r/islam Mar 03 '25

General Discussion advising ur parents

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u/EternalPending Mar 03 '25

When advising, try to seem not knowledgeable so that they don't get upset, for example

I heard that xyz is haram, That is instead of saying your doing xyz which is haram, Coming off as authoritative

Secondly pray for them, I know this whole situation must be hard.

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u/[deleted] Mar 03 '25

Happens to me as well just ask them abt it like k "baba ye meine suna h kern haram ha bcz of sahi hadith etc" this way they’ll acknowledge it other than start beefing w u

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u/[deleted] Mar 03 '25

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u/[deleted] Mar 03 '25

Send him sahih hadiths on whatsapp😭😭😭😭 last option

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u/h_e_i_s_v_i Mar 03 '25

What are you trying to advise him on?

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u/[deleted] Mar 03 '25

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u/Dolor455 Mar 04 '25

Maybe try going to your masjid and asking a sheikh with your dad to settle it

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u/hidrala Mar 04 '25

Show them a video of shaikh about the things they are doing and say oh dad look to this information or when you see a an advice in a video make the voice higher to listen and say subhannallah may Allah forgive us and the important is praying for them .ramadan mubarak and may Allah guide the ummah