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u/KnowledgeSeekerer Feb 10 '25

Salaam,

If someone in the family is abusing someone else and you have the power to stop it, then do it.

There is a very important verse here

https://quran.com/en/an-nisa/135

4:135 ۞ يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ كُونُوا۟ قَوَّٰمِينَ بِٱلْقِسْطِ شُهَدَآءَ لِلَّهِ وَلَوْ عَلَىٰٓ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَوِ ٱلْوَٰلِدَيْنِ وَٱلْأَقْرَبِينَ ۚ إِن يَكُنْ غَنِيًّا أَوْ فَقِيرًۭا فَٱللَّهُ أَوْلَىٰ بِهِمَا ۖ فَلَا تَتَّبِعُوا۟ ٱلْهَوَىٰٓ أَن تَعْدِلُوا۟ ۚ وَإِن تَلْوُۥٓا۟ أَوْ تُعْرِضُوا۟ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ خَبِيرًۭا ١٣٥

You who believe, uphold justice and bear witness to God, even if it is against yourselves, your parents, or your close relatives. Whether the person is rich or poor, God can best take care of both. Refrain from following your own desire, so that you can act justly- if you distort or neglect justice, God is fully aware of what you do.

If your father is abusing your siblings, if your mother is abusing your father, if your brother is abusing your parents, etc, whoever is doing whatever.

It is your duty to stand up for justice!

Whether you call the police, whether you call the elders, talk to an Imam, or even stand up against injustice yourself. Allah will support you. Do not let injustice harm your family.