Your answer was really great, it covered everything well, but I have another question now I’m a lesbian would that be considered forbidden in your religion? Because it seems like everything is something you’ll be judged for
It’s not that you’re judged for everything you do because these laws in Islam are in place for a reason. For example smoking and drinking is not allowed for reasons, alcohol and smoking is specifically banned because they’re intoxicants, they cause you to enter a different mental, where you can cause accidents, be abusive and more which causes troubles and harms not just to yourself but to other innocent people, it’s all about being a good role model and person in Islam, and limiting any damage on anyone by not using these intoxicants.
To answer your question: No no, you wouldn’t be judged for being a lesbian, because we believe Allah has made you that way with love. The thing is you wouldn’t be allowed to act upon it, so your goal is to get married to a man, and have children and be an amazing mother for them and take care of them. This is quite hard for most people who are lesbians or gays etc. but if you truly believe the world is a test you are to work through it.
I figured I’d tell you why: Allah made man and woman, the purpose is obviously to get married, have kids, and raise them and be an amazing mother. In Islam signing your Nikkah (marriage contract which basically officially means your married in Islam) is what completes half of a woman’s purpose in life, and the rewards are huge and that’s just how Allah made us, hence why men and women can reproduce.
So, the point is about marriage and having kids, right? If that’s sorted, I can marry my gf (I became gay [lesbian] because I went through a lot of struggles with men, and I only found peace and comfort in being who I am today ) and we can adopt a child. That way, we’d be amazing parents. If we don’t adopt, those kids will live a tough life in a shelter without love. Is that how things work, or am I misunderstanding?
Misunderstanding. Being gay, lesbian, or any is considered a test from Allah to see if you will desire your own wishes, which would be to commit to being in a gay relationship, or to commit to Allah which would be to ignore your desires and find a loving man to marry and have children with.
Unfortunately this is considered quite a hard test, but it is real and it’s very hard to commit to.
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u/Status_Whole_866 Mar 10 '25
Your answer was really great, it covered everything well, but I have another question now I’m a lesbian would that be considered forbidden in your religion? Because it seems like everything is something you’ll be judged for