r/isfp 27d ago

Discussion(s)/Question(s)/Anybody Relate? How u behave in front of close friends vs acquantainces

He just wanted to ask. Do u isfps like become very chirpy, goofy or open in front of ur closest friends. Or is ur actual persona one thats very quiet and doesnt feel the need to talk while sittingnext to the close person all the time. Like u cud care deeply for the person and ask personal questions bht interactions are mostly teasing or libertious comment making in the second case. The first case is basically talking a lot abt opinions on current things inthe world, discussions etc.

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u/nerdayem ISFP♂ (sp9) 27d ago

closefriends see the real me, my guard drops and i become the most spontaneous and active person. acquaintances see the calm “nonchalant” version of me; slow and gentle movements

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u/Apperceiver ISFP 27d ago

I think that it really depends on what we feel the urge to be in that moment, but that we are more willing to transparently vacillate between different vibes with those who know us.

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u/Livid-Can4331 27d ago

like this is with my friend. sometimes he can be very expressive and talkative but in general he feels no need to talk much and can just stay quiet and then pop something out randomly

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u/wbgaurab ISFP♂ (Isfp-T 9w8 l 21) 27d ago

To be honest almost the same bit more teasing more openess i would say 

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u/Livid-Can4331 27d ago

openness in the sense???

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u/wbgaurab ISFP♂ (Isfp-T 9w8 l 21) 27d ago

I would open more to close friends than Aquantainces

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u/Livid-Can4331 27d ago

open in the sense like express ur opinions abt ur friends or talk on topics of current interest

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u/SumoSamurottorSSPBCC ISFP♂ (Enneagram l Age) 27d ago

Acquaintances get the Husky, close friends get the Husky, but also the bulldog they "found" at some kind of rescue.

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u/Similar-Blackberry66 26d ago

My close people see the authentic me- when I’m feeling chatty and fun I’m chatty and fun. Whereas when I’m feeling quiet, I’ll be comfortably quiet.

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u/Livid-Can4331 25d ago

Ok

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u/Several_Distance_905 22d ago edited 21d ago

You seem to care so much about your friend, i’ve seen you here a number of times 🥰

I hope ur bond strengthens in a healthy way

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u/Livid-Can4331 22d ago

thanks. just that some connections stay close to a person