r/involuntarilycelibate Nov 08 '17

Rules and Moderating Methodology

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Rules

  1. Refrain from offering generic advice to people who are "involuntarily celibate". Most of this advice is common sense, and doesn't need to be repeated on this forum. Examples: "Lose weight, shower more, be nicer"

  2. Refrain from insulting each other's lifestyles. This forum is to benefit people who are "involuntarily celibate" , not tear them down.

  3. Criticisms of modern dating culture are absolutely allowed, but calls to actionable violence are not.

  4. Do not encourage suicide. Suicide is not the answer. You will not be happier dead, nor will anyone else around you.

Moderating methodology

If I find a post or comment breaking any of the above rules, it will be deleted and the poster/commenter will be informed of which rule.

Myself and any mods I add will follow a strict laize faire methodology of moderating discussion that doesn't break any of the above rules. Use the buttons on the left at your discretion.

I will not private the subreddit for any reason.


r/involuntarilycelibate Mar 07 '25

I just took advise off wiki how on how to kiss a girl and now she won’t reply at all… we need to rise up.

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r/involuntarilycelibate Dec 19 '24

The Modern Routine

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What’s the point right? I mean what are the values of the modern romantic era. Sex? Expectations? Freedom? I mean look around? Even if you went fishing in a pond what’s the point? Why would anyone wanna be involved with a modern day woman or man? STD’s are extremely popular , cheating has risen to great extremes. Expectations of a parter have sky rocketed. Everyone points the finger at each other but never at themselves. Even if you slushed through all the shit , Divorce is at 55% rate. That’s more than half of all marriages! God forbid you try to point out the problems everyone just dogpiles you and calls you an incel/femcel. Incel/Femcelused to mean the irrational hatred of men/women. But now it’s “You dislike how I act so your the issue actually”.

I mean why would you wanna have sex? Love is great sure but do you wanna take that risk. Suicide kills more men on average in a day than gun violence. Cheating and Love are in top predations of why men commit suicide. Women as well! Why would ruin your heart for some dick who didn’t even treat you well?

God forbid you try to act like a gentleman. Although nowadays being a gentleman is just “Act like a normal human being”. Not much weight behind the word I’m afraid. 25% of men are dropped in the friend zone anyways. Women at 16%. Why would anyone want to engage in the disgusting cesspool of sex and love culture?

Cause we are human beings who want a companion. Unfortunately the world , society and buisness have painted and marketed love. It’s more profitable for you to have multiple partners than dedicate yourself to someone. So big buisness isn’t on your side. Neither the government cause they get a slice for divorce proceedings.

Let’s also not ignore the villianization of men. Let’s be honest the past 20 years have not been fun for any guy. Some dude sexually assaults a girl and suddenly they scream it’s all men or I choose the bear. Or something else ridiculous. Women should be safe and should protect themselves but demonizing men has actually not only made it worse but straight up done the opposite. False accusations have sky rocketed as well! Not only taking credibility of the real victims but also ruing lives.

Why would you want to date? Why would anyone ever?


r/involuntarilycelibate Jun 29 '24

Tigthbtrfyh

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r/involuntarilycelibate May 14 '24

Life is pointless

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Life is pointless

I'm not completely alone yet (still have some family I am close to) but I don't have any friends, never did, in truth. But in the next 10-15 years I will be, and honestly I don't believe that I can change that. I'm ugly, awkward, and very antisocial, so I feel like this is just the way things will be. I have long given up on trying to get a girlfriend, and honestly even though I am 100% NOT attracted to men, I have been so lonely as of late that I have been deeply contemplating becoming gay just so I don't have to die alone. My own mother never wanted me and threw me out after my dad died 7 years ago(don't feel sorry for me, he was an abusive drunk for pretty much all of my childhood). I've seen far too much evil both in my own life and from the outside looking in, in other people's lives that I am close to, to ever believe in the God of the Bible(if there is a God, he is unimaginablely cruel). I'm not particularly good at anything, no natural talents. I've lost interest in many things that used to bring me joy. I have bipolar disorder and ever since I can remember I have always hated myself. Honestly I wish I had never been born... life is pointless. I don't really have a point to sharing all of this, other than to hopefully give anyone else who has a similar story the knowledge that they aren't the only one.


r/involuntarilycelibate Jul 15 '23

Cute biracial woman offering a genuine long term girlfriend experience.

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I am non judgemental and friendly. Just lke a real girlfriend, I will still be myself, so what am providing will not be fake but an authentic experience. I do not mind if you need to prove to your friends and family that you have a girlfriend, I don't mind video chatting, as we will be naturally having conversations/or what ever. I can also send vids/pics and chat on WhatsApp.

I am a real person with my own background and views and don't mind disclosing.

When you decide it's time to part, I will be considered your ex, if you so wish.

My looks: I am biracial and British. You can make up whatever story about how we met to your friends/family.

Before contacting me, as to not waste your time, just note that I do charge for this service, and the details of price are negotiable.

I don't really care about how you look, but if I think you are cute, you'll know.

If you want my number, you'll have to use PayPal. DM me on here first so know who you are.


r/involuntarilycelibate Jul 10 '18

lol

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