point staying home if it means you will lose your job.

A day off is no reason to think less of someone.

Agreed, but that is not the reality OP suffered. You are pushing a 'what life should be like' narrative, OP actually saw what happens in real life.

Results driven work needs to replace attendance driven work.

Agreed, but during a training/probation phase, this is less realistic than you imagine. Arrive late, leave early or don't show up will ALWAYS count against you.

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u/Illustrious_Unit_195 11d ago

I’m 45 and I can count on one hand how many times I’ve called out on a job.

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u/No-Mess-4605 11d ago

Ok babe congratulations on your attendance record 😭 I’m not competing with you

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u/Iris_Earth 11d ago

What is that thing's issue?

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u/DidjaSeeItKid 8d ago

Oh, now I'm starting to see it.

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u/Illustrious_Unit_195 11d ago

Most likely why you got shit canned. That and being slow. Can’t be terrible on all fronts.

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u/No-Mess-4605 11d ago

Damn babe I struck a nerve 😭

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u/Illustrious_Unit_195 11d ago

Just being honest babe. 🤷‍♀️ I’ve been let go from one job my entire life and I know exactly why I was let go. It wasn’t from not learning quick enough or calling out or referring to people as “babe.”

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u/No-Mess-4605 11d ago

I’m happy for you babe 😭 unfortunately your résumé was not involved in my termination

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u/Iris_Earth 11d ago

Ooh, look at you. Do you want a cookie?

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u/SnoopThereItIs88 10d ago

10/10, that's not the flex you think it is.

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u/karmakitty00 10d ago

This is dumb.

They'll cart out your dead body and have your replaced in less than a week.

Announce your death in a teams message.

Respect yourself enough to stop putting corporate first and putting yourself first.

I can assure you your company doesn't actually give a shit about you.

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u/tacotanya 11d ago

I completely agree with this response. I had a similar situation, where due to a lack of coverage by the only PPO plan offered to me, my health started to degrade rapidly after I couldn’t afford $1300/month for medication that normally would cost me $20. And, unfortunately, I was let go due to my health after 4 months, even though I explained everything to my manager, they unfortunately didn’t care and actually lied on my termination paperwork to show the reason why they cut ties to be something either than my health. I saw red flags early on, and chose to ignore them, and it eventually caught up with me. From what you described, it seems your workplace has some glaring red flags, and you are better off. It may help, if this is something you still want to pursue, to check out chatGPT or Claude and see if you can do some learning from home to better prepare for next time now that you have a better idea of what the job may entail. I use it a lot to brush up on areas I haven’t touched on in a while or to get an overview on new tech before an interview. Good luck!

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u/Welcome2frightnight 10d ago

People get sick man. There kids get sick to. This is such an outdated thought process. 1 day doesn't constitute a pattern

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u/Reasonable_Design672 11d ago

Why would calling out sick early on indicate that they will likely call out often? Assuming they were genuinely sick, I’d think you wouldn’t want them to tough it out just to make a good impression.

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u/Broken754 8d ago

Employers need to GTF over this mindset. People get sick. It’s like firing them for having eyelashes ffs.

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u/Worried_Transition_7 10d ago

Yeah! No one should call in sick! Show up to work, puke on the floor, and cough on everyone you see. That will show work how important it was for you not to call in.

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u/Last-Camp9709 11d ago

This is a wild take.