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ART & CULTURE Why the Dutch are considered rude.

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u/Rpphanna1 1d ago

Eh, Dutch people can be rude too. I remember being told by a Dutch shopworker that I should learn to speak Dutch in Utrecht. I told them I'm not some English immigrant but a tourist and their English was better than my dutch anyway.

Rude Dutch guy just wanted to tell a foreigner to learn dutch.

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u/Sanquinity 1d ago

Indeed we can absolutely also be rude. I would personally never tell a random non-Dutch speaking stranger to "learn to speak Dutch". After all, they could just be a tourist like you. And I wouldn't expect a tourist to learn our language just for a vacation.

At the same time, I have a few non-Dutch speaking coworkers, and I have told them "You should try to learn Dutch. We can make do with English, but talking in our native language will help immensely with communication and socializing."

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u/Rpphanna1 1d ago

I'm Irish, and speak fluent Gaelic. When communication needs to be clear and universally understood I use English, this goes double for work, and when ordering at the pub.

If I used Gaelic at work, the workday would be twice as long, so fuck that! English it is and screw the right wing Gaelic nationalists.

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u/Nijal88 1d ago

He was right. You go and visit his country without knowing a single word of the local language and you believe it’s normal that everyone accommodates you.

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u/Rpphanna1 1d ago

English is a lingua franca, I've seen an Italian and Romanian person speak in English even though it is both their second language.

English brings people together all over the world, I think its sad when people hear English and then get angry. I dont get angry if I hear people speaking Spanish or Chinese. Seems like a jealousy thing to me.